Five reasons why people should be kind

Take me for example (absolutely true!). I used to be influenced by a lot of positive energy and felt that I had to be easy-going when dealing with others ("superstitiously" I felt that "good things come to you" Well), so I suppressed all (almost all) bad tempers, and always behaved very well in front of others. Of course, many people welcomed me, and some were suspicious or disdainful (I really don’t like this feeling. , although I act a little too "good", this kind of easy-going has a certain relationship with my own personality, and is not hypocritical or hypocritical. I do want to be kind to others!), and slowly I discovered that "people are kind to others"! People bully, horses are good and others ride on them '' is not false! Some people will think that you have no temper, so you can naturally become a "doorstep" (it took me a long time to come to the conclusion, and it was also the process of my gradual disappointment). I also often look for my own reasons. Is it really not ''real'' enough? As a result, I began to express myself in a more comprehensive way (when I should be happy, when I should be angry), but it became another reason why I was not liked (they would think that "a doormat" should have a temper anyway, and they should not be completely and completely Is it "good"?) Then, I really hated this kind of "kindness" that was neither "right" nor "right", and began to change, becoming no longer the original "blindly ignorant" kindness. ''. I just want to say ''Be kind to the kind people around you, because you never know when they will change. . ''Of course, ''kindness'' is a must! ! ! I still believe it now! ! ! ! (There are still many good people in life, so why care about Bi Chi’s eyes!!!!) The following is a healing saying that I have seen, and I hope to encourage everyone: ①Dear self, from today on, let Live a normal life by yourself, learn to love yourself, you are unique, and be the truest, happiest and sunniest version of yourself.

②Dear self, don’t care too much about some people or things, let nature take its course, and face everything with the best attitude, because the world is like this, and we often appear in front of the things we care about. Of no value.

③Dear yourself, never embarrass yourself, such as not sleeping, not eating, being sad, and blaming yourself. These are all things fools do. ④Dear self, if you are unhappy, just find a corner or cry in the quilt all night, cry and laugh, and start over again. You don’t need anyone’s sympathy and pity. You can still live a happy life from scratch.

⑤Dear self, learn to control your emotions. No one owes you anything, so you have no reason to lose your temper or act irritable with anyone.

Dear yourself, don’t always want to rely on others, let alone expect others to stand up as soon as you need them. After all, no one belongs to anyone else.

⑥Dear yourself, in this world, there are only things that cannot be returned, and there is nothing that cannot be overcome.

Dear yourself, treat those around you well, because love and friendship are lifelong things. ⑦Dear yourself, trust your intuition, don’t provoke others casually, and don’t let others casually walk into your world to provoke you. ⑧Dear self, if others treat you well, you should be twice as kind to others. If others treat you badly, you should still be kind to others. Only in this way can you prove that you are good enough.

⑨Dear self, no matter how miserable the reality is, you must always believe that this is just the short darkness before dawn.

Dear yourself, don’t hold on to the memories of the past. If the kite has a broken string, you can only let it fly. If you let it go, let yourself go.

⑩Dear self, you are the only one in the world. Even if no one knows how to appreciate you, you must love yourself, relax, and be your truest self. Dear self, be a person with heart and treat things with love!

Forget all the worries of yesterday; today is still the rising sun!