What should you do when you are exhausted and don't want to work, but you have to support your family?

A person came to a foreign country and was robbed of half of his savings by an intermediary. No matter how hard it is, I dare not complain to my family, nor dare I treat my friends as trash cans, thinking that working can improve my situation. Unexpectedly, the work content is very little and the leadership is wonderful.

In order to improve my professional ability, I reported a high amount of face-to-face teaching. Every month, one-third of the salary should be paid for tuition, one-half for rent and transportation, and the remaining several hundred yuan for living expenses. I plan how to spend this money every day to make next month's flower bill look better. Once I couldn't help buying more things online, and my living expenses were only 300 yuan. I've been working for almost two years, and I'm ashamed to tell my family after being mixed up like this. So every time I want to resign, I will calm myself down for two days, thinking that my pocket can't stand the price in naked resignation, and finally I will continue to work.

Dad works on a construction site. The situation in the construction industry is grim this year, and his salary has been dragging on. Once, my dad really had no money and wanted me to help him. I was ashamed. I just paid the tuition for the month and lived in the garden. Although I told my dad with a smile that I just had no money, I really wanted to cry at the moment I hung up the phone and felt very timid.

My parents raised me hard and had high hopes for me, but I couldn't help them for that long after graduation. I once rejected myself, but I never gave up hope for life.

I try to live in this city, and I can find the beauty of the world when I am alone. I think quietly and often entertain myself. I used to feel that I was not interested in anything, but I found something interesting in my thinking days, and I feel that life has become easier since then.

I try to think about the future, what kind of person I want to be in the future, and then make a short-term plan for myself. Every time I feel that I can't persist, I think about what I like and feel that I can still look forward to the future.

Thank you for giving me a chance to answer questions. Molly used to feel very tired. After working overtime, her heart beat faster and she had the mentality of giving up. Share some feelings with you here, and hope that we can all grow together.

First, reward yourself appropriately. There is nothing difficult about working. Molly came home from work overtime one day and saw an old man collecting paper in the community. He is pulling a paper cart in front, and his grandson is helping to push it in the back. That child is only seven years old at most. Molly felt very sad and encouraged. Don't call her bitter. There are more people suffering than us. As a senior told Molly, we are very busy, which proves that we still have work to do. However, to reward yourself properly is to cheer for yourself. After all, the work is really hard and everyone wants to stop. Giving yourself some small rewards at the right time will make you more motivated to do your job well. You can watch a movie, and if you buy a ticket online, it will cost about 30 yuan. When you choose a few people to watch, two hours of relaxation will give you more freedom and release psychological pressure.

Second, think more about the warm pictures at home. Indeed, the payment of various expenses at home will be very stressful. However, the expectations and hearts of family members are also the driving force that supports us to move forward. Of course, we also have some relatives who may make us unhappy. For example, their various reminders will make us very unhappy. Remember, as long as we are with happy relatives. Molly saw a very emotional sentence today: don't see those relatives who look down on you. Yes, these people will give you strange expectations, but they don't really want you to be good. They just said a lot. Many people can't jump out of this strange circle and are always entangled in these things. They don't need it. If they carry so many things, they will be tired.

Third, consider how to develop diagonal business after work. If our work can bring you sustainable income, Molly means that if it can bring you benefits when you don't actually do things, you can stick to it. For example, some friends are teachers or trainers, and they become more and more popular with age, because both academic and practical work experience can bring more benefits. But if your job can't bring income like this and your family has a burden, you must develop a slash career that is close to your personal interests and can generate income, and constantly adjust your direction in persistence.

Generally speaking, stress is everywhere. When you really feel too tired, stop, and then you can actually see people who work harder than you, which can also motivate yourself to move forward.

Come on, Molly also wants us to make progress together!

It's simple. I have no choice but to force myself to be strong, responsible and responsible. I think of my family, my parents and myself. I don't allow myself to relax anywhere. If I take a long-term view, there will always be sunny days.

Stick to your teeth. That man is like this. Although the future is bumpy, it may be beautiful. May you all be the heroes you want to be!

Last year, the salary was still more than 20 thousand After the Spring Festival, after paying off the mortgage, all the expenses at home are only 1000 yuan. My younger brother lent him 1000 yuan. He quickly found a part-time job and earned 1000 yuan in ten days. Once, I couldn't get into the training class for 600 yuan, so I went out for only three hours of training, and I should pay the child care fee at the beginning of next month. Life is really not easy, and his wife doesn't care about things at home.

I will continue to work.

Often when you don't have enough rest, you have to get up in the morning. There are also 10 thousand people who don't want to go to work or get up, but with it, they have to live without going to work.

In the past, every time I had something I didn't want to do or negative emotions, I was really annoyed. I wonder why it's so bad. Why are there so many troubles? Why? Why? Then it will be really annoying and impatient.

Later, when I think about it, it seems that this idea comes back every once in a while, and then I feel nothing, and I have to worry about it later. When I am tired, I don't resist, I don't resist, I am bored, I am tired! Continue to work, try to calm down, concentrate on things, distract attention, and get improved. It doesn't matter. You have to adjust yourself slowly. The world is still beautiful.

Living is easy, living is easy, and life is not easy. I'm in this state now. There are two old people in the world and two children in the world.

Ten years ago, when I just graduated, I found a fairly good and promising job. Later, because there was a workshop and a factory at home, my father encouraged me to go back and take over the factory without a monthly salary of 10 thousand. Unable to bear his encouragement and trust to my family, I resigned and went home. I didn't expect this to be the beginning of my miserable life.

I went home the next day, took the train for more than ten hours, took me into the factory and disposed of everything. From the next day, he didn't care about anything in the factory. I was in charge of all raw materials, workers' treatment, factory operation, delivery and accounts. It is conceivable for a small white, but he didn't get any help from him. Occasionally, he saw the workers even verbally suppress me. The next year, he was hospitalized because he played mahjong all day. In the third year, my mother was hospitalized for a month because of a dislocated lumbar disc. My wife had no choice but to quit her job and take care of two old people at home. The first thing is to encourage relatives and friends to ask my wife and I to have a second child. I really couldn't stand the persuasion and education of my relatives and gave birth to a second child. When the whole family was immersed in the joy of the second child, a bolt from the blue followed. My father sold the products of the factory to the swindlers himself, and 500,000 points have not been returned so far. Then, on 15, when the whole industry was depressed, I was directly asked to go out to work. In this way, I didn't get my100000 salary at home for four years, and I was swept out of the house without business. I want to cry, but behind me is a family that needs me to earn money.

Three years later, I plan to start my own business again. I bought a car for better business. Well, the old couple looked jealous and thought I was rich. The next day, they came to me and said that they had two children, or one of them had to pay for living expenses. Before the end of the year, there was a quarrel at home. This is a ten-year tragic mileage brought to me by my biological parents. However, you still have to live with a smile when you get up the next day, because you don't live for yourself.

Thank you for your invitation:

Life is not easy, but it is even harder to be a man.

Born in motion, the heart is quiet, the heart is unclean, the heart is restless, the heart is calm, the disease is from, the eyes are closed, and the heart is quiet and intelligent.

Keeping in good health is diligence, and nourishing the heart is quietness.

Things and people are constantly changing, which requires us to know the changes in stages, conditions, forms, interests and positions. Therefore, it is very important to be a man with a family.

Things develop with the times, you can't force them, let them develop with the times, and you can have a good mood.

At present, everyone is under great pressure, and each has its own achievements and responsibilities, and each has its own burden. Continue to work hard to earn money, I believe tomorrow will be better!

This problem is actually the status quo of most middle-aged people, who feel very tired at work. But calm down and think about it, there are old people in the world and small people at the bottom. For their lives and happiness. I'm going to run again. It's really that sentence: "I'm tired, but no way back".

Comfort is for the dead! Life has a dream, and we have a responsibility to our family. People, like bees, keep working, and only when they get paid can their families have enough food and clothing! People who are afraid of hardship and fatigue have a hard life. Those who are not afraid of suffering, some people only suffer for half their lives, because they worked hard when they were young and earned a lot of wealth. Then their children became adults, followed suit and earned more money than their parents, and their parents had enough money to live a happy life in their later years!