For example, at home, who is in charge?

There are big families and small families. Our family, with five people and three small families, is actually a typical one-child family born after 1980s. No matter who is in charge, whether it is everyone or a small family, it depends on what is said, and it is not so arbitrary, that is, whatever is said is more democratic. The little woman is in charge, and the big man is in charge. Let's discuss it. If you have to say it, whoever has the final say is a woman, everyone's mother has the final say and my daughter-in-law has the final say. Because it's a small family after all. How many important things do you say all the year round? Besides, you don't have to ask everything about such a trivial matter. Besides, if you have something to ask, it may have a bad influence.