We have been together for more than three years. I have had three abortions for him. My parents don’t know about him and me. We often break up.

Don’t trust men too much, especially men who have hurt you. Although I am a man, I can tell you that if he really likes you, he will not treat you like this, especially if this happened three times. There is a saying in China that if he really likes you, he will treat you like this. You, why do you still miss him? How many abortions can a woman have, especially when he is three years younger than you? Don't even think about what results you can have. It's impossible. In this society, women must be kind to themselves and don't get carried away by bullshit love. You are not a child. There are so many real-life cases on the Internet, and the injured are all women. If you mind what your family or future husband says, go ahead and have a showdown with them, but you have to face the consequences, and you should know what the consequences will be. Or simply never marry again. Otherwise, the whole family will be injured in the future. Again, treat yourself well and don’t expect others to treat you well. Take care.