After her mother-in-law became ill, her daughter-in-law who didn't want to go to the hospital for nursing also had her own difficulties. what do you think?

It is often said that time can change everything and dilute many things.

But some people have some things, no matter how time goes by, those bad memories can't be erased and people can't let go, such as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in marriage.

Li Mei's story is very long.

Li Mei was born in a poor and backward mountain village and lived a hard life since childhood. She has always wanted to get out of this ravine one day, know the outside world and live a better life.

After graduating from high school, Li Mei knew that her family's economic situation was not good, so she simply packed her bags and went to her cousin's house where she worked in the city without waiting for the college entrance examination.

Working outside is really hard. Due to her low education, Li Mei can only do some manual work. She worked as a waitress in a restaurant and an assembly line worker in a factory.

Later, with some savings, she went to the training institution outside to apply for a computer and learned some office software operations. Because of her hard work, the teacher of the training institution introduced her to a job as a clerk.

Li Mei never dreamed that one day she could work in an air-conditioned office, just like the previous working environment.

Therefore, she cherishes this job very much and knows that her knowledge is weak. She humbly asks her colleagues around her, and she will do it seriously no matter what work the leader assigns.

Because she is very self-motivated, she quickly won the appreciation of the leaders and gave her a promotion and salary increase.

Later, at work, Li Mei and Li Jun, a male colleague in the same department, fell in love for a long time and naturally walked together.

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Li Jun is an excellent boy. Not only is he handsome, but his family conditions are also very good. His home is local, and there are two suites in the city center.

Colleagues all said that Li Mei chose a high-quality stock and found the treasure. Li Jun said that he could find a good girl like Li Mei. It was he who found the treasure.

After two years of love, Li Jun expressed his desire to marry Li Mei. At this time, Li Mei's younger brothers and sisters have all graduated from college and come out to work, and there is no burden at home. Li Mei also thinks it's time to think about her lifelong events.

Choosing a rest day, she prepared many gifts to go home with Li Jun.

Li Jun's mother was very happy when she learned that Li Mei and Li Jun worked in the same company. She took Li Mei to sit down and ask questions with enthusiasm.

However, after learning that Li Mei came from a poor mountain village, her face immediately changed, her attitude turned 180 degrees, and the atmosphere became very stiff.

As a local, Li Jun's mother has a natural sense of superiority and a deep-rooted prejudice against foreigners because of her unique economic advantages.

I think Li Mei is attracted by their family's money, saying that she comes from a small mountain village and is not worthy of their family's Li Jun. Let Li Mei die and marry into their family's heart. She won't agree to anything.

However, Li Jun recognized Li Mei, had a bad relationship with his mother and moved out of the house.

Li Jun's mother became angry from embarrassment and even went to the company. She threw dirty water on Li Mei out of thin air, saying that her hands and feet were not clean. Going to her house for dinner that day, she lost hundreds of dollars at home.

In the face of Li Jun's mother's unreasonable troubles, everyone in the company pointed the finger at Li Mei, who was insulted out of thin air. Li Mei was so sad that she once wanted to give up this relationship.

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But then she found out she was pregnant. Li Jun was ecstatic when he learned that. Later, I don't know how he persuaded his mother and finally agreed to their marriage.

It's just that her mother-in-law is lukewarm to Li Mei after marriage. When Li Jun is away, she often laughs at her in front of her neighbors and says all kinds of ugly things, which makes Li Mei very upset.

But she didn't want to affect the relationship between husband and wife because of this incident, and she never told Li Jun. It was not until her son was born that her mother-in-law's attitude changed greatly.

As the son grows older, he is very popular with his mother-in-law because he is cute and cute, which makes her smile all day.

Over the years, she has been very kind to Li Mei, and she no longer looks lofty. Sometimes she even takes the initiative to be nice to Li Mei. People who don't know the inside story will never think that her mother-in-law has treated Li Mei like that.

I don't know why, although my mother-in-law no longer has the arrogance of the past, Li Mei can't get close to her.

What she said and did before left a deep impression on her mind, and it didn't heal after many years. She can't pretend that it never happened.

The reason why I can live in peace with my mother-in-law under the same roof these years is largely because I love my husband very much. He is really good to himself. She didn't want to embarrass him, so she had been enduring all kinds of injustice from her mother-in-law.

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Later, my mother-in-law accidentally fell down in the toilet and was admitted to the hospital. Li Mei stayed in the hospital the first night, and then she was taken care of by a nurse. She visits for a while every day and then goes home.

During that time, she just didn't go to work on annual leave. Relatives and friends all think that Li Mei, as a daughter-in-law, should go to the hospital to take care of herself, saying that she is a little unkind.

In the face of accusations from relatives and friends, Li Mei didn't care too much, because she knew that life was for herself, and outsiders never knew what they had experienced.

She also has her own difficulties, that is, she can't get close to her mother-in-law. She doesn't want to be embarrassed and speechless to her mother-in-law all day in the hospital. She doesn't want to be unhappy for a good reputation.

What's more, having a nurse to take care of her mother-in-law and going to the hospital every day is considered forbearance. As for how outsiders evaluate her, she doesn't want to care too much.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a complicated and difficult relationship since ancient times, because each has different life backgrounds and habits.

If you don't handle it well and can't accept each other, there will be tension and contradiction, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, if conditions permit, it is best to live separately from the elderly after marriage, giving each other a sense of boundaries and making the distance beautiful.