I really want to have Tan Zhuo’s mother, tell me what influence your parents had on you when you were growing up?

My parents have a great influence on me, especially my father’s influence on me. I have been unfamiliar, timid, and afraid since I was a child. It is a process from knowing, understanding and admiring when you grow up. Make me understand how to be kind, abide by morality and etiquette, and not violate discipline!

1. Father’s Discipline

My father joined the revolution on the eve of liberation. After transferring to the local area, he served as the captain of the criminal police of the Public Security Bureau. Because I was busy at work, I didn’t go home for several months, which made me feel very strange. I almost never called me daddy. My discipline towards our sisters was a bit rough and rough, with both scolding and beating. As a result, I became timid and fearful when I saw my father. Psychologically, I don't want to get close to him. When I grew up, I often peeked at his work diary, on-site investigation records, how to set up and control criminals, how to track them, how to arrest them, etc., from fighting against the enemy and special agents, suppressing bandits and hegemony to maintaining social security and protecting criminals. People's lives and property are safe. There were many thrilling scenes of battles of wits and courage. From this, I learned about the dangers and hardships of my father's work, and my father's image suddenly became very tall.

2. Started to respect my father

It was an incident that made me start to respect him. Once he caught a thief stealing the bottom plate of a shelf truck. Since it was close to his home, he took him directly to his home. He had just finished laying the dumplings. He brought a bowl of dumplings and opened the thief's handcuffs to let him eat. The whole family didn't understand. Dad said, "He carried dozens of kilograms of frame truck under the chassis, walked dozens of miles of mountain roads, and didn't eat for two meals. You can't punish someone to death just because he made a mistake. As long as he changed , Still a good guy.” From then on, I realized that behind my father's jealousy and righteousness, there was also a soft and charitable heart. My father and I got closer and closer, and we became good friends who talked about everything. Although I beat him and bit him when I was young, he really didn't hold grudges towards me, but loved me very much. Dad told me that he was taken in by the People's Liberation Army as a beggar. It was Chairman Mao and the Communist Party who rescued three generations of our grandparents. No matter what the circumstances, we must be loyal to Chairman Mao and the Communist Party. Our Zhang family will never Send out the judge. Dad taught me that people must repay kindness, be upright, have spiritual beliefs, and not be a mean person.

2. My mother’s education

My mother graduated from the Women’s Normal School before liberation. She is well-educated and sensible. From childhood to adulthood, my mother has always been my warmest harbor and my most beloved one. people. Her patience, care, and love, like sunshine, accompany me as I grow up. Teach me how to read and study, how to respect the elderly and care for the young, how to be kind to others, how to respect morality and observe etiquette. And practice it personally. She and her grandma have been together for decades, and they have never had a quarrel or blushed. When parents quarrel, grandma always beats dad, scolds him, and is not allowed to bully others. My mother's rationality, gentleness, kindness, kindness and righteousness fill me with infinite hope in life.

The above is the influence of my parents on me!