Going back to my hometown with my boyfriend, my prospective mother-in-law gave me food. I didn't move chopsticks because the table was dirty. Did I do the right thing?

I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and he has been very kind to me, almost to the point of obedience and obedience. But because his family is in the countryside, my mother has never allowed him to propose.

Actually, I can understand my mother's thoughts. I grew up in the city, and my family conditions are relatively good. Personally, I don't want to marry a rural family. However, after dating my boyfriend for so long, I feel that he is really good, and everything is up to me. Besides, he promised not to live with his in-laws, and I couldn't bear to part with him.

Some time ago, at the request of my boyfriend, I followed him to his house. This is the first time I have been to his house. My mother didn't agree before. I didn't have a good impression of the countryside, so I haven't been there.

I didn't know until I arrived that his house was worse than I expected. Although it can be seen that his parents have just finished cleaning the house to meet me, the dust can be cleaned, but the broken furniture and old smell can't be removed. In short, I have an indescribable discomfort after reading it.

His parents are very enthusiastic and busy, making tea for me and bringing me fruit, but when I see old teacups and fruit baskets that can't date, I have no desire to eat and drink. After sitting and chatting for a while, his mother will get up and cook. I didn't want to eat at his house, so I quickly stopped it and said that we would go later, so don't bother. But his mother ignored that piece and said that it was my first time here, so how could I not eat it?

Because I was ready, I quickly cooked a fucking table of dishes. I was embarrassed to refuse their enthusiasm, and some sat at the table helplessly. My boyfriend smiled and said, while handing me chopsticks, I tried my mother's cooking, except that it was not as delicious as the hotel.

His mother listened to her boyfriend's words and kept giving me the dishes in the bowl, and it was full in a few times. But looking at the greasy desktop and the black chopsticks, I really couldn't eat another bite, and the chopsticks didn't move. Under their warm greeting, I barely took a few bites and his mother asked me with concern. Can you get used to it?

My polite answer was not bad. She put a bunch of dishes in my bowl, and I would eat more if I said yes. I quickly declined. I really can't eat. When my boyfriend saw this, he put all the dishes in front of me in his bowl and told his mother that she didn't eat much, so I'd better eat. I secretly thanked my boyfriend for saving the scene, otherwise I really don't know what to do.

I couldn't sit still after dinner, urging my boyfriend to leave quickly. Before leaving, his mother took my hand and gave me a piece of cloth, saying, son, the conditions at home are not good. If you really want to get married, you will be wronged. This is a token of our concern. Not too little.

I just wanted to leave, and I didn't look at my bag. I took it without looking, handed it to my boyfriend, thanked him in a hurry and left. At home, under the reminder of my boyfriend, I opened the bag and looked, and found that it was actually a passbook. The passbook looked old, so I opened it curiously. There are so many pages in it that when I turn to the last page, the total amount is only more than 30 thousand yuan.

My boyfriend said that this is all his mother's possessions that have been saved for so many years, and now they are all given to me. Although there is not much money, it is a gift from the old man. I was moved instantly, and tears ran down my nose, because I could see that the 30,000 yuan they had saved for a long time bit by bit must be all their possessions. An old couple, who have almost lost the ability to make money again, are willing to give me all their property. what can I say? !

However, my mother resolutely opposed it after knowing it, saying that his family was so poor. Although all the money was given to you, the money was not enough for ordinary bride price. Even if they gave it to you, they still earned it! If you want to marry in the past, you will suffer in the future.

I know my mother is doing me good, but it's like taking out my heart and showing it to me. What should I do?