After my father left, my stepmother raised me 18 years. I was going to get married, but my stepmother said that I didn't deserve to attend the wedding. What should I do?

? All the glory and pride in the world come from mothers? Gorky? . Motherly love is great. Whether it is your biological mother or stepmother, she raised you and is more qualified to attend your wedding. There is a simple reason. Without a stepmother, there would be no you today.

There are many things in life that are unpredictable and there is no way. Who can escape disease and death? When your father left, your stepmother didn't abandon you. She raised you as her own. This kind of love is even greater, because it exceeds normal maternal love.

You should sit down and talk to your stepmother. You should let her know that she is not only qualified to attend your wedding, but also confident and confident, because in your heart, she is your biological mother and your closest relative. No matter what she looks like, no matter whether she has noble status or not, she is a noble and great woman.

You are about to usher in the happiest moment of your life, but your mother's words are sad. Why is she like this? Maybe it's because your father left early. Lost? Backbone? Our family always looks very fragile, which makes the hostess feel inferior. From another angle, it is also reminding everyone that life is not easy and health is more important.

Who took away the health in your life? For a person, the lifestyle 20 years ago determines his physical condition 20 years later. Scientific research has found that many diseases (such as obesity, hypertension, coronary heart disease, stroke, diabetes and some malignant tumors, etc. ) It's all caused by people's bad lifestyle.

In fact, many times, people die not from disease, but from ignorance. Take rabies as an example. The mortality rate is 100%. According to incomplete statistics, there are about1.200 million dogs in China. Looking around, how many people keep dogs correctly? The number of rabies patients is also increasing year by year.

In addition, diseases caused by smoking and drinking are not small. According to statistics, the death toll of lung cancer in China has surpassed other malignant tumors, ranking first. At present, about 200 million men and 24 million women in China are smokers, and they can't put it down. I don't know, do you? Kissing? It's the devil eating away at your body.

Speaking of lifestyle, it's natural not to go on a diet. Now that living conditions are good, how many people can go home and cook for a living? Ordering takeout became the norm, and high-fat foods such as big fish and big meat filled the table. Wait? Little people succeed? A proud and ostentatious diet makes your body miserable.

These are just some of the bad lifestyles. You can sit down accordingly. How many mistakes have you made? Health is not a trivial matter, just like the saying in love: you don't know how to cherish it when you have it, but you don't know its value until you lose it. Love can start all over again, but in life, you can never buy a return ticket.

Cancer life leads to cancer, which is not alarmist. Maybe you don't know, many people live like this? Cancer life? . Cancer life is called the plague of the century. Is that what bad habits are for? Plague Warcraft? The key to the cage.

Everyone here should understand a truth: lifestyle causes cancer, not lifestyle itself, but some lifestyles are carcinogenic factors, some are factors that promote cancer cells, and some are factors that induce cancer cells to form.

So what are the bad lifestyles that lead to cancer? Cooking oil fume: high-temperature cooking is an important part of our traditional cuisine, but this tradition needs to be changed because oil fume is a serious carcinogen. Long-term inhalation may increase the incidence of lung cancer

Sauerkraut: It is found that sauerkraut contains nitrosamines, nitrites and nitrates in its previous life, and also contains cancer-causing molds such as Geotrichum candidum. Do you often eat sauerkraut? Wake up.

Food additives: sodium nitrate, sodium nitrite, saccharin, spices, etc. These common additives are not only toxic, but also have the risk of cancer after long-term consumption. Remind everyone that children should eat as little snacks as possible.

Spiritual factors: the progress of the times, fierce competition, people's endless pursuit of material, etc. It makes many people worry and fidget all day, which is exactly what diseases like. Once you are depressed for a long time, your resistance will naturally decline, and then the disease will take advantage of it.

In addition, moldy food, smoking and drinking, air pollution, smoked food and so on. All these will lead to cancer. For you, it is better to change it if you have it.

In short, the mother's inferiority complex is probably related to her father's health. Health is also an eternal topic for human beings. I hope everyone can cherish health and life, so that your life will be full of happiness and happiness.