Why is pregnant with a second child so tired?

Come on, I just gave birth to a second child, and I have a deep understanding of this problem.

First of all, I was 26 years old when I gave birth to our boss, and I was 31 when I was pregnant with my second child. I was very tired during the whole pregnancy. Later, I thought about it. I was really old, and my various organs were not as good as when I was pregnant with my boss, so I felt very tired. < p But you can't have a second child. At least the boss is enough for you. He dresses and cooks for him every day, washes his face and brushes his teeth, because he is used to it. Even if he is pregnant, he still has to help him, and he always sleeps with me at night. Therefore, taking care of the boss is also one of the reasons for getting tired of having a second child < P > Then, because it is a second child, I find it a common phenomenon to get tired of having a second child. From the discovery of my second child to the last whole pregnancy, I saw red several times, and even once I was hospitalized with a miscarriage. Maybe it was because I had one before my uterus. I checked from the Internet that many women who were pregnant with a second child often saw red. Anyway, the whole pregnancy with the second child was scary < P > Looking back now, it's really tiring to be pregnant with the second child, but now every day when I see him in good health, I will feel that everything is worth it < P > My personal experience and feelings are for reference only < P > The picture shows an eldest child and a second child. Do you look like < P > a pregnant mother with a second child who is 34 weeks pregnant?

The fatigue of having a second child probably comes from five aspects:

First, the age factor. The second-born pregnant mother is several years older than when she was pregnant with her first child, and her health is naturally not as good as in previous years. In addition, after a woman has given birth to a child, her physical fitness is much worse. At this time, if you are pregnant again, you will face a lot more physical conditions. Take me for example, when I was born for the first time, I didn't have any pregnancy reaction at all. From the third month of pregnancy, I walked to and from work four times. I don't seem to remember any other very uncomfortable situations except that I had pubic pain twice in the third trimester. After four years, I was pregnant with a second child, and I was sick and vomited in the first three months, and I was dizzy with hunger every day. Later, back pain, pubic pain, insomnia, dyspnea, all kinds of problems made the whole pregnancy very difficult, and my mental state was also very bad. I often went to Lacrimosa, and I felt as if I had prenatal depression.

the second factor is dabao. When pregnant with the first child, there is nothing smaller at home. Pregnant women are giant pandas. Just take care of yourself every day. When pregnant with a second child, Dabao is the youngest in the family, and the energy of pregnant women and their families should be divided into a lot. Especially, my mother has to take care of Dabao during the day and night. Like me, I am the only one who takes care of my children at home. When I don't go to kindergarten during the epidemic, I take my children to work. After I go to kindergarten, I pick them up every day and accompany my children to wash, read and play after work at night. All kinds of things take up all the time, so I have no energy to think about how to maintain myself, and I don't have all kinds of prenatal education like when I am pregnant with Dabao. It's really limited energy.

the third is the help of family members. When you are pregnant for the first time, you are very excited from the pregnant woman to your family. Your family also thinks that you are pregnant for the first time, and you don't know anything and give a lot of care. When the second child is born, some families may take care of it as always, while some families do not pay as much attention to the first child for various reasons. They feel that pregnant women have given birth once and have learned a lot, so their families take care of it less. So pregnant women themselves are even more tired!

the fourth is the work pressure. Many pregnant women are working mothers. When they are pregnant with their first child, they still belong to the newcomer stage of the unit in terms of age, and the work pressure is not so great. At the time of the second child, the pregnant woman's age has reached the point when the unit is the backbone, and all kinds of pressures such as promotion are great. At the same time, combined with the pressures of Dabao and pregnancy, pregnant women are physically and mentally exhausted, so they will feel more tired. I am a living example. I missed several very good career opportunities when I was pregnant with a second child. I was still unwilling and made various efforts. In the end, I drew water from the bamboo basket and was stressed physically and mentally.

fifth, economic and human pressure. Some families with good family conditions may not have this factor. However, most families with two children have to face great economic and human pressure. After the child is born, how can the economic income increase to meet all kinds of expenses? The eldest needs to be transported, educated, and the second child needs to be cared for by someone. Parents are old and the cost of nanny is too high. All stressed pregnant women may have all kinds of anxiety during pregnancy, so it will aggravate the discomfort during pregnancy and cause pregnant women to feel very tired.

Having said so many reasons, some pregnant women may face several of them. But in any case, pregnant women still have to learn to adjust their mood, try to release the pressure, and adopt the mentality of letting everything go with the wind. Maybe all problems will be easier to solve. After all, the arrival of a little life is the most important thing.

The little life arranged by God is the greatest happiness for pregnant mothers! Why is pregnant with a second child so tired?

it is true that this happens to many friends. Of course, it is not absolute. It mainly depends on the physical condition of pregnant women and the reaction during pregnancy. I don't know if the subject will bring the children by himself. If he does, the physical and mental pressure is great, and it is natural to be tired.

Many friends around me have had a second child, and some are expecting a third child. Some are particularly relaxed, and some are particularly hard.

A friend is about the same age as the subject. Dabao was unexpectedly pregnant with a second child when she was 18 months old. Later, her mother moved directly to the house to take care of Dabao and the pregnant woman. The friend was in good health. When the second child was pregnant, she had a particularly good appetite. She didn't have nausea and morning sickness. She tasted delicious, and her skin was white and red, so she was taken care of by her mother. The second child born at 4 weeks +1 days of pregnancy gave birth to a 7 kg girl.

Another colleague, who is a second child, was in her thirties when she was pregnant with her second child. She was seven years away from Dabao. She had a particularly bad pregnancy, morning sickness and leg pain. She had to go to work to take care of the children. She was particularly tired every day. She went to the hospital to have a miscarriage in the second trimester. In the third trimester, she was hypertensive and hyperglycemia. The doctor told her to go on a diet, crying every day, and her legs and feet were swollen, which was particularly uncomfortable. When I was 38 weeks pregnant, I couldn't bear to go to the hospital for caesarean section, a little girl less than 6 kg.

So, whether the second-born pregnant woman is tired or not depends on her own recovery, her reaction during pregnancy, and the pressure from her family. If all parties help her, the situation will be much better.

When it comes to the tiredness of having a second child, many treasure moms feel the same way. Of course, no matter how many children you have, pregnant women are very tired, especially in the third trimester. However, this second child is awkward, because there is a child in front. At that time, I was pregnant for the first time, and I was excited, expecting, and fully cared for by my family. The pregnant woman herself had no distractions except going to work (some pregnant women have been working) or staying at home.

The fatigue of the second child comes from two aspects, physical and psychological. Here are my experiences and thoughts. Physically, everyone is different. Some people have a strong reaction to morning sickness in the early stage, and they don't want to eat or vomit after eating. At this time, even if someone takes care of the second child, they are psychologically worried. There are many mothers who take care of themselves while taking care of the boss. I'm still very tired in the later stage. For example, some eldest brothers are younger than their second brothers, and the eldest brother still gives a hug from time to time. This is the case in my family. I need a second child after weaning, and sometimes I have to hold the boss when I go out in the late pregnancy.

The feeling of tiredness is very strong in the later period, and the strongest time is confinement, while hugging the boss, getting up and changing diapers. Sometimes the boss is naughty during the day and needs to get up and watch and coax her. Psychologically

By psychologically, I mean that the second child is more looking forward to a change, about the child's personality. The boss is a daughter who wants a son, and the boss is a son who wants a daughter. After all, everything is fine in the first child, and there are many fresh expectations. Even if the second child wants good things, he thinks more.

it is not excluded that some people feel tired, and personal experience does not like it. Welcome the second child to talk about their feelings.

Nine months after giving birth to a second child, I have a deep understanding of this problem. I am tired not only when I am pregnant, but also after giving birth!

older than the first child. I was 28 years old when I was pregnant, and I was 32 years old when I was pregnant with my second child. In addition, I had severe morning sickness in the first four months of pregnancy, and I didn't have such a big pregnancy reaction in my first child. Therefore, my second child was particularly tired during pregnancy, and with my age, my organs were aging and my physical strength was not as good as before, so I felt particularly hard.

take care of the boss. When I was a child, I rarely cooked by myself, but I couldn't do it with my second child. At that time, Dabao was 3 years old and had not yet gone to school. It was uncomfortable for a person to smell the smell of oil smoke when he was pregnant, but he still had to cook for Dabao. The most worrying thing is to sleep with me. Dabao always takes me alone and naturally sleeps with me. He especially likes to sleep with his legs up on me, so he is afraid of kicking his stomach. He puts a pillow between us every day as a buffer, hoping it won't hurt Erbao. Walking the baby every day is also a physical activity, so taking care of the boss is also the cause of being pregnant with a second child.

I'm all alone during the pregnancy test. Every time I go to the hospital, I see a large group of people around me, and it's quite sad to look at myself again, but I don't have much time to think about it, because I'm always in a hurry to go home and take care of Dabao.

Now, the second child is almost 1 months old. If one person takes care of two children, he will be exhausted every day. But it's worth it to watch the baby healthy.

raising children is not an easy job in itself! Tired and happy, happy!

I also find that having a second child is much more tiring than having one.

I don't know if it's my age. I was 25 years old when I was pregnant. At that time, I didn't feel how uncomfortable I was pregnant. I felt that I had a hard time during the whole pregnancy, and the birth check-up was all green. Even the babies were born quickly, smoothly and profitably.

But six years later, being pregnant with a second child is different. At the age of five months, I began to feel all kinds of discomfort. I was panting after walking a little, and I couldn't walk at all. I had to rest for three times to finish the 5-meter road, and my whole body felt heavy.

and I often suffer from insomnia at night, and I can't sleep all night. I don't know what I'm thinking, but I can't sleep, and I'm more tired the next day.

It's also uncomfortable to sleep at night. The doctor said it's best to lie on the left side. It used to be very comfortable to lie on the left side with Dabao, but now I sleep on the left side, and the sciatic nerve of my whole left leg hurts badly. It's uncomfortable to sleep on the right side. It's still uncomfortable to sleep on the left side, anyway.

It's also easy to have backache and backache. I used to do housework when I was pregnant, but I didn't feel tired. I had to rest several times after washing a bowl with my second child, because it's easy to have backache and backache, and I can't stand up straight.

I feel sore after sitting for a long time. Anyway, I feel really tired with my second child, much more tired than my boss. No wonder people say that my second child is a grinding goblin.

I'm Anne Barton, sharing my knowledge and feelings.

The second child must be tired. The one in those days already made us think that it was sent by monkeys, not to mention two now!

First of all, I am tired, playing, fighting, studying, sleeping, getting up at night, working ... At the end of the day, I have exhausted my physical strength and drained my brain, like a walking corpse, falling asleep.

Secondly, I am under great mental pressure, so I have to take care of the emotions of my two babies, and I can't be partial to them. I have to try my best to split my love into two parts, but where can I be so balanced and can't be measured? So I am constantly adjusting, and my heart is very tired!

In addition, the economic pressure is great. Now, to raise a child is to keep throwing money, starting with imported milk powder diapers and early education, to various interest classes, remedial classes and private schools … two babies are doubled!

So think carefully about having a second child, or you'll have to experience it yourself if you want a second treasure!

Because the body is pregnant and the mind is superman! Five months ago, my stomach was not obvious. I don't remember being pregnant anyway! After five to eight months, I have a stomach, but I feel that my body has adapted. What should I do then? I'm in labor, and I feel like a big fat man. I'm still in a hurry! The high risk of old age is just the label on the front page of pregnancy test book. Why? Without the expectations of the first child, there is no self-expectation. Being pregnant with a second child is not to ignore the boss. I should still go to work when I am pregnant with a second child, and the housework I should do will not be reduced much (it's not that my family doesn't take care of it, but I feel that there is nothing wrong with it). Plus, tutoring the boss's homework is the N power of exhaustion. I have felt my blood pressure rubbing up several times. Who can care about being pregnant with a second child? If the homework is not done well, the teacher should come to WeChat, which is another kind of mental exhaustion.

tired! Why are you tired? Because of the beauty of the first child, I think I can copy it directly to the second child, and the result is the iron will of the pregnant body!

Come on, mothers who are pregnant with a second child! Come on, take care of the precious mothers in Shuang Bao!

I have been pregnant with my second child for more than seven months now, and I have a deep understanding!

1. When the eldest brother was born, he was younger, and his physical fitness was better. After giving birth, his physical problems began to increase.

2. Besides, when the eldest brother is older, there are more things to worry about at home. One day, he has to take care of Lazarus and accompany him out to play.

3. Endless housework, laundry, cooking and cleaning the house!

4. I feel more and more tired when I feel depressed due to trivial matters such as household chores and monthly check-ups for a long time.

Me too. The 28-year-old boss cooks and does housework every day, and now he is pregnant with his second child at the age of 38, and he has a backache and a stomachache from the beginning. He finally got over morning sickness, and then he began to doze off. He was tired after standing for a while every day, and his legs ached after walking too much, and he slowly endured [tears].