Some people lose mahjong eight times out of ten. Why do they still enjoy it?

A gambler lost 85 thousand in four months:

Because of the absurd gambling with a few friends, I not only lost all my 85 thousand savings, but also almost lost my wife and children! This is an unforgivable mistake I made during the epidemic last year! Now that I think about it, I want to slap myself!

Counting, in the four months from March to July last year, I played 50-60 mahjong games with some friends, and I always won seven or eight times, and the rest ended in losing money. In other words, the loss rate is as high as 80% and the winning rate is below 20%.

If you want to ask me why, after all, I suffered such a painful defeat, and I have to fight endlessly again and again. I remember the original idea at that time: in order to get rid of the boring house, so as to make friends; Later, I gradually became addicted to the water under the bridge; Finally, I lost all my savings and was almost divorced by my wife. ...

First, during the epidemic, it was boring and friends' parties were ridiculous.

During the epidemic last year, my travel company had a holiday and stayed at home after the Spring Festival. My wife works in a supermarket, and my daughter in grade one has gone to her parents' home with her grandparents. I'm the only one left at home. I'm bored to death. I hope my friends can get together and relieve my loneliness.

As it happens, Erkun, a good friend who used to play together, is also resting at home like me. The company in Chengdu doesn't know when to resume work, and he is also upset at home. In late April, WeChat contacted me and said that I was in a panic at home. Let's go out to get together and let the wind out! I was looking forward to it, so I asked him to contact two other friends, Pan Ming and Li Dan, so that four good friends could get together and play a table of mahjong.

The next day, as agreed, four of our good friends gathered in a grocery store at the gate of Erkun Community. Because many entertainment venues, mahjong parlors and restaurants were closed at that time, Erkun contacted the grocery store at the gate of his community, and there were two mahjong tables in the inner hall of the store. Because everyone is busy with their work at ordinary times, in order to have more time to play cards, we agreed with our boss that he would buy food and cook for us for dinner and continue to play cards after dinner. After the game ends at 0: 00, we will pay him 150 yuan the card fee and meal fee every day.

On the first day, everyone thought they were good friends, so there was no need to win or lose too much. Just pay 10 yuan to raise 150 yuan that should be paid to the boss. Everyone chats and plays cards, which not only kills time, but also entertains the body and mind. This is really the best way to live at home.

The amount won or lost that day was not large, and 420 yuan always won or lost. Except for the 150 yuan paid to the boss, Er Kun and I are actually the only ones who share the rest of 270 yuan. Everyone is satisfied with this method.

After the meeting, Er Kun and Pan Ming suggested that everyone should come to the grocery store for a small party every day if they are free. If anything happens, tell Erkun in advance, and he will contact the boss again. There is no contact to prove that everyone can come, and the boss can arrange dinner for us. If someone returns to work one day, they will be dismissed and will contact you later.

The proposal was unanimously passed by four people, and everyone gave a high five.

Second, the stakes escalated, and I became a loser.

At first, we played it eight or nine times in more than ten days, and everyone had a good time. After lunch at home, go to the grocery store to play cards on time at 1:00, and the grocery store will continue to play cards after dinner until 12: 00.

During this period, everyone is mainly entertaining, only playing small 10 yuan, and the maximum winning or losing amount of each card is only about 1000 yuan. I won 800 yuan twice and lost everything else. However, I lost less than 3000 yuan.

Unexpectedly, half a month later, Li Dan lost 4,500 yuan because of those days, saying that the pediatrics department was boring and asked to upgrade from 10 yuan to 20 yuan. Er Kunhe immediately agreed, and suggested that it is good to simply have fun. In addition to the previously existing self-touching fans, gold hooks and submarines are added with fans.

My heart thumped. Winning or losing is a big deal. It's hard to say whether you win or lose tens of thousands of dollars, but I think I've already lost 3000 dollars and maybe I can win it back. Besides, you still have tens of thousands of dollars on your bank card. What are you afraid of? So, turn your heart around and say, ok, the minority is subordinate to the majority, agreed!

To tell the truth, I didn't like playing mahjong very much before. I only played it with my family or classmates and colleagues on holidays. I'm not good at playing cards, and my skills are not so good. Therefore, during this period, I played cards with Erkun and others. Except for winning three times, one of them was very lucky, winning nearly 3,500 yuan, and all other games lost, with a maximum loss of 4,800 yuan. About two months after upgrading to 20 yuan, I lost a total of 35,000.

In order not to let my wife know the truth, I dare not go to the bank to withdraw money. When playing cards, I always use my mobile phone to transfer money to the winner, and then go home at night and pretend nothing happened. Every time my wife asks about winning or losing cards, I always say that I lost 300, won 500, or didn't win anything, making a fool of myself.

In fact, I thought about quitting several times on the way, but because I had already made an appointment with everyone, I had to pretend to be fat. Moreover, I don't want to let the 38,000 I exported go to others. There is always a voice telling me that I must win back the lost money and win it back!

So, in order to win back the export money as soon as possible, I decided to burn my bridges and offered to buy two horses. I thought the technology was not good, so I bought a horse with the help of others' luck. Unexpectedly, Er Kun was probably out of kindness and wanted me to win back as soon as possible, so I suggested that four horses should be released, one for each person. I immediately agreed to go red-eye. When Pan Ming and Li Dan saw that I was a loser and it was not convenient to say more, they silently agreed.

I wanted to take the opportunity of buying a horse to make myself turn over a profit, at least to win back the capital, but who knows that the more I want to turn over a profit, the worse I lose. In the last two months, it even exported nearly 47 thousand.

There is no money in my bank card. I lost all my 85,000 yuan savings over the years! I have to declare a formal truce with them.

Third, my wife asked me for a divorce and thanked my parents for saving me.

I don't know how to explain it to my wife. I lay at home for two days and didn't eat much. I can't eat or sleep. My wife saw me sigh and asked me again and again, so I had to confess the fact that I lost 85 thousand to my wife and beg her forgiveness.

My wife was so angry that she threw my clothes and pants outside the door on the spot and told me to get out and spend my life with mahjong in the mahjong hall! Despite my repeated entreaties, my wife can't forgive me. I took a taxi back to my mother's house 4 kilometers away that night.

Two days later, my wife came back and threw the divorce papers in front of me for me to sign. She also said that her daughter would never let her stay with me, heartless gambler! I don't agree to divorce. My wife cursed me angrily, broke things and cried to make noise. ...

Fortunately, my parents suddenly went home at this time, and I don't know where they got the news. My wife has always had great respect for my parents. She stopped venting when she saw my parents coming home. Dad told his wife to go out and say something to her, but my mother pointed at my nose and scolded me.

After a while, father and wife came in together. Dad put a bank card on the coffee table and said to me with a grim expression: here are more than 60 thousand yuan, please take it for the time being. You are also a 34-year-old adult. I don't want to say anything. I just hope this is the last time to help you! Say that finish, parents turned and left.

I admitted my mistake to my wife and wrote a guarantee that I would never gamble again. My wife gradually relaxed and reluctantly agreed to give me a chance. In order to fulfill my promise, I will never play mahjong again. Frankly speaking, from then on, I panicked at the sight of mahjong.

At the beginning of August, after receiving the notice of the company's resumption of work, I left home and rushed to the company to devote myself to the work of the company. Since then, Er Kun and Pan Ming have never contacted each other again.

4. Why do you like playing mahjong when you lose in nine cases out of ten?

Recalling the stupidity of gambling last year, I still feel ashamed and regretful. I still can't figure out why I was so possessed in the first place I dare to gamble all my savings for the sake of brotherhood and that worthless "agreement", regardless of the harm to family life and the serious consequences of the mental blow to my parents! Sometimes I think, I'm possessed, I'm not human, I should die!

Now that I think about it, I played ten cards without stopping and lost eight. I don't know how to stop, I don't know how to repent, I am addicted to it, and I enjoy it. In addition to blindly observing the damn "agreement", my mind is ugly and dirty, and I have all kinds of calculations, but I don't know that I finally lifted a rock and dropped it on my own foot.

1. Thinking about playing cards and gambling with friends every day to pass the empty and boring days, the result is that losing money will add more troubles and cause greater mental burden;

2. Just seek temporary excitement, covet temporary happiness, and don't think about the result after losing money. The consequence is that you lose all your savings, almost divorce, "lose" your wife and children, leaving a long shadow on your family life;

3. fantasize that you can get an extra income by playing cards to make up for the loss of income during the shutdown. As a result, I lost 85,000 yuan instead of a penny;

4. Never give up, ten bets and eight losses, and hope to rebuild the glory that won't win 20%, and hope to turn back the principal. The result is that the more you fight, the more you lose, the more you fight, the vicious circle, and finally you lose all your money, causing bad consequences;

Finally, I also call on everyone to take a warning, don't indulge in mahjong tables, and don't fantasize about how much money you can win by gambling. "If you gamble for a long time, you will lose" is an iron law proved by countless facts. Friends who are gambling or want to enter the casino, it is our right choice to stay away from the casino! Spending our gambling time and energy on work and study, on proper projects and improving our economic income is the full guarantee for us to improve the quality of life of ourselves and our families!

I hate gambling in my life. I haven't gambled a penny. The bankrupt briber started gambling at an early age. He is willing to lose mahjong eight times out of ten, and he is willing to "agree". Even if he loses, he doesn't even have pants. He deserves it!

Many mahjong players are partners, and they all have secret signals to bid, so I advise you not to gamble and play, it will be addictive.

Relax, as the saying goes, "win money to eat fish and meat, lose money to add wealth and prolong life"!

When you set foot in gambling, unless you are a pure time-killer, you will definitely take the gambler's psychology-the more you win, the better. If you lose, you must win back what you lost. Slowly, you will continue to be involved.

I think this mentality should be called "not believing in evil", just like playing games. For example, when the glory of the king lost, he complained bitterly about his teammates, always expecting the next one, and he must be angry every second, and so on! As a result, I was punished, and I was not convinced. The more I struggle, the worse it gets! Then why do you play? The one who enjoys it is still, after all, life is not easy. Find a distraction to escape from reality for a short time, forget the past and start a new life in this isolated area! I don't believe this evil! Right ... [Smile]