My husband always turns a deaf ear when I quarrel with my mother-in-law. After the heart is cold, I ask for a divorce, and my mother-in-law cries. What should I do?

After three years of marriage, my happy life was completely changed by the arrival of my mother-in-law.

When the child was six months old, I finished maternity leave and my mother-in-law came to help us take care of the child. At first, we were able to keep a relative balance. After a long time, the relationship has become more and more rigid, and quarreling for three days and two days has become a common occurrence.

Her mother-in-law's parents died when she was a child, and she lived alone with her brother. In order to survive, she has developed a provocative and overbearing character since she was a child. Now she still insists on her habit when she comes to my house, which makes me very annoyed and angry.

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Originally, my husband and I began to fall in love in high school, got married after graduation and lived a happy life. Unexpectedly, the arrival of a little life has become the fuse to destroy a happy life.

We often quarrel about children's food and clothing. Mother-in-law insists on her old idea that there is no need to pay too much attention to the extensive parenting of children, otherwise it is easier to get sick if she is temperamental. Even she often dresses my daughter in clothes worn by children in her hometown, saying that wearing hundreds of clothes will make her children blessed. However, I think children are precious. The environment, food and drinking water are not as safe and healthy as before. It is always right to pay more attention. Besides, as long as there is only one baby, how can she wear other ones?

These are not big things, but after a long time, they become a knot in one's heart, and my husband is so annoyed that he doesn't want to go home at first, and sometimes even stays outside under the pretext of working overtime. I heard the rumors, but I still hope he can go back to his family and live a good life. After all, we have a deep emotional foundation. But every time I persuade my husband, he looks at me coldly and is indifferent to my tears. I am afraid that he will be disappointed in our family, and I am afraid that my daughter will lose her father, so I have to turn to my strong mother-in-law and hope that her mother can bring him back. But my mother-in-law always chooses to ignore my weakness.

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One night on 1, 12 my husband didn't come back and didn't answer the phone. I told my mother-in-law that you should call him and tell him to go home early, or what should I do if something happens outside? Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law suddenly scolded 1, what are you, dare to curse my son, maybe you can slip down the stairs and die accidentally?

At that time, I was furious and quarreled with her, but how can I, who lives in an ivory tower all the year round, be an opponent of a battle-hardened rural bitch? In the end, I was scolded so badly by her that I could hardly say it.

Every time I quarrel with my mother-in-law, my husband always turns a deaf ear and sometimes scolds me on her side. My heart is getting colder. Seeing that the child was going to primary school soon, I decided I couldn't stand it any longer, so I signed a divorce agreement for him and took the child to my sister's house.

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I thought there was no suspense in divorce, after all, our relationship was so stiff. But I don't want to be the first to jump out and object. She cried and made noise, and resolutely refused to agree to our divorce. My mother-in-law also found a middleman to put in a good word, saying that as long as I go back, I will go back to my hometown immediately, or give us a down payment for a big house. She can also live in the city to help us send our children to school. She even gave me a passbook.

My husband also realized his mistake under the persuasion and abuse of his mother-in-law, and begged my forgiveness with tears, hoping to return to our quiet and happy little life. I thought for a long time and decided to forgive my husband and mother-in-law and start my family and life again.

Now my mother-in-law comes to my house occasionally to see the children, and my husband no longer lingers outside. I am also grateful for my mother-in-law's concession to me, and I have begun to learn to understand and care for her, and my life is on the right track bit by bit.