Three measures to deal with stingy mother-in-law and resolve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Before I married my husband, I heard that my mother-in-law was very stingy. In other words, she is simple and frugal. At the beginning, I also thought that thrift was the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which was a good thing. However, when I really married my husband, I realized that my mother-in-law's frugality also had a name called "stingy".

It's hard to believe. For example, there are two layers of paper towels, but she has to uncover one layer. She also said that it would be a waste to use two floors at a time. There are countless examples like this, which makes me a black sheep really miserable. But there are policies on the top and countermeasures on the bottom, so the war with my stingy mother-in-law began from the door where I married them.

Trick 1: Pies fall from the sky. My mother-in-law is very economical. She usually doesn't like us to buy some expensive clothes, saying that those brand clothes are scary and of average quality. So every time I buy expensive clothes, I take off the label and take it home. My mother-in-law will ask why there is no label, and I will say that the one I bought at the stall has no label. This is a trick I have tried every time. I feel proud to watch my mother-in-law brag about her good taste in the so-called "cheap goods"

Trick 2: Do as you say. Although old people sometimes say the wrong thing, they can't say it directly. He should learn to "obey" her teaching, so that her mother-in-law will feel that this daughter-in-law can correct her mistakes and relax her vigilance. Then, even if she commits a crime, as long as she admits her mistake properly, her mother-in-law will naturally let go of her past cleverness. Of course, I don't want you to give in to Nuo Nuo, but let you learn to respect your mother-in-law and don't quarrel with her. If you quarrel with a young man and an old man, it is unfilial even if it is reasonable.

Trick 3: attack planning. Although my mother-in-law is not my real mother, she is my husband's mother after all. Therefore, it is very important to "curry favor" with her old man's house once in a while. I don't mean to let you fight with your mother-in-law, but to let you learn to show some love to your mother-in-law at an appropriate time and let her know that you respect and love her. Buy a small gift for my mother-in-law occasionally. I promise, even a cold mother-in-law will laugh like a flower. Don't say that mother-in-law is not good, that's not good, don't we have many shortcomings ourselves?

If you have a stingy mother-in-law, then don't just complain. They just suffered too much and cherish the good life now. So there is a stingy mother-in-law at home, and love is a good medicine to resolve contradictions.