How to get men to spend money for you?

All I know is that routine relationships don't last long. In love, money is often the biggest factor affecting the feelings between two people. Maybe two people don't care too much about money when they are in love, but once there is a problem in their relationship, money will become a big problem, so I have always adhered to the AA system in the process of love. I chose to stick to AA system for the following reasons.

First, everyone is not rich economically. For the student party, many times the economy will not be very affluent, mainly from the support of parents, and many times I will do some part-time jobs, but relatively speaking, it is difficult for one person to afford the life between two people. Especially for some boys, their living expenses are not much. Going out with your girlfriend, if you want to save face blindly, will lead to your own financial difficulties to a great extent, so when everyone is not rich, AA system is the best way.

Second, love needs to be paid. In love life, the other party can't just know how to pay blindly. Many times, it is necessary for two people to pay the same, even economically. In life, there are always some girls who are totally dependent on boys. Once two people are involved in economic problems, both boys pay the bill, while girls only know how to enjoy it, which is a very incorrect value. Falling in love is a matter for two people. The emotional and economic efforts between two people need to be consistent. Only when two people make the same efforts will the feelings be more meaningful.

Third, avoid contradictions. Many times money will cause some contradictions. In this process, in order to avoid causing some unnecessary contradictions, the best way is AA system. Once there is a problem in the relationship between two people, they can walk away cleanly, not because of some money problems.