How to get along with bad relatives?

Blood relationship is the closest relationship, but sometimes it is the most troublesome relationship for us. If you don't handle it well, you are not as good as a friend.

However, each of our relatives is doomed at birth, and we have no choice. Unlike friends, when they meet inappropriate friends, they say they won't play, but relatives can't help it. He is a relative of your life. You can't pull if you want to pull black, and you can't play if you want to play.

In the process of getting along with relatives, there are three points that need special attention.

First, keep your distance.

Only distance can produce beauty. Anyone who comes near it is a disaster. Even if a painting is close, we can't see its beauty, let alone people. As long as you get too close, you will find many shortcomings and problems, especially between relatives. Maybe you accidentally mentioned a relative, but it will soon spread among relatives, making you not a person inside and outside. So when you get along with your loved ones, you should not only keep your distance, but also be careful of your words and deeds.

Second, don't have financial dealings.

In the process of communicating with relatives, you must not have any money exchanges, let alone do business together. In the end, you won't make any money, but you will end the relationship completely. Relatives borrow money from you, so it's better not to borrow it. Whether you ask him or not, you are not human. Some relatives even think you should help him. If you don't help him, he will hate you until his teeth itch.

Third, don't interfere in other people's family affairs.

Sometimes you are very kind, meddling in the family affairs of relatives, and the husband and wife get angry when they quarrel, so you mediate. But the problem is, if this kind of thing is done well, you are a good person and can reconcile well with others; If you don't do well, the couple will blame you and hate your influence on other people's lives.

Therefore, the relationship between relatives is so fragile and sensitive that we must take care of it. After all, there are only a few people who can be called relatives. Although we have no choice, we can try our best to deal with our relatives, so that we can live in harmony. ?

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