The best way to deal with people who stand in your way.

Don't waste your time if it's an ineffective social interaction.

For those who keep you out of your circle of friends, if they have nothing to do with you, understand and accept them and treat them in the same way.

You are not in his circle, and he is not in your circle. You are just a useless social worker. Don't waste your time on these unimportant people.

Open your WeChat address book, see how many friends you have, and then think about how many you can really confide in and how many you need to contact frequently, and you will understand that you don't need to waste your time and energy on those unequal relationships.

In fact, everyone will have people who want to be blocked, some may be to protect personal privacy, some may be to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings, and some may be because your relationship has undergone subtle changes, but you didn't notice it.

I remember Wang Han once said in a program that when the number of friends reaches 100 or more, it will be a bit scary, and all the meaningless ones will be deleted. He said that this kind of life is very easy, all the time is his own, he lives comfortably and feels that his whole life has changed. He even said on the show that he deleted WeChat in Chen Kun and Fan Bingbing. I have also been criticized by Wang Han. What a sober, distinct and self-centered person I am.

In my own words, I have the habit of cleaning up WeChat friends regularly. I also think that too many friends will have an invisible pressure. Some of them may be zombie friends. I will never want to contact each other in my life, otherwise there will be no contact between us. Just at an accidental time, because of some necessary things, we added WeChat to each other. In fact, I am not in his world, and he is not in my world. Instead of occupying a dispensable position, it is better to clean up and purify my space in time.

After cleaning up, I will have a refreshing sense of control over my life, control my circle of friends, understand who I should associate with, and focus on what kind of circle I should associate with. I won't distract my precious energy because of those strangers and really spend my limited time on the most important things.

As for those who gossip or have different opinions, but have to touch them occasionally because of work contact, I will choose to block them, which will not affect my work, but also reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles and some right and wrong.

If you can't understand other people's behavior because you don't have the habit of blocking or deleting friends, you don't have to worry, because everyone has their own survival principles, and we just need to respect and accept this difference.

Here, I also want to say sorry to those friends who have been deleted or blocked by me. If one day, you find that you have been deleted or blocked by me, please don't be sad. It's not your fault, but my way of life. I am not important to you, but your position in my heart is the same, so we can only get along.

If you agree with each other, you may wish to extend a warm hand.

Of course, for those who have good conduct, appreciate themselves and want to make friends with them, you need to communicate with each other sincerely and skillfully. You can try to show your excellent, warm and popular side and make them like you. At the same time, express your appreciation for each other and let them feel their importance. Through careful management, they can eventually become people in your circle.