Why do you say that a woman's life is what kind of man she marries?

As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person; Did you marry the right person?

It is said that a woman can have two children in her life, but she can't choose the first child, because life is given by her parents, and we can't choose our parents.

The second time is to get married. It doesn't matter whether a woman is born or not. What matters is whether she is married or not.

Even if a woman comes from a bad family, marries well and meets the right person, she will be happy.

But the following three kinds of men must be cautious when meeting.

A lazy man can't afford marriage.

Daling used to love to play. She has become a virtuous representative since she got married.

Early in the morning, I was as busy as a bee in the kitchen, while my husband was snoring in bed.

After work, he buys food, picks up children, cooks and helps with homework, but her husband crosses his legs and turns a blind eye.

In this way, Daling runs around the house, goes to work at two o'clock and one line, waits on her husband and takes care of her children.

The whole person is as busy as a gyro, and there is no energy or spare money to go to any beauty salon.

You married a husband, and he married a nanny.

He enjoys your free pay, but never actively shares your fatigue and never cares about your difficulties.

He watched you grow old after a hard day's work, but never sent a warm greeting.

Being busy is not an excuse, being lazy is the reason.

At a deeper level, he is actually selfish.

Marry such a man, and you will only work hard.

A foolish and filial man can't see his wife's injustice.

When the TV series "Everything is OK" was on fire, there was a topic on Weibo:

Of the three men in the Su family, who got married last?

The boss Su Mingzhe was elected with the highest number of votes.

Su Mingzhe seems steady and knowledgeable, but in fact he is ignorant and selfish.

After his mother died, he went back to China to attend the funeral without consulting his wife Wu Fei.

Decided to buy a house for his father Su Daqiang in full, and hired a nanny for 24 hours.

I just bought a house for my dad. What happened? ?

In fact, he has long been unemployed, and the pressure of mortgage and family expenses falls on Wu Fei. He spent a lot of money on his father, but Wu Fei couldn't sleep in America and cried for a living. A person who doesn't understand filial piety is at best a? Good boy? But it must be a dereliction of duty husband and father.

A truly mature man will know that in a beautiful marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is always the first. Small family? Been waiting in line? Everyone? Before.

Because after all, parents and children can only accompany him for a ride, and his wife is the one who will accompany him through thick and thin all his life.

There is nothing wrong with filial piety.

What is wrong is that parents are obedient to unreasonable demands and always choose to sacrifice their small family when there is a conflict of interest;

In order to make my parents happy, I took my wife and children to suffer together.

Married to such a man, the marriage life will only be restless and fragmented.

A playboy will only let his wife Lacrimosa every day.

I have seen a set of data before, saying that the divorce rate is getting higher every year.

This also shows from the side that people in modern society are not so awed by marriage, and it is easy to get married and divorce.

For a woman, when she decides to get married and spend the rest of her life with a complete stranger, she must see his true colors.

A playboy man must not be unfaithful to feelings and dishonest to sexual relations.

Xiao Juan is 28 years old and has been married to her husband for three years. Recently, she was in great pain because her husband cheated her again.

Why again? Because this is the third time we've been together in three years. Xiao Juan thought about divorce, but every time she was forgiven by his various confessions and apologies.

The husband burst into tears for the first time and was very remorseful. He said he wouldn't do it again. If he thunders again, he will die of natural causes. Because of his sincerity, Xiao Juan forgave him.

The second time, her husband was caught cheating, and Xiao Juan insisted on divorce.

After her husband's efforts failed, he stood on the roof and threatened to die. To save a life, Xiao Juan relented and forgave him.

After her husband cheated on her several times, Xiao Juan was disheartened and spent all her time in Lacrimosa.

This time, she is determined to get a divorce. No matter what the man is like, she must leave, because a playboy man can't be trusted at all.

In fact, in my opinion, Xiao Juan should have divorced a long time ago, and a man who is unfaithful to his lover will never be tolerated.

Although it has been said that a man in marriage is like driving a train, it is inevitable that he will cheat several times.

But I still hope that women will find a man who treats feelings and marriage with awe and piety from the beginning.

Loyal marriage, loyal lover, such a man, although rare, I hope you can meet him from the beginning.

After all, life is short, and everyone has only one chance.

Never waste your feelings on a playboy.

Marry such a man, in addition to endless sadness, only Lacrimosa all day long.

Audrey? Hepburn once said:

Externally, two people are together, internally, for how long. ?

When you get married, you should not only look at the five senses, but also look at his three views.

We have already passed the age of listening to love, and feelings are not just words.

Please remember: he is what he is after marriage.

Don't fantasize that he will become what you think after marriage, it is fantasy and does not exist;

Life should be based on reality, not fiction.

Love can only follow your heart, and marriage must follow your brain.

What kind of man you choose determines what kind of life you will experience next.

I hope every woman can find a partner who agrees with your three views and cares about your life.

I would rather get married late than easily. I would rather stop loss in time than run out of youth.

After all, the ultimate goal of marriage is that the happiness of two people together will be greater than that of one person.