Female subordinates forced me not to show it to my wife with death.

Lead: From then on, Xiao Du pestered me every day, called me every day, stopped me at the factory gate after work every day, and asked me to go back to her rental house with her. Sometimes when I look at Xiao like this, I feel particularly uncomfortable and feel very sorry. I can never calm down. She even threatened me that if I saw my wife in the company again, she would die with me!

My family is in the countryside. Because of my age, my parents have been urging me to have a blind date. My wife and I met on a blind date on 20 10 and got married on 20 1 1. She was seven months pregnant when we got married. Basically, we lived together when we got married, not more than a month. After half a year of marriage, my wife was still at home _ taking care of the children, so I went back.

On June 20 1 1 year, I met my current lover, komori. I am a middle-level supervisor in the factory. She is one of my subordinates, but I just feel that I have met her for a long time. She is the type of girlfriend I have been looking for.

20 1 1 In September, we crossed the last line of defense and began to get together. Besides, Xiao Du is also a woman with a family and two children. When I met her, my youngest daughter was only three years old, and she never had a good relationship with her husband. That's it. We can be together easily.

2065438+May 2002, my son stopped breastfeeding, and my wife came to me from home, leaving only my son and parents at home. I have an affair with Xiao Du, but she is in Lacrimosa every day, and I look very uncomfortable. On the spur of the moment, I arranged for my wife to work in a company two hours away from me, so that I could stay with Xiao Du again, and I simply lived together, formally living together, and husband and wife living together.

Another year passed like this. Because my wife is sensitive, she seems to be a little aware of my abnormality. 20 13 July, my wife resigned without consulting and came to me. She also rented a room in the company annex. I was angry with my wife's sudden decision, so I deliberately picked a quarrel with her and left home in anger. Later, she had to go back to her hometown.

My wife left me and went home, but because she didn't have any real evidence of my cheating, I always denied that I cheated on my family, including her family. Both families believed in me very much, so they began to do her ideological work again and advised her to live a good life with me. The wife thought about it, and for her son's sake, she didn't bother again, but she still didn't trust me. She quietly came back to me two months later.

After she came, our relationship was still very tense. I'm afraid she knows about me and komori, and I don't want komori to leave me. I had a formal conversation with her, but I still couldn't cultivate real feelings with her. My son is still young, and we don't want a divorce. To this end, my wife also wants to take this opportunity to continue to cultivate feelings with me.

When my wife was by my side, I was also worried that she would find out the evidence of Komori and me. Komori knew that my wife was coming, and she was very unhappy. She begged me to let her leave as soon as possible. I am caught in the middle and my life is very uncomfortable. No way, I had to discuss with Komori and refund our rent first. Komori also withdrew from the room and moved to the company dormitory as I said.

After eight months of living on thin ice, I'm really tired, even more tired. Finally, in May of 20 14, Komori couldn't stand the "life is sweet" between my wife and me, especially watching me compensate my wife for the Dragon Boat Festival. She even had a bad feeling in her heart. She even gave me a desperate call that day, and quarreled with me on the phone, threatening that I must return to her immediately, or she would come to me. I tried my best to talk to her on the phone, but it was useless. Or keep calling and harassing me. Finally, I called my wife directly and told her everything about me and her. At this point, my wife thoroughly knew the fact that I cheated.

At this point, I really have no choice but to drag my wife outside to admit my mistake on the Dragon Boat Festival. My wife was very calm at that time and said that she knew it for a long time, but today she called her to confirm it. My good wife also told me that she had been waiting for me to tell her myself, and I was only deceiving myself before.

After the storm, my wife chose to forgive me, but I felt guilty. I decided to love my wife, so I restrained my contact with Komori. During the Chinese New Year, my wife was pregnant for me, and I had mixed feelings when I watched my stomach getting bigger every day. To tell the truth, I don't really want this child. I think I really don't have a wife in my heart. With this child, I still want to live without feelings with her, but I can look at my wife. I tried to persuade my wife to abort the second child, but she refused. I had to be honest with her again, but I still couldn't let go of Komori and told her that I really loved Komori.

I went back to the factory and my wife chased me to the factory. This time, she had another big fight, and even had a big fight with our boss, so that the whole factory knew about me and Xiao Du. Originally, the boss wanted to promote me to be the department manager, but my promotion fell through because of my wife's trouble. When the boss found out, he was very angry and directly called me an irresponsible person. I must not do well.

I was embarrassed about my wife in the factory, and my heart was even worse. I don't care about work. The point is that her troubles have shamed Komori. Fortunately, her husband is in another city, which will not affect family harmony. Later, the boss did my ideological work with Xiao Du, let us break up, and asked me to let my wife move to the dormitory to live with me, and let Xiao Du rent a house outside.

Seeing my wife's belly getting bigger and bigger, I followed my boss's advice and decided to break up with Komori for the time being. My wife also thought that I really broke up with Komori, but in fact her idea was naive. I still contacted Komori privately, comforting Komori with short messages and internal communication tools every day and expressing my sincerity to Komori. Komori never wanted to put me down, let alone me. She felt that I had ruined her happiness and reputation by doing so.

To my surprise, Xiao Du told me that in order to be with me, she decided to divorce her husband years ago, or that she was completely "totally". She cried and said that she just wanted to be with me. Because of the divorce, she and her family are in a bad mood. In her own words, I am the only one left in her world! After listening to what Xiao Du said, I suddenly felt so stressed.

Komori said that she had nothing, and now her wife quarreled in the factory, and she didn't care about the so-called face. It doesn't matter as long as she can stay with me. She also said that my heart is so cruel that I just want to coax my wife regardless of her feelings, so she will take the initiative to "rob" me from now on!

From then on, Xiao Du pestered me every day, called me every day, stopped me at the factory gate after work every day, and asked me to go back to her rental house with her. Sometimes when I look at Xiao like this, I feel particularly uncomfortable and feel very sorry. I can't calm down. She even threatened me that if I saw my wife in the company again, she would die with me! Because of this, I have been afraid to let my wife show up in the factory or even nearby during this time. I'm afraid that she will really do something extreme on impulse, but she doesn't know what to do. Please tell me how to deal with it. !

Listen to the rain.

Reply to the rain:

A man's business is out of control. There is only one possibility that this man has been playing tricks with his wife and lover. When his wife and lover have exposed his hypocritical face, he is smart enough to fool them with love. Until he has been unable to fulfill the so-called love lies, he will "drive his two women to the Liangshan Mountains" and settle accounts with him.

Looking at your letter, I really don't see how good a man you are, worthy of your lover and Komori, and how superb your emotional intelligence and skills are, so you can play with two women at your fingertips. If we want to find out why they are so crazy, it is because they have different needs and different purposes:

What your wife wants is your responsibility and dependence as a husband, and all her troubles are forced. I only blame you for being too smart to deceive yourself about you and komori. What she did was just an ordinary wife defending her family and marriage. And your lover, Xiao Du, is an obvious selfish possession, disappointed and desperate after being cheated by you again and again, so desperate that she wants to divorce her husband. If she pushes you like this, she may not really love you, nor may she be "you are the only one left in her heart." Besides selfish possession, she doesn't like the love between you and your wife. It is a kind of crazy revenge that loves you deeply but can't get your promise. It is irrational and irrational.

No matter how persistent and crazy they are, all this is thanks to you, and all your anxiety and sadness, or even the worse ending, are your own fault, and all this is because of your selfishness and greed. You can't convince them both, and you can't give them both happiness and happiness at the same time. The only thing you can do is to take your due responsibility, not have any responsibility. Try to trick them into temporary balance and quiet with lies. How to choose between a wife and a lover depends on what kind of heart you are, and don't use love as an excuse. You know, now you don't deserve to talk about the word love. There is a simple reason. You are a married man, not a single man. All relationships that don't aim at marriage are hooligans. Between you and your wife, there is more responsibility and responsibility.

Don't say how much you love her in front of Dee. She may not love you now. Even if you are together, it is her revenge. Stop breaking your wife's heart. You have no love for her. You don't have her in your heart, but another woman. You may not love her, but you must give her and your children responsibility and responsibility. The rest are illusory and unrealistic! In this case, protecting her in labor, making her mother and son safe and enjoying an ordinary peace are her simplest needs. She can find a job again. Once her home is lost, I'm afraid it's hard to find it again. Take care of yourself!