What does it mean to be friends?

What does it mean to be friends? Everyone will have friends more or less, and those who have no friends will be eager to have friends. But what is a friend and how to be a friend? What are the answers to these questions? Let's see what friends mean.

What does a friend mean? 1 In the real society, people are becoming more and more hypocritical. Almost everyone wears a veil and is insincere. `

The word "friend" is becoming more and more abstract. The meaning of friends has different concepts in different people's eyes.

Friends, no matter how long they know each other, no matter how many times they meet, are friends as long as they treat each other sincerely. Some people try to compliment their friends when they are in need, and when they achieve their goals, they laugh or even laugh at irony in front of other friends. Actually, this is not a friend. This is just a tool you want to use when you are in trouble.

Friend, you don't have to contact every day, and you don't have to report everything to you. Friends, the longer the more true, the more simple and pure, the more sincere.

A true friend, when you make a fool of yourself, he won't laugh at you, when you are in trouble, he won't look at you and sneer, when you are excellent, he won't be jealous of you, when you tell him the secret. He won't destroy you. When you are sad, he will have sincere words to persuade you, and when you are worried about your work, he can accompany you to relieve boredom. A true friend is only one step behind his lover and one level below his parents. A true friend can accompany you all your life, forever. ...

A true friend will listen to you when you are in trouble, and will not just treat it as someone else's business as a joke. A true friend will try his best to help you, understand you and give you a helping hand.

A true friend will never forget your name and what you did.

True friends don't swear at each other, because friends respect each other. Even if there is any contradiction, they will keep it in their hearts. At most, they will alienate each other and will not swear. If you can scold your friend, you are not a real friend.

There are many sayings about true friends. In my eyes, this is a true friend. If a person has two such friends, then I think this person is really happy and lucky. However, there are always few lucky people. ..

What does it mean to be friends? 1. Friends are "useful"

The abuse of the word "friend" is probably second only to "love". It is precisely because of its frequent misuse that people naturally misunderstand it, and the word "friend" is widely used in Falling Prices.

A sincere friend is a close friend.

They are not playmates, drinkers,' comforters' when they are lonely, spiritual shelters,' contacts' based on interests or practical effects, and even less casual rhetoric or social rhetoric in the scene.

"friends" are often not a group of people who are coaxed around, nor are they a circle that appears together;

A "friend" is not a person who agrees with and caters to all your thoughts or opinions, nor is it a person who compromises everything and blindly follows you;

"Friends" are not followers, vassals and foil, but people who are equal in personality and spirit;

"Friends" rarely hit it off at first sight, because the closeness of the soul and the harmony of the spirit often need to be "as deep as a knife, as sharp as a knife" in time.

If we think that "friends" are our spiritual refuge, we can vent our helpless sadness to him without thinking, regardless of whether he likes it or not and what his living conditions are, then I am afraid we are too selfish as "friends".

What we do is not good for our friends.

Maybe we should realize that at this time, in the name of "friend", we regard him as our emotional vent object and language trash can, and let innocent people bear the grievances that should be digested by themselves without restraint-this is an abuse of friendship and a loss to friends. In fact, we waste precious time with friends in such endless complaints.

Friends share "bitterness" but not "resentment", because "bitterness" is the suffering of the soul and "resentment" is the poison gas of emotions; The suffering of friends is often our suffering, and a person will never have the heart to cover his friends' lives with the poisonous fog of his emotions and pollute them.

Second, friends are "useless".

The reason why we make friends, need friends and love friends is not because they are "useful".

Friends should not "use", find a safe channel to vent their emotions, seek comfort, set off their sense of superiority, and don't have an extra "helper" or "accomplice" ......

Friends give us love and care, share the richness of our hearts and the beauty of life, give us the tacit understanding brought by mutual understanding, and give us the air-like sense of existence and trust that "I don't always think of it, but it is everywhere".

When we are with friends, we don't expect anything, but our inner relaxation and unintentional fluency without mutual excuses have satisfied us.

One of my same-sex friends describes the empathy between friends like this: "Holding hands is speechless, but the mind is clear".

Indeed, her casual sentence "I don't know you yet" often makes me feel moved and lucky-you know me just like I know you know me, and you don't need much explanation, because you do.

I remember graduation season many years ago. A friend of the opposite sex is about to leave school to work in a distant place, and I will stay at school to continue my studies. The day before we left, we walked and chatted on campus. Graduation was originally a happy thing, but saying goodbye was a little sad.

He said to me, "You are my best friend. Can I give you a hug before you leave? "

Before I could answer, he was a little embarrassed and explained falteringly: "Actually, I didn't mean anything special ... Of course, I didn't have any rude thoughts ... In fact, it's okay if I don't hold it ..."

I remember pulling him into my arms and saying in his ear, "I don't need to explain, I understand." You are also my best friend. I wish you all the best in the future! "

We all know the meaning of this hug, there is no doubt in it, so there is no need to worry about it.

Third, friends are not practical things, but luxury goods.

When there are practical difficulties, we don't ask friends for help, borrow money, find jobs for us, and don't want friends to come forward to smooth our troubles.

At this point, friendship and love are very similar, pure, beautiful, almost sacred, and it is an emotional relationship based on mutual affinity.

You don't want your soul mate to take on too many practical utilitarian purposes because of your personal reasons. Because you love your friend and love him, you don't want to add trouble to him easily, and you don't want your simple friendship to become complicated and tangled because of any non-friendship factors.

It is often said that a friend of a gentleman is as light as water. We would rather let our friends be so useless and idle than muddy the clear water.

Sometimes, because the clear water is too Ming Che to see the end, it will give the uninformed people an illusion that there is no water and that these two people are not friends, just like a piece of clear and translucent glass, which often makes people unaware of its existence and bump into it helplessly.

We don't often talk about our friends, and we don't show off our profound friendship in front of outsiders. We don't even meet and communicate with friends often, so many people may not know that we have a long-term friendship with friends. But even if we haven't seen each other for a long time, once we meet and communicate, we still have a tacit understanding as always, as if we had never been apart.

Friends are not practical things, but luxury goods.

He doesn't meet the practical standards, but he makes life gorgeous.

"It is enough to have a confidant in life", and having friends is already a kind of happiness.

Therefore, if your so-called "friend" is a tool that you can use whenever you want, then you are not divorced from the practical and utilitarian level.

The above excerpt is taken from "Good Loneliness".

What does it mean to be friends? 3. Like-minded. I think everyone will know what this idiom means when they see it! Friends who have the same hobbies can work together and fight side by side for the same ideal. This is a necessary factor to become friends. There is an old saying that a good fish looks for a fish and a shrimp looks for a shrimp. How can we be friends without similar interests and topics?

Second, sincerity. Whether you are in love or making friends, you should hold a sincere heart. Only if you treat others sincerely and let others feel it, then others will treat you with the same heart.

Fourth, trust. What this era lacks most is the trust between people. A true friend is to approach each other's heart, talk about everything, trust each other, and never doubt each other because of external factors.

Fifth, strong backing. In fact, the most powerful source of doing anything is not only family and love, but also friends. I believe that sometimes, some things can only be discussed with friends. Friends are another source. If there is anything, friends can be their strong backing.

Sixth, cherish. It is fate that people can get to know each other, let alone become friends. To learn to cherish, there is a saying that you rely on relatives at home and friends when you go out. With friends around, someone can discuss things together. If you don't even have a friend who gets rid of your loved ones, you will be very lonely and miserable. Learn to cherish this fate.