Why do many people who used to work hard in Shenzhen not go to Shenzhen after marriage?

Many people who used to work hard in Shenzhen stopped going to Shenzhen after they got married, mostly for practical reasons.

First, I am married and want to be with my wife/husband and children. Many people who work hard outside the home will go back to their hometown to find someone when they get married. First of all, they know more about roots. Second, girls in big cities usually look down on migrant workers. Once married and have children, everyone will want to be with their partner and family. Because staying together will be more caring, better cultivate feelings and maintain the family, and there will be no problems because one party stays behind. If both husband and wife go out to work, it is also a problem that the elderly are unattended. So once you get married, slowly everyone will start to develop in their hometown.

Second, it is the issue of economic ability. When I was single, it didn't matter how bad I lived and ate in Shenzhen. But after having a partner and children, we will want to make them live better. In fact, if you are not a very good person, the quality of life in big cities is generally not high. It is better to go back to second-and third-tier cities, which is more suitable for life and more affordable. The problem of not going to Shenzhen after marriage is also based on the first point.

Third, children's education. In many schools in Shenzhen, it is cruel. The children of floating population face many difficulties in going to school, not only economically, but also in entering school. Children are better taught by their parents. Grandparents are generally unwilling to beat and scold, and they don't know how to educate them. So even if you like Shenzhen again, it's useless. When it comes to children, everyone will give in. My aunt's family has been in Shenzhen for almost 30 years, and my cousin graduated from college and got a Shenzhen hukou. Before that, the problem of reading was simply piled up with money, which was extremely difficult. Not everything can be solved by your money.

This is why everyone I know is married and no longer goes to Shenzhen. I don't know if you are the same.