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If you want to make your marriage last, I'll give you three pieces of advice.

How to maintain intimate relationship and how to stop internal friction? Let's talk about it below.

1, improve self-attention.

Many people always put too much emphasis on honesty in marriage and have no time to take care of themselves. Sometimes marriage is us, but sometimes, in marriage, we need to have me, and we need to allow each other to have me. It is difficult to take care of another person's feelings all the time. I am too tired to have my own independent space and freedom.

If you can't accept your partner's true colors, don't allow him to be himself freely, but force him to change, or wronged himself to cooperate with each other, this is not an intimate relationship at all, just getting what he wants.

2. Learn to respond positively

In marriage, everyone will encounter problems that cannot be communicated. You said he wouldn't listen, and you hoped he wouldn't listen. The most important thing is to know the correct language of love and stop stabbing each other with the wrong language.

Both sides can appropriately change the way of speaking and listening, learn to observe their emotions, understand their real needs, and then express themselves frankly and clearly, which will certainly have far-reaching influence and significance in running a happy marriage.

3. Change your cognition and learn to give up.

A good marriage is not a lifetime without divorce, but the courage and confidence to get off at any time. Whether single or married, it is just a way of life. The key is what kind of life we want. Divorce is not a failure, but an open growth. Life is always self-fulfilling. When you live to be the best of yourself, the marriage that once made you miserable is just a drop in the ocean for the rest of your rich life.

It's sad to spend my whole life in the internal friction of marriage. Being in a suffocating marriage can't be comforted for a long time, and decisive evacuation is the only way. Divorce is not terrible. The terrible thing is to give up loving yourself, giving up growing up, limiting all your possibilities with the imaginary tragic situation after divorce, tying yourself up and desperately suffering from a bad marriage for life.