What are the performances of not being a man?

The performance of not being a man is: always doubting what others are doing, being malicious, narrow-minded and difficult to get along with others. Treat life events with a complaining attitude, regret the past, and rarely get satisfaction.

In addition, other performances include: trying to please everyone, but always looking at other people's faces.

I want to please all parties, but I am not a person inside and out. If you are unwilling to do small things, you can't do big things. Refuse to try a new way of life and work. Treat life with a negative attitude. Do things from beginning to end, change your mind. Never take anything seriously.

The goal of life is too high, divorced from reality, and it is still impossible to achieve after years of hard work. So it is inevitable that there will be frustration and even depression. Being a man has no rules, and the grass falls with the wind all day. Always obey others, never have personal opinions, and so on.