How to improve your own pattern

How to be a person with a strong heart

1, never acting for himself. Learning is learning, and playing games is playing games. I know I have to work hard, but I won't pretend to work hard. I study until two o'clock every day. Actually, I spend most of my time playing with my mobile phone, so I'd better go to bed early.

You don't need to get a sense of identity from others. No matter how you treat others, you should follow the principle of being yourself. Whether others like it or not will not affect your opinion of yourself, because your sense of identity with yourself comes from your own heart, not from the eyes of others.

You can quickly forget unhappy things. Even if the clients I met today are difficult, I will never worry after work. I can still cook three bowls of rice for dinner.

4. Don't run away from things you hate. Advanced mathematics is difficult to learn, but you can spend more time asking others for advice. The work is difficult, but you are willing to face it and solve things without difficulty. Only dogs that don't work hard.

You may not like it, but you will respect others. I saw comments on the internet that were different from my own views, and I sprayed them without coming up. Others have different orientations, although they don't understand, they will respect his ideas; Relatives are always worried about not finding their other half. Although I hate it, I won't ignore each other's kindness.

6. Try to be perfect, but accept imperfection. Sprint towards the goal of being the first in the exam, but you won't feel sorry for yourself if you get the second. As long as you work hard and continue to refuel next time, you can enjoy the best and accept the worst.

7. You can face everything you hate calmly, but you won't go with the flow. When you meet someone you hate or something you don't like, you will be polite even if you don't like it. I will not be dissatisfied because others are not good to me, and I will not be like each other in the end.

8. Make others feel comfortable without feeling wronged. For example, when a friend asks me for help, he can help if he can, and simply refuses.

9. Don't complain when you encounter difficulties. When you first enter the workplace, you will have many skills and many things you don't understand. At this time, I will definitely overcome the students' thinking and fear of difficulties bit by bit. I will try my best to climb if I can, and I will never give myself a chance to make salted fish.

10, dare to admit mistakes and dare to change. If you do something wrong, you will admit it as soon as possible. You won't hide it for fear of losing face, and you won't let your mistakes cause more serious consequences. Once found, it will be changed immediately.

1 1, suffered betrayal, but still believed in sincerity. Some people are hurt by love rat. They think all men have problems. Some people like girls who run away with other rich people and don't believe in love at first. But when you don't believe it, you want it. Isn't that a dream?

12, don't give off negative energy in public places, but really digest it yourself. Send a circle of friends when quarreling with your boyfriend, send a circle of friends when you are lovelorn, send a circle of friends when you are reconciled, and send a circle of friends when you fart. It bothers everyone to read it.

13, with a sense of "self-boundary". Friends always stand you up more than three times, stay away from him, and don't forgive each other's unreasonable behavior just because they regard him as a friend. Your generosity now will only become a loan that the other party despises you.

14, dare to resist when being treated unfairly. Colleagues always rob customers behind their backs, and leaders always give themselves little shoes in secret. When this happens, they will fight with him and finish their work. They usually don't make trouble, but they are not afraid of things at critical moments.

15, I realized that I am just an ordinary person, and I can't save the world like Superman, but I can be my own Superman and run to my desired goal.

16, soft mouth, hard body. When others help you or you do something wrong, you will always say "I'm sorry" and "thank you", but you should handle things well and not violate the principle because of others' subjective wishes.

17, the courage to face failure calmly. Failure is not terrible. The terrible thing is, because of a little failure, I feel that my life is like this. When I encounter failure, I dare to face it and turn the page instead of falling into it.

18, realized the reality of life, but lived unrealistically. I just wanted to be a writer before, but now I want to earn more money and buy more favorite things for my parents. But in my spare time, I still spend time doing something I like to practice my hands.

19, don't use your family as an excuse to escape from reality. I may have been neglected by my parents when I was a child, but I grew up indifferent, so I can cure myself by learning psychological knowledge, instead of blaming my parents for all the bad things I did.

20, the pursuit of material, but will not be kidnapped by material, now young people who do not love money? But I will find a way to earn it myself, instead of always thinking about relying on my parents and friends. In the end, I often can't rely on anyone.