When people reach middle age, which dinners are unnecessary?

Some time ago, such a thing broke out on the Internet:

There was a company going out to attend an employee's birthday party, and many people were appointed to attend, but a middle-aged woman didn't attend the employee's birthday party because of family affairs.

This is related to middle-aged women, who have to take care of their children at home, so after work in the company, employees go back to their homes instead of attending colleagues' birthday dinners.

At this time, the female employees brought bad things to themselves, and the boss immediately dismissed the female employees.

Therefore, the world of adults is not so easy. Sometimes we may not want to do something, but we have to do it because if we don't do it, we may pay some price.

But sometimes we should have our own position. Even if you have to bear the price, there is a limit to what others can do. If you really don't want to attend all the dinners, you might as well not attend.

When people reach middle age, there is no need to attend these dinners, which is purely ineffective social interaction.

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A stranger's dinner

Some people habitually attend the dinner of some strangers. In fact, there is nothing to talk about eating with these people, and most of them get up and leave after eating, so there is no time for communication.

There is a person in the company who likes to attend such a dinner party. Sometimes he goes back to his hometown during the Spring Festival. He always attends many such dinners and always brings a lot of things to others every time he goes.

So sometimes, don't think that everyone around you is going to attend someone else's birthday party or someone else's wedding. At this time, there is nothing you can do, so you also take part in these activities. In fact, sometimes these activities are unnecessary. Sometimes you give money to others, and you may not get it back, because others have no idea who you are.

So sometimes it is not necessary to attend these strangers' dinners, because they will do something meaningless after attending, so sometimes it is better not to attend.

However, some people may go because of feelings, but after attending, you may not remember whose dinner you attended many years later, so needless to say.

However, people always do unnecessary things when they are young, and they don't know how stupid they were until they are old.

02.

Dinner for people who look down on you

Some people even look down on you, so when you are with these people, you feel particularly uncomfortable. Sometimes the other person may have a birthday, or the other person may have a baby. At this time, when you go to see each other, they may give you a look.

So sometimes a person looks down on you, so you should keep your distance from such a person. If you are often with such people, you will feel particularly wronged and sometimes feel particularly uncomfortable.

Sometimes you feel that after being with such people, you will become a narrow-minded person. Later, you don't even know who you are, and you will feel great frustration, because when others look down on you, you won't recognize yourself in your heart.

So as a person, never eat with people who look down on you.

But on the surface, we should not conflict with others. What should be done is still to be done, but if there is such a thing as eating, don't join in the fun.

Because sometimes when you attend this kind of person's dinner, the other person will think that you are an ignorant person, and the other person will think that you have no backbone, because the other person has treated you like that and you still do such a thing.

So sometimes don't think that you can offend each other if you don't go. In fact, even if some people leave, you can't be good friends with such people, because there is a gap between you two, because the other party has always looked down on you, so you can't go to the end. Neither your relatives nor your friends, a person who looks down on you, can be good friends with you, and you don't have to go to each other's dinner.

Being with someone who looks down on you will make you feel frustrated and make you feel particularly uncomfortable.

03.

Attend a social dinner.

Some people go to a person's dinner for networking, but it's not necessary.

When a person reaches middle age, if you still give in for connections, in fact, sometimes you can be said to be a loser, because when people reach middle age, many things will be looked down upon. In fact, some people can't get the sincerity of others no matter how much you pay, and there is no need to condescend at this time.

So sometimes don't dine for the sake of connections, because sometimes this kind of thing is insincere, so sometimes if you dine for the sake of connections, you will find it better to let yourself grow. When you grow up, you will be valuable, so others will be happy to be with you. At this time, even if you don't look for others, others will look for you.

So don't think that if you eat more meals with others, your relationship with others will get better, sometimes it's just the opposite.

So if a person often eats with you, it can only show that this person is a dog friend. It is better to make yourself better and better and let others come to you. At this time, the interests of you two can be exchanged.

04.

A fixed dinner.

If a person reaches middle age and goes to some dinners to deal with things, it is a waste of time.

When people reach middle age, they should know that their time is running out. At least, we don't have as much time as young people, so at this time, every minute is particularly precious, and we don't need to attend some dinner parties to deal with it.

If you attend the dinner just to deal with things, you won't be so happy at this time, because you don't want to come at all.

If you go to a dinner party, you are very willing to attend. No matter what your reason is, you can go as long as you want, or you don't want to go. Only in this way can you be free. When you reach middle age, on the one hand, you will save your time, on the other hand, you will live a more comfortable life.

Because in the end, you will find that sometimes some people will not be favored by others even if you pay more.

When people reach middle age, there is no need to attend these dinners. In fact, sometimes they should think more about themselves, and some things should be ignored.