How important is speaking?

How important is chatting? I believe that each of us likes to chat with people who chat and make friends. Friends around you are generally known for chatting, including couples. Let me share how important it is to chat.

How important is chatting? Emotional essay 1

Read this sentence:

"Marry a person you like to chat with. When you are old, you will find that chatting is a person's greatest advantage. "

Tired or not, the feet know; Bitter is not bitter, the heart knows.

Whether a relationship is good or not does not need guidance from others. The two men sat down, thinking so much about the last chat that they couldn't open their eyes and didn't want to sleep. They have a mirror in their hearts.

San Mao said: Love won't last long if you don't really dress, eat, count money and sleep. And the daily life of marriage, isn't it that these lives are trivial and parents are short?

Love is vigorous, it is easy to fall in love at first sight, but difficult for a long time. Chatting is the secret of a long marriage.

After all, we can only chat in bask in the quilt on sunny days, indoors on cloudy days, and talk about children quarreling when we are free. Between jokes, the days passed peacefully and easily, and the natural years passed quickly.

Ishida Yoshida wrote in "Sixteen":

It is more important to have someone to chat with than to watch TV and eat. For example, if the weather is fine today, I can tell her that it is fine. If it's cold, I'll ask her to add a dress.

Unfortunately, such simple communication is also difficult. There are so many people in this world, but most of them are lonely.

There are a sea of people around us, but we are still lonely. Even though I have my own family, my heart seems to have been drifting and I can't find my own home.

The backstage once received such a letter from a reader, saying that he had just been married for two years, but he was in a dilemma of nothing to say. Life is like a cup of bitter wine. There seems to be no way out except to dump it.

It was a suffocating silence, obviously living under the same roof, but living more alienated than strangers.

I slept in the same bed, but I haven't hugged and kissed for a long time.

Breakfast is ready, the other person sits down to eat, and then leaves, always treating her as air.

Go home after a day's work. There are thousands of lights in the community, and the only one that is dark must be her window.

The man who once held her hand and knelt down and swore to each other would rather stay in the car until late at night than stay in their small home for one more minute.

She sat alone on the sofa watching TV, and the remote control turned from beginning to end. None of them are worth nostalgia.

"I just want to talk to someone."

After all, marriage is just a house where two people eat three meals and four seasons. What I fear most is not unhappiness, but that two people have lost contact in life. We want not only happiness, but also to be understood and accepted.

When your happiness is not told, your sadness is not solved, your failure is not comforted, and your success is not shared. Two people talked and laughed, and finally only one person walked alone, and this marriage came to an end.

What is more terrible than dying alone is dying with someone who makes you feel lonely.

As we go further and further in the emotional world, we will gradually find that time will grow old, beauty will decline, and money is not a talisman once and for all. All we seek in our life is an interesting soul to chat with.

Wang was once asked in an interview: Why didn't you get married when you were forty?

He said he wanted to find someone who could chat anytime and anywhere.

For example, if you think of something in the middle of the night, you call her and she will say: What time is it? How sleepy! Let's talk about it tomorrow.

You immediately lost interest.

Some words, sometimes, for some people, don't want to say it after thinking about it.

It's not easy to find someone you want to talk to and can talk to.

In the past, life passed slowly. Cars, horses and mail are all slow. I have only loved one person in my life. Life is too impetuous now. Everyone is rushing forward desperately, catching up with each other, falling in love, getting married and having children.

Emotion has become a task. Before I can make it clear, I have tied two lives with a piece of paper. When I found that my life was full of pits and mud stains, I was already embarrassed and couldn't get out.

Lovers talk too much, and too many lovers are talking to themselves.

One said that the game was fierce today, and the other said that the next-door neighbor was getting divorced again.

One said it was hard and difficult for customers, and the other lamented that prices soared and vegetables were not fresh.

Men have friends at work, and women manage the daily lives of children and parents.

When we can't get together, we start talking to others. So men don't want to go home, and women are suspicious.

One describes the gathering of friends as company entertainment, and the other is vigilant and ready to catch rape. Dramatically turned the family upheaval into a spy war movie.

Many misunderstandings that can be solved clearly are slowly fermented in silence and finally cannot be recovered.

Chen Luyu said: In some marriages, it is very likely that you two need to add notes when chatting. Your three views are very likely to be inconsistent, and you may not appreciate each other for a long time. And these are fatal to love and marriage.

The levee of a thousand miles was destroyed in the ant nest. Many marriages break up not because of any major events, but because of accumulated alienation and estrangement.

The good feeling should be that if I say the last sentence, you can blurt out the next one.

Daiyu is sad about the moon and tears at the flowers, but Baoyu knows this affectation. A person buries flowers and sings poems, and a person just hears them and can shed tears.

Compared with Daiyu's love of pinching, Baochai is gentle and generous, thinking of him everywhere and advising people to be superior. But it will never replace Daiyu's position. No matter how good and beautiful it is, it is impossible to walk together, but just like clay figurines, they have nothing to do with themselves.

Jiang Xun mentioned in Six Lectures on Loneliness that everyone is an incomplete individual who is split in two. He has been looking for the other half all his life, but he may not find it because there are too many people divided.

What is right is right, and what is wrong is wrong. Know is know, don't understand or don't understand.

In marriage, it is said that no matter how many pros and cons are weighed, it does not mean that "I know you". I have nothing to say to others, but to you, there are endless trifles and affairs.

Lin said: many people get married just to find someone to watch movies with, not to find someone to share their experiences with. If I don't want to get married just to find someone, I can go to the movies by myself.

I have seen a Venus show before, and the guest is Mark Chao.

It is clear from his speech that Mark Chao is not a talkative person. As a public figure, he seldom keeps a low profile.

In the interview, he also admitted that he is a very boring person and doesn't like to go out, so he can be called a real otaku.

But when the conversation turned to his wife Gao Yuanyuan, he immediately started talking about Kan Kan, just like a child opening his beloved toy box and showing it off shyly.

Venus asked Mark Chao, Do you and Gao Yuanyuan talk much at home?

Mark Chao: A lot.

Venus asked again, is it mainly you?

Mark Chao: No, we are all talking nonsense.

Only when you really grow up will you discover how rare it is to have someone who can talk crazy.

The passion of love will gradually fade in the long running-in. In life, besides you and me, there are more trivial and ordinary things that are not so romantic.

We often say that love can only be seen in the morning and evening, and marriage must be appropriate. The portal here does not refer to the work of family appearance and education. What's more, are the two people's experience preferences and life goals the same?

As Wang Xiaobo said in Love You Like Life, there is no doubt or praise for each other. On the working day in An Ru, you talk to me like you are talking to yourself, and I talk to you like you are talking to yourself.

He said to Li Yinhe: I don't want anything so-called essential in the world, I just want you and me to be good.

Li Yinhe replied: the vitality of your life is attracting me, and I can't help walking towards you, because you have life, creativity, inexhaustible fire and inexhaustible source. "

The best love in the world is to have a chat partner, and I don't mind you talking too much, mountains and rivers flowing, harp and melody singing. I miss your warmth and know your joys and sorrows.

Kipling said that language is the best panacea that human beings can use. Chatting is the best medicine in marriage. You know my happiness, and I know your pain. Even if you are young and white-haired, you will be happy if you chat happily every day.

Many years ago, Mr. Jiang Yang saw the ideal marriage summarized by British biographers in his book:

I never thought about getting married before I met her;

I have been married to her for decades and have never regretted marrying her; I never thought of marrying another woman.

Mr yang read this passage to Mr Qian Zhongshu.

Mr. Qian immediately replied: I am just like him.

Mr. Yang replied: Me too.

They lived together all their lives, from a talented woman in Tsinghua to studying abroad, from ups and downs in the war to turmoil in the Cultural Revolution. Even in the most difficult time, Hongyan was not stopped from passing books and exchanging feelings and letters.

Later, Mr. Yang wrote in "The Three of us": How happy it is to be able to cry when you are sad and get comfort from your lover.

People who really love you will never express their love with money or promises, but will always be with you and be your best listener when you want to talk.

Women are always talkative, and men's silence is golden. These are all illusions for outsiders to see, but the fact is that as long as I am with you, I can't finish talking. Every sentence is a love poem.

The old song says: The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you. Collect bits and pieces of laughter along the way and save it for later use. Sit in a rocking chair and chat slowly.

Life is short, good girl. Please find someone to talk to for the rest of your life.

From then on, spring flowers and autumn moon, summer rain and winter snow walked hand in hand, sunny days and warm sunshine, evening stars. May you always be sweet, live a beautiful life in Shu Lang and have all the best.

How important is speaking? 2. The snow is fading away, and the peach in the village is ashamed. It is also a season of blooming flowers and spring. Powder makeup is a water cloud sword, with bending center's acacia eyebrows and a beautiful flower; If two young people meet for the first time, they will be drunk and relive a poem and wine.

At first sight that year, I happened to meet Jiangnan with a flowing water bridge and an Iraqi oil-paper umbrella in the rain lane. A turn, a look back, that look, but as amazing as a reunion after a long separation; A low call, a greeting, that moment, as brilliant as bathing in spring. From then on, my eyebrows were lovesick, my skirt was wide, I couldn't sleep, and my dream didn't come true. Whispering slowly dries in the wind, flowers and snow, and the thin words of acacia are gradually full in the rhythm of ink and wash. No amount of words can resist the ripples in your eyes, and no amount of words can resist the waves in my heart.

Pink makeup and pale eyebrows make Shuiyunjian look tall. A blue-and-white porcelain, an oil-paper umbrella and 3,000 beauties can't match your smiling face. A leaf of orchid finger and a lotus flower, in this fireworks world, remain uncorrupted; A piece of paper is flat, a piece of acacia is dyed, and the world of mortals is only two eyebrows wide. Nod your head and lower your eyebrows, and the lotus will come slowly, smiling at the flowers and dancing with sleeves. That casual glance, I was drunk in your dream, and I was drunk in the myriad tenderness and customs between the lines from now on.

Looking back on the past years, the red line was mistakenly tied and the mandarin duck was wrong, and I will never see it again in this life and the next. Times have changed, plums have withered, mountains have disappeared, and the ends of the earth have their own protection. I thought that if I walked through Qian Shan, I could sit in the lotus terrace and see through the changes in the world. The moment I met a stranger for the first time, I realized how wrong it was to chant Buddhist scriptures and worship Buddha. At that moment, I couldn't help it. I knew it was all in vain to spend the day in Zen. As long as I can grow old with you and care for each other, I am willing to get involved with you again and spend a warm spring with you.

After many years of reunion in Jiangnan, we are destined to live together in a bamboo fence yard and build a happy family with our hearts. I will cherish every day when love blooms and let you enjoy the gentle and sweet spring on earth: living in a water town in the south of the Yangtze River, I will accompany you to enjoy the happiness of dusk, whether it is warm in spring or cool in autumn or cold in Xia Dong; Pick up the daily necessities, I will accompany you all my life, sweet and sour, no matter extravagant or plain; Gently touch the even and gentle rhythm, and I will echo each other and accompany you to taste each other's elegance and gentleness, whether it is an affair or a poem, wine, tea or Zen.

Waiting for another leisurely day, walking hand in hand in the green stream; Back to back, quietly watching the clouds roll and relax; Heart to heart, laughter is bitter, sweet and sour. Have white hair, drink a cup of tea and put a lamp in Qi Mei's ear; Stumbling hand in hand, at this time, amazing as first sight; Looking back at the fleeting time, we can only see flowers bloom and fall in this life, and spring blossoms.