Tell me about the photos of father and daughter crossing the street.

The streets are crowded with people and vehicles. Everyone has his own home. They know where they should go and what they should do. Most people have clear goals for their future, plan the blueprint for the future on paper early and put it into action.

Even those who haven't planned their future life, should fantasize about what they want to do in the future? Just like what we want to be when we are young and grow up.

Many times, people around you will make you pay attention to your future intentionally or unintentionally, but few people tell you that memories of the past are also very important. However, a person's memory is usually a very private thing and will only be shown to people who are very close.

Many times when we recall the past, the brain will automatically beautify some memories and blur some deep memories, so photos have become a very good means for us to freeze the present.

China has a father and a daughter. For 40 years, they have taken photos in the same place every year. The photos freeze the growth of their daughter and the aging of their father.

inspiration

The father's name is Hua Yunqing, and the daughter's nickname is Huahua. 1August 26th, 980 is Huahua's first birthday, so Hua Yunqing wants to do something special to celebrate it. After much consideration, she still thinks it is better to take her daughter to Lake Taying.

It happened that the weather was particularly comfortable, the sun was warm and the breeze was blowing gently. Hua Yunqing and his wife are discussing whether to take pictures.

Huahua, just one year old, just learned to walk. She walks unsteadily and occasionally falls down, so when taking pictures, she puts her hand on her father's lap, and her father Hua Yunqing's big hand leans against Huahua's head to prevent her from falling down.

This is the first time Huahua has taken pictures. She smiled at the camera, cocked her head and looked straight at the tree on the other side for a while. In this way, a simple and warm photo was recorded.

The following year, Hua Yunqing took his wife and daughter to swim at Lake Taying. I suddenly thought of taking a photo with my daughter here last year or taking another photo this year.

When the second photo was developed, Hua Yunqing put it together with the photo taken last year and carefully observed the changes of her daughter. Like a game of finding fault, I carefully observed my daughter in the photo several times.

Hua Yunqing found that one year later, her daughter's head was much longer than last year, and many changes can be found through photo comparison. This made him find new fun, so he decided to take a photo with his daughter at Lake Taying every year on this day, if nothing unexpected, to witness her growth.

Many times, when we get along with our loved ones day and night, it is more difficult to find the changes in her body, because these changes are not instantaneous, but are slowly changing every day. We have witnessed this process, so we are not so keenly aware of the final changes.

"Ritual" and Growth

Later, the photos taken in Taying Lake every year became a very important activity for Hua Yunqing's family. For their family, this day is their own "festival", and taking pictures is the activity and ceremony of this "festival".

Every year, Hua Yunqing and Hua Huadu will put on their favorite clothes and come to Taying Lake to take pictures. Sometimes, Huahua will bring his beloved toy gun, which was the world of flowers at that time.

With the change of time and the rapid development of technology, the photo of Hua Yunqing and Huahua has changed from the original black-and-white photo to a color photo. From the photos, we can find that Huahua's skin is very tanned, because she often swims with her father at Lake Taying.

We can know that Huahua has become a Communist Youth League member by the league emblem pinned on her clothes. The flowers in the photo grow up year by year and gradually become almost as big as dad. She also gained a lot of weight from a thin little girl and wore glasses, perhaps because of heavier academic pressure, she failed to adjust her work and rest.

This is the meaning of photos, which can record a lot of information completely.

Group photo "termination"

1998, Huahua is going to study in Japan, and Hua Yunqing is very worried. This is not as convenient as going to school in China. You can go back and forth frequently during holidays, and you can only come back once or twice during long holidays.

Besides, I am a stranger in Japan and my language is inconvenient. If my daughter is wronged there, it is difficult for me as a father to help.

Although she was particularly worried about her daughter's study abroad, Hua Yunqing didn't say anything. After all, studying abroad has helped my daughter a lot, and her daughter has grown up and reached an independent age. She should learn to face difficulties and solve them by herself. She can't hide under the wings of her parents all her life.

Hua Yunqing's mood at that time was so tangled and contradictory. On the one hand, she wants to help her daughter do everything well, on the other hand, she knows that she wants her daughter to learn to be independent.

Time flies, and it's the day when Yunqing takes a photo with her daughter every year, but her daughter is still far away in Japan. what can I do? Will the photo shoot that has lasted for nearly 20 years be interrupted this time?

Hua Yunqing is unwilling. He thought, since he can't take a photo with his daughter in reality, he must still be together in the photo.

He thought of a way, that is, the composite photos we often use now. He asked his daughter to take a picture in Japan, then took a picture of himself in the old place, and finally put the photos of the two together.

Huahua stayed in Japan after graduation and became a member of the firm. But from that photo shoot, Huahua insisted on going back to China to take photos with her father every year.

After work, Huahua also learned to dress herself, and her clothes are particularly fashionable every year. When Huahua was in his prime, his father had already entered middle age, and the wrinkles on his face and the white hair on his head gradually increased.

In 2008, Huahua became a mother and had a child of her own. That year, the group photo changed from two people to three people. Unfortunately, in 2009, Huahua's mother died in a car accident.

In that photo, all three people are dressed in elegant colors. Hua Yunqing didn't grin like before, but looked at the camera and squeezed out a smile. The whole person is very old.

Later, Huahua's second child was born. The arrival of this child washed away a lot of sadness at home, and there was another person in the photo.

/kloc-in 0/5, Hua Yunqing's friends felt that these photos he took were very warm, and they uploaded them to the Internet with Hua Yunqing's consent, and then they became popular on the Internet and spread abroad.

Irretrievable regret under the warmth

After his wife died, his daughter and two granddaughters became Hua Yunqing's three most important people in this world. But they all live in distant Japan, and Hua Yunqing lives alone in China.

My daughter also wanted Hua Yunqing to go to Japan to live with her family many times, but Hua Yunqing didn't want to disturb her daughter too much. She will often travel in China to enrich her old age, and she will often look through old photos to recall the past. She really misses her daughter and then goes to Japan to live for a while and come back.

Distance has become the only regret of Hua Yunqing and her daughter, but this regret has not stopped their affection.

Summary:

Parents always get old when we are not careful, and when we find out, we always sigh that time passes too fast. In fact, time is always fair. It never goes too fast or too slow. What really needs to be vigilant is our heart that is easy to ignore our parents.

In fact, we don't need to do anything for our parents. He is our relative, so he doesn't need to please. Daily company is the best gift.