On the causes of son's puppy love

It is true that puppy love is a thorny rose, and adolescent children are often attracted by its fragrance, but once touched, they may be stabbed. Faced with the problem of children's puppy love, parents should calmly and objectively analyze the reasons of children's so-called puppy love in order to give correct guidance. Then I found the problem of puppy love in the first grade. How to correctly guide my son's puppy love?

First of all, parents should trust their children, treat them as friends on an equal footing, help them cope with emotional fluctuations, and cultivate them to consciously restrain their behavior and life. When children enter adolescence, parents should carry out some appropriate sex, love and marriage education while educating their children. Parents should not panic when you find signs of puppy love in their children. If they face an enemy, they should help their children enthusiastically.

Secondly, you can tell your children that the great poet once said, "Which handsome guy is not good at falling in love and which girl is not good at falling in love", and liking a specific opposite sex will happen in children's hearts at this stage, but this kind of liking can only be maintained at the level of friendship, and it can't be "love", because you are in the golden age of physical and intellectual growth, and your body and mind are not yet mature. It's a pity that puppy love has ruined my studies and future.

Third, establish a correct view of love. In the student stage, children pay too much attention to feelings, which will delay their studies and lead to a decline in their grades, which will eventually affect the college entrance examination and job hunting. It did happen. The performance was influenced by puppy love. However, if children can look at this problem correctly and establish a correct view of love, it may become the driving force for learning.

Finally, juvenile puppy love has several characteristics: hazy. Teenagers in puppy love don't know the development result of puppy love relationship. They are mainly eager to be alone with the opposite sex, but they lack a clear understanding of how to form a family in the future, how to deal with romantic and academic relations, and how to distinguish friendship from love. Contradictory teenagers in puppy love relationships are also full of contradictions. They want to keep in touch, but they are afraid of being discovered. In the process of puppy love, happiness and pain coexist.