How did the widow and the bachelor sleep?

"When a widow sleeps, there is no one up there!" This is a particularly hilarious saying that circulates in Henan official circles (I haven't verified whether this saying is found elsewhere). It means that in the unit, an individual's job promotion basically depends on connections (not absolutely.). If there is no one above you, then if you want to be promoted, there is probably no way. I have encountered such a problem recently. I want to develop personally, but I suffer from the "widow's sleep", that is, there is no one at the top, so I don't get the promotion I deserve. If there are people, people will naturally get what they want. Something, I won’t tell you the specific situation, it’s such a shame! Some of these ideas have been elaborated in my blog post "The word "relationship" is so hard", friends can check it out. This matter has a certain impact on my psychology. After all, I work hard but don't get the recognition and approval I deserve. It really makes people feel quite moody. It can be said to be a relatively annoying thing that I have encountered recently. Let’s talk about another problem that troubles me: “When a bachelor sleeps, there is no one here.” Speaking of this, I am really embarrassed to say it. After all, I am a rich man and have not yet found a wife, so I am still a bachelor. Naturally, I am below. There is no one left, this is a common thing, but I am just a gangster and I am used to it, so don’t be surprised! , in fact, I am still very good at it! It’s just that I have indeed encountered two major problems in my life at the moment. I can’t say how damaging they are, but they do require my great attention! No matter what, I want to strive to be a "romantic little widow", and there will be people there every day, so everything will be easy to handle! I also strive to be a "happy old bachelor". There are people down there every day, and I no longer have to worry about how to sleep! whee! So say it! Widows and bachelors still have to sleep like this! ---Stop looking for someone to sleep with, just find a powerful father-in-law. In this way, the widow and the bachelor become one, and they can sleep together, ah! Ha ha! ! ! ! There are people both above and below!