My girlfriend said she was tired, and her emotional intelligence was high.

First, my girlfriend is tired from work and has high emotional intelligence. Reply 1. Give a red envelope to your girlfriend. When my girlfriend complains that she is tired from work, she is actually looking for comfort. You can give her girlfriend a red envelope directly. The first red envelope reads "buy delicious food for the baby"; The second one buys a small skirt for the baby; The third one is to buy lipstick for the baby … a few more (not too much). Don't want to give a red envelope, just send a message when my girlfriend says she is tired: wait for me, I'll come right away. For example, my girlfriend gives her a midnight snack without adding it. When waiting for the bus, she will drive or take a taxi to pick her up. When my girlfriend is on her way home, she will cook a meal or cheer for takeout and wait for her to come back and eat together. Nothing can't be solved together. 2, funny reply In fact, many boys don't understand. My girlfriend and girl said I was so tired. Doesn't mean she doesn't want to work. She wants you to raise her. Her subtext is that she needs comfort when she is depressed. At this time, what boys need to do is not to let her have a good rest, but to say some funny words to reply to her with high emotional intelligence, such as: A, female: I am so tired from work! Man: What job makes a delicate fairy so tired? Call 1 10 to call the police! Woman: Ha, ha, ha, you are really good at talking. B, female: I'm so tired after work today! Man: My shoulders are always open for you! If you are tired, you can make an appointment for a nap in advance! W: OK, you need to make an appointment! Man: If it's you, come over anytime! C. W: hey, I'm really tired! M: If you really feel tired, don't go to work. Although my condition is not good, I can afford to raise your pig. Woman: I want to die. Who do you think is a pig? I want to hit you! Second, my girlfriend says that being in love is tiring. Many girlfriends feel tired in love, especially in long-distance relationships. At this time, it is necessary for boys to reply with high emotional intelligence to comfort her and let her look forward to this relationship again: 1, it is not easy for us to persist in long-distance love until now, so we must be together to live up to your hard work, so we must be together in the future. I will work hard until that day. I think I can let you rely on me in the future. I'm really sorry for making you so tired before. I love you very much! If your girlfriend feels tired of falling in love because of practical problems, then say something to make the girl feel safe. For example, first agree with some complaints from her girlfriend. Whoever makes her upset and irritable will follow suit. If you are uncomfortable in bed, scold the leader and then say something sweet to coax her. For example, baby, I will work hard to make money, and I will support you then! In fact, my girlfriend said she was tired and just wanted an attitude. She wants to see if her boyfriend will pay attention to her and find some high emotional intelligence replies to comfort her. If she sees you working hard, she will stick to it no matter how tired she is. Girlfriend said she was tired, and high EQ replied 2. First, how should girls comfort themselves when they say they are tired from work? When girls tell you that they are tired from work, many straight men habitually reply to girls with problem-solving thinking, such as "pay more attention to rest" and "treat themselves well after work". Generally, this kind of reply is concerned, but it is not the answer that girls want. Because girls' thinking mode is rational, they pay more attention to specific details and express their feelings, so it is comforting. We need to do this: 1. Learn to listen. When girls complain about you, they are talking. We just need to concentrate. If the relationship is closer, we can also hold them in our arms to comfort them. 2. Girls tell you that they are tired from work and are more expressing their emotions. Of course, this kind of emotion is negative, but it is a good window for boys. Be sure to show concern for girls, such as: "Are you okay?" "What's the matter?" In this case, there are doubts and concerns. 3. Understand and identify with girls' emotions. Never preach to girls that you are trying to stick to the chicken soup discourse, which will only turn your words into preaching and make girls feel bored. 4. Transfer girls' emotions, so that girls are tired after work and don't want to talk about happy things with girls, such as inviting girls to dinner after work or talking about topics that girls are interested in. 5. Blame her boss with the girl and criticize her hateful behavior, so that the girl will feel that you really care about her. Second, what should the girls do if they are tired from work? Generally speaking, for girls who have just joined the work, they often complain that they are tired from work. If you want to pursue this girl, you need to comfort her, but you must not be a girl's emotional trash can. You need to divert her negative emotions and talk to her about some interesting topics. The most important thing is that girls are sensitive. Don't show disgust and impatience with girls in chat, which will make girls lose interest in you. It is inevitable to talk with girls about work and talk about some topics of work fatigue, but we can also show our values to girls, such as being motivated and diligent, leaving a good impression on girls, which is also very helpful for getting along in the future.