What if I hate grandma?

After listening to what you said so much, I feel that you are quite ambivalent for your grandmother. I can see that you attach great importance to family harmony and hope that your family can get along well, but many of grandma's practices make you dislike grandma, but at the same time, I also think that grandma is your family, and it seems bad to dislike others. After all, she is also your family. Although you hope you like grandma's house, there are many things that you really can't like. I think many of the behaviors you mentioned above are not only disliked by you, but also disliked by most people. Nobody likes people who don't like their parents. If I were you, I would ask my parents why grandma doesn't like them and why grandma has such a big prejudice against you. Knowing the reason, you can understand grandma's behavior. Many times we don't like a person because we think she doesn't like us. Besides, others can tell what grandma is like. If everyone around her doesn't like grandma, it's grandma's problem, but if everyone likes her very much, only you don't like her, think about your own reasons. Whether you like grandma or not, don't blame yourself too much. Everyone can choose what he likes and dislikes. There's no need to force it. Even if that person is your relative, remember that you can choose to hate someone, but don't hurt her. After all, she is your mother's mother. Without her, there would be no you. O(∩_∩)O~

Can you solve your problem?