Part 1: Why is it said that only a woman with a big personality can live a transparent life?

The so-called transparency is because he has clearly seen the road ahead and what he has to experience. So they never get hung up on small things.

This is the story of a colleague of mine in my previous company:

The day before yesterday, Xiao Mei sent me a photo of herself in front of the White House in the United States. In the surging crowd, she smiled like a flower.

Ten years ago, Xiaomei and her boyfriend worked as samplers in the workshop. She cherishes this job, but her boyfriend dreams of quitting.

Once, I had an order and I sent samples three times but the customer was still not satisfied. Xiaomei never gave up. She took the rough product and went into the paint workshop to do repeated tests, and finally made a satisfactory sample.

Soon, she was promoted to the office as a clerk. When she broke up with her unmotivated boyfriend, he actually spread rumors that Xiao Mei was having an affair with her manager.

Xiaomei never responds to rumors. She is still conscientious and does her job impeccably.

She insisted on learning foreign trade knowledge and also signed up for English interpretation classes. When her colleagues heard that she wanted to do foreign trade, they all laughed at her for overestimating her abilities.

Later, she entered the foreign trade industry as she wished. Two years ago, she resigned and opened a foreign trade company. This time she took her team to the United States to participate in exhibitions.

Those who laughed at her back then are still hanging around in the workshop.

With the right structure and vision, and a pack of bad cards in hand, he completed a beautiful counterattack.

This year, Dong Qing is bidding farewell to the Spring Festival Gala stage. She bravely tears off her beautiful label. No one is optimistic about a cultural program with "reading" as the main content, and she starts from scratch to produce another one. program "The Reader".

The meaning of life is to explore rather than cling to it, as Dong Qing said:

"Really overcome the fear in your heart, let go and leave. Ah, it turns out that besides the stage, there are also There is a big world. What does this world mean to you? Is it more important than that stage? It’s hard to decide, but you have to see that it exists.

The height or dimension of life, what we see and what we feel in our hearts cannot be understood by ordinary people.

Being a producer is not easy, and she is needed in every aspect of the program. Take full responsibility. From holding planning meetings, writing plans, reporting to the channel and station editorial board, to reviewing at all levels, establishing the project, forming a team, and finding investors and cooperative companies... this is an extremely long and arduous process. .

All suitable guests were invited within this month, but there was no studio available at that time.

She asked with great effort: "Why can't it be done? What's wrong? "I dug out the problems and solved them one by one.

The show actually started recording. Each time there were 6 groups of guests, the entire program lasted seven or eight hours.

The recording of "The Reader" was finally completed and became unexpectedly popular. It immediately hit all major social networks. The first episode received a high score of 9.3 on Douban. Dong Qing completed her career beautifully. The journey of transformation.

“This program is very hard, but I have nothing to complain about... What an honor it is to be able to use my professional skills to do something for the times! ”

So as a woman, your experience of life can be more complex and profound. The breadth and breadth of life have since been expanded.

So, as a woman, you must There is a pattern. Knowledge determines vision, vision determines pattern, and pattern determines one’s life.

Why do people nowadays often get involved in trivial matters?

It’s because you don’t do enough business.

Let’s talk about why you shouldn’t dwell on bad things when you encounter them. Let’s also talk about two points:

1) Most bad things are irreparable

The boss’s blame , which makes you depressed for N days, makes you feel embarrassed when you meet your wife, and you miss the bus, which makes you full of anger. You can't help but say a few words when you meet your colleagues;

Stuck in the road, As dry as a heat wave, you keep honking the horn and cursing the traffic in front of you...

Yes, we often trouble ourselves over and over again for irreparable bad things, but this is not another matter. A kind of self-flagellation?

2) You often worry about trivial things, often because you have too few serious things.

The less you do serious things, the easier it is to focus on trivial things. And those bad things seem to have their own magnetic field, attracting each other. Gradually, you will lose more energy and find it difficult to make room to do serious things.

As Wang Xiaobo said: "All human suffering comes from anger at one's own incompetence."

You may ask me: "I haven't yet So powerful, but relatively incompetent, how to break it?"

Then you must at least establish your own sense of value.

What is a sense of value?

You need to be clear about what you really want and what you are willing to go all out for.

At this time, your attention will collapse into a tunnel, and insignificant people and things will be regarded as dispensable footnotes.

You see, these are people with a sense of value. For them, some people and things do not exist at all.

Beautiful women are liked,

Brave women are respected,

When a woman is both beautiful and brave;

She can conquer anything.