My girlfriend's circle of friends sent a message like this. Can you help me explain what Yao means?

This. . . It's very misleading. First of all, you'd better tell me how your relationship with your girlfriend is. . . Secondly, you'd better tell me what happened to you recently. Read this and tell me. . . At first glance, it's addressed to my predecessor. . . But don't be so pessimistic, brother. After all, she used two "once", and the narrative began with "I once". . . . "Your girlfriend knows that you can definitely see the circle of friends, so she should also be afraid of your misunderstanding, so the beginning is once. Sometimes these words are not necessarily superficial. You love your girlfriend, right? Then you should also believe that your girlfriend loves you. Breaking the past is to better grasp the present and look forward to the future. You can choose to keep sinking until she tells you, or you can ask directly. All my friends who think my method is inappropriate may wish to think about it. My girlfriend didn't just throw it away for fun. Since she wants to live, there are many things to do in the future, and I can't talk about everything sincerely at the dinner table. It's better to cut the gordian knot and ask out instead of moping. After asking, you may feel that you can't get together, or you may find that everything you are worried about is just your own delusion. The last sentence, girls are more emotional, so some things are just the feeling of that moment, there is no need to be serious. . . Anyone who has a girlfriend knows. . . Unreasonable trouble is also a sign of love, isn't it ~ I hope to adopt it, thank you.