Qilu's classic quotations

1, some people hold it for a lifetime, and the person they like is right in front of her. A good job was before her, and she seized it. Someone followed her, and she held on. As a result, all the good things were missed. Like an ostrich, you bury your head in the sand and think you have everything, but in fact you just refuse everything. Try everything before the age of 30, and only after the age of 30 should you choose carefully, try the most possibilities, and then choose the best result. This is the perfect life.

2. "Japan" For a long time, this kind of thing is usually only effective for women. Men are generally "Japanese" for a long time.

Men always think that women want this and that, and happiness is an insatiable desire. In fact, what women really want is the simplest happiness-that is, you are by my side.

4. The perfect marriage order should be like this. 1, understood. 2. communication. 3. Continue dating. 4. Being pushed down or pushing down the other side. 5. Observe whether the other party shows signs of breaking up. 6. Continue to associate and date. 7, cohabitation trial marriage. 8. Stay with other parents for a few days. 9. Buy a house and decorate it. 10, premarital travel 1 1, marriage

When making life plans, men often arrange their lives perfectly and realize their dreams. But the biggest problem is that they always consider life from a personal point of view, not family. Therefore, when choosing a husband, you must choose to take your wife into account in your life planning. Only when a person puts his life together with yours can he be proved to be responsible. A sense of responsibility is a man's greatest advantage, surpassing others.

6. When is the time to fall in love with someone? When you think about his goodness all the time, you fall in love. When is there no love? When you forget his good points, only remember his shortcomings. So please be together when you are intoxicated with each other. Think of each other's shortcomings, you can endure to continue, but you can't endure to break up. We always do. We are together because of our strengths, and we break up because of our weaknesses. Love is a kind of patience.

7. If a love comes to an end, don't force it to continue. When a relationship begins, don't force it to stop. You never know what kind of relationship will have a good result. Therefore, don't stay when you break up, don't stay when you are together, and finally stay.

8. Love doesn't need to stare at people in a hurry. It should give the lover enough trust. In fact, sometimes, what should come will always come, what should go will always go, and you can't stay if you want to. And trust is just one of the best experiences, which can clearly see the essence of a person. The so-called love is actually that you trust him and he can return your trust.

9, complete skills to quit ex-boyfriend: 1, if you quit your boyfriend, you must have no intersection for half a year, the phone QQ is blacked out, you don't chat, you don't meet, even if you say a word, you have to start over. 2, heartache is inevitable, if you want to be painless, you can only start the next relationship. 3. It is normal to be unable to invest in new feelings and think about ex-boyfriends. Sleeping with new feelings can be alleviated. 4, the first love will be remembered for a long time, as long as it is not controlled.

10, don't love because of shortcomings or because of advantages, this kind of love is pure material. The real fate is that two people know that they are right when they fall in love at first sight. Naturally, there is no reason. In the eyes of lovers, shortcomings will be lovely. As long as two people have feelings, it doesn't matter what is good or bad, because good or bad is their own. People who don't like you don't love you enough. And people who love you will kiss your shortcomings.

1 1. When a woman says goodbye, all she wants is to be nice to me. When a woman says goodbye, she wants to stay. When a woman says she doesn't care, she really cares. Every time they keep silent, they are actually covering up their weaknesses. Therefore, a man should never give up because a girl refuses to shirk, which may be the time closest to her heart. You know, every time a woman loses her manners, there are tears in her heart.

12, I have always disapproved of girls' vanity, but if you do statistics, you will find it very sad. In fact, most girls who are greedy for vanity have a good life. It can be seen that a good life has little to do with high moral quality. It is often the higher the morality, the more depressed people are, because they should be cautious and save themselves. Therefore, when you choose to be a good person, it means giving up a part of a good life.

13, a woman's marriage is a rebirth. You have no right to choose the first life. It is natural to accept one's fate. When you can make a decision in Second Life, but you have to choose a bad one, you can only say that you are asking for it. If you commit a crime in heaven, you can forgive it. You can't live if you commit iniquity! Some people get married to enjoy happiness, while others get married with hardships and debts. In fact, they were just cheated by the bad guys.

14, after a woman falls in love with a man, her confidence is given by this man. If a man is proud of her, she will be proud. But, girl, please find yourself. You should be proud of yourself at any time. Because self-confidence is the most charming glory in you.

In my opinion, the word "love" is far less sweet than the word "habit". "I'm in love with you", how easy it is, but "I'm used to having you around", but I clearly see the truth ... In life, there may be many quotas for falling in love with others, but there are very few quotas for one person. Because of habit, it takes time to change. Probably nothing is more precious than time.

16, you want someone to love you, you want someone to care about you, you want to feel warm when you go home every day, you want a place to heal after being injured, you want a hug, you want a delicious home-cooked meal even if it tastes bad, you want someone to take care of you, you want to travel with someone, and you want to have children with him. Do you want love? All you really want is a home.

Behind every lazy man, there is always a diligent woman. In life, the more women do, the less men do. The more you spoil a man, the more he looks like a child. Men can only be forced, managed and not spoiled. But on the other hand, women can't be too strict. The more they manage, the more rebellious they are. The best way to treat a girl is to spoil her until she becomes tolerant. Therefore, men should raise and women should raise.

18, men will say that they will not do it, but they will do it. I promise to get married every day, and nine times out of ten I won't really get married. The person who really marries you doesn't talk at all. He just takes you to see your parents regularly, shows you the house and lets you go to his house for the New Year. Those who vowed not to break up all day, basically broke up. If you really don't break up, write your name on the real estate license, let you manage the money, and even urge you to register. The more you talk, the less you do. The more you do, the less you say. This is a man's nature.

19, be a man, either do what you want to do or do something that will make you live a good life. Being yourself is generally difficult to live a good life, which is nothing more than spiritual pleasure. Do something to make yourself live a better life? You are rich in material things, but unhappy. If you like to do it and live a good life, you must have great wisdom and talent. Most people are doing things they don't want to do, and they can't live a good life. Why think about it?

20. The stronger the self-esteem, the more vulnerable it is. The more face-saving people are, the more vulnerable they are. Therefore, those who die shamelessly live well, and those who are better are miserable. But shameless is actually a virtue. Lao Tzu said, goodness is like water. Confucius said that everyone is clean, but the water is dirty. It is said that it is good to be shameless but help others. It is evil to be shameless but harm others. The distinction between good and evil is really not that obvious.

2 1, long-distance love, I often say that women give up everything and run to men's cities, and more than half will break up. If the man is willing to sacrifice, the success rate will be high, but long-distance love is different. Choose the most favorable city for family development, and anyone's sacrifice is for the family. So, if you are in a long-distance relationship and a man wants you to give up everything, please get married first. If you want to share weal and woe, you can gamble together. Why do women always have to sacrifice?

22. Nine times out of ten, girls who tell you all day that I don't love money come for it. Good girls usually have a greedy face, but they never waste men's money. A man who tells you all day that he loves you forever, nine times out of ten, eats it and runs away. A good man dare not say the word forever, but he is with you every day.

23, you pray for others to love you, waiting for others to love you, thinking that love is the heaviest thing in the world, in fact, others just bully you with love. Why bother? It's better to be nice to yourself during this time. No matter how kind you are to others, it is futile to be ungrateful. If you are good to yourself, you can feel it at every point. It is better to be a self-rich person than to be a beggar of love. It's not worth it. Sometimes it's the best refusal.

24. When a bad thing happens, when you question a man, there are often only two results: 1, lying to you; 2, all kinds of sophistry. Because most men don't have the courage to face their anger, and they are even more unwilling to bear the public opinion responsibility of breaking up. So, you want to seek an answer, but what you can hear is never the real answer, but the lies made up by others. Facts are often the worst and most vicious of all your premonitions and predictions.

25. Some people look smart, but they are confused when they fall in love. Some people are stupid, but they can still find good husbands. Is this because you know the skills of love? If everyone can see love clearly, there won't be so much pain, but in fact, we are nothing more than awake when we don't love and confused when we love. In fact, it doesn't matter how many skills you know, because whoever knows more can't win. This is a game in which whoever loves less wins.

26. What is the most important thing for two people to be together? It's not love, it's relaxed and natural. You have to live forever. If you die every day, it won't last long. Only when you relax nature and two people live as one can you become a habit. Don't think it's bad to turn love into a habit. The worst thing is that you can't get used to it. Neither of them is used to having one more person in bed. It's not love, it's one-night stand.

27. Generally speaking, don't rely on others. Always say, you have to live independently. Always say, dare to love and hate, let go. I mean, you have to make your own decisions. Always say, learn to make money and don't spend other people's money. But when you fall in love with someone, you can't help but want to rely on him, want to stay in his arms and do nothing, and feel that everything is decided by him. Well, this is really bad, but isn't this what happiness looks like?

28. What is happiness? Happiness is when you fall in love with someone, and that person happens to love you. Happiness is when someone pours you a cup of tea when you are thirsty. Happiness means having a playmate when you want to travel, a companion when you want to work and a companion when you want to cry. In fact, happiness does not need luxury and luxury. Sometimes the more you want, the harder it is to be happy. Little people, small desires and small gratifications are great happiness.

29. When you are in love, the only person who makes you smart is diamond cut diamond. And the person who makes you more and more stupid is true love.

30. What is the ending of love? In the sense of probability, the most likely outcome of two lovers is to break up, followed by ordinary friends, and the least likely is to get married. Love is a thing with high probability of failure and low probability of success. You love someone, as long as you always pay attention to him. But two people have been together, but they need tolerance, change and control. Love is simple, but being together is a skill.

3 1. Is trust the foundation of love? Not exactly. Two people who are suspicious of each other can love each other to death. The more two people quarrel, the more inseparable they are, the more suspicious they are, and the more reluctant they are to leave. This doubt is actually part of love. But trust is the foundation of marriage. Because love can be ups and downs, but marriage needs stability. When love becomes trust, there will be no passion, but it is the guarantee of life.

32. Always remember that he who sees through the world of mortals and is indifferent to fame and fortune will always be the patent of the winner. For small people, desire is the lifeline of survival.

Of course, a man will be dead set on a woman and will try his best to please her. But there is no doubt that that woman is not you. Because a man will only please those women who are difficult to chase, and the women he can't master may leave his woman at any time. If you obey and leave everything to a man, why should he be kind to you? If love is just a kind of pay, then you will definitely get nothing in return.

34. Some people like the worst people. The best people, some people say bad things. Good or bad is relative. If I hate you, the advantage is the disadvantage. Love you, shortcomings are advantages. So why underestimate yourself? Maybe we have many advantages, but no one has found them. From today on, stay away from people who hate you and find someone who loves you. When someone loves you, you are the best.

35. Before you speak, your mind is straight. Maybe what you said casually is so hurtful that you don't even know if you have offended them all. However, it is a fool to think before speaking and regret after speaking. Because you hurt others casually, but it's no use regretting and hurting yourself. Isn't that stupid? Go straight and you'll die. Bend like a bow, seal the Hou. Ladies and gentlemen, a dead friend is not dead but original.

36. Seven criteria for a good man: it doesn't have to be romantic, but it must be responsible. You don't have to earn a lot of money, but you must support your family. You don't have to listen to your parents, but you must be filial. You don't have to be obedient and virtuous, but you must spoil your wife. You don't have to have a successful career, but you must have time to spend with your family. You can not take care of your children, but you must love them. You don't have to be male chauvinist, but you must make up your mind when you encounter something big.

37. Love makes people proud, and love makes people humble. Love makes you proud because someone dotes on you. Love makes you humble, because someone plays with you. The more arrogant you are, the more you should cherish the people around you. The more modest you are, the more you should leave the bad guys far away.

When you should fall in love, love must be more important than bread. Please don't dwell on the problem of bread. When you should get married, bread is of course more important than love. Please choose your marriage partner. Never worship money when you are young, but you will die when you are old. When you find a man, you first choose love, and then you choose the person who will bring home the bacon. A good man loves a woman when he is young and raises a woman when he is old.

39. What is a bad guy? What you think is unbearable, beyond the bottom line, and you will break up as soon as you do it, he can proudly say it and do it. This is a typical bad guy.

40. Some girls choose men to be safe and enterprising, but in the end they will ignore handsome guys. Some men choose girls to be virtuous, sensible and gentle, but in the end they can't leave when they meet beautiful women. In fact, when people face a new thing, they are often fascinated by its appearance, but once they are familiar with it, they will not cherish it. Therefore, good-looking can only be satisfied for a while; Reliable, can be reliable for a lifetime.

4 1, everyone's life, can only receive such deep love, can only pay this time. Missing is farewell, goodbye, never goodbye.

42. People with strong appearance often give up easily for fear of losing. People who are weak in appearance are often tenacious because they want to win. The stupidest thing is to have a face that wants to win, but not a heart that wants to win. If you are lonely, why pretend to be happy? If you want it, why don't you pretend? If you are afraid, why pretend to be brave? Wearing a mask still hurts. It is not your face that needs to be strong, but your heart.

43. A good girl will not attract bees and butterflies, nor will she be too poor to fall in love with the rich, but she may not be so beautiful. Good men can't have sex, can't have sex, but they are not very good at falling in love. There are disadvantages behind every advantage. If you only look at the disadvantages of people, you will miss more benefits. Love should be tolerant of small shortcomings and decisive of big injuries. To fall in love with someone is to love all the advantages and some disadvantages of TA.

44. Life is a constantly changing process. Just like love will turn into hate, vows will be annihilated, warmth will turn into harm, and fate will turn into pain. What is it? Not exactly. Therefore, don't trust what is in front of you too much, let alone what others describe. Because, a truly beautiful life and a beautiful love are not deliberately planned. This is a life, a life.

45. Five reasons why you can't find a boyfriend: 1, dead house; 2. Pretending to be a female rogue; 3. Perfectionism; 4. I can't forget my ex-boyfriend; I am anxious to get married. Dead houses make you have no chance to meet men, female hooligans scare away good men, perfectionism will criticize all men, and you can't start a new relationship without forgetting your ex-boyfriend. You are so eager to get married that people around you are afraid to introduce you.

46. It doesn't matter if IQ is not high, and EQ is not a big problem, but the pattern of being a man will be big. To put it bluntly, you may not be smart or sociable, but you must be atmospheric. If you can't get up at all, if you can't let go of one or two bad words, if you hate people at every turn, then the pattern is too small. How successful you are as a person. Because the mind is a symbol of success.

47. Love is not a control, let alone a prayer, or even a life. Love is a small part of life. It is often said that if you love for a long time, you will love less, and the more you love, the faster you will break up. When two people are together, the nervous one always suffers, pays more and gets less. The more nervous you are about a person, the easier it is for him to leave you. So, pretend not to care. If nothing happens, it's the winner.

48. Everything is fine when you get married, and nothing is fine when you want to break up. Therefore, in the future, everyone will find a husband or a generous one. If anything happens, I'll die with you.

49. Love and moral integrity are two things. People who love don't necessarily have moral integrity. They can love this or that. However, a person with moral integrity may not necessarily fall in love, so he may only be with one person all his life. When you make a choice, don't choose love, forget honesty.

50. What is a good man? There is kindness, but there is a bottom line. It will make money, but it will not go against your conscience. Love, but not promiscuity. What is a good woman? Even if you have a dream, you should take care of your family. Be friendly to others and know how to refuse. Longing for care can also warm a lover. Good people are bold in their careers and timid in their feelings. A good woman is as hot as fire to her lover and as cold as ice to people she doesn't love.

5 1, where does a woman's temperament come from? It's not strange to get honor, but I have no desire in my heart. Physical training can make you tall and straight, but only the integrity in your heart can make you have temperament. Where does a man's temperament come from? It is tolerance and forbearance, and it is his inner compassion. Wealth can make men have aura, but only when they are strong inside can they have temperament. Women are strong without desire, and men are tolerant, which is the temperament from the inside out.

52. Love is an easy thing. You will fall in love with many people in your life, but you will only marry one person, so breaking up is an inevitable experience. Some people worry about breaking up all day, worrying, thinking about returning to the grass, unable to let go, unwilling. But if you entangle too much, you will be in trouble, and the result is still breaking up. The best way to break up is to forget for women and never look back for men. It's better to be a stranger than a fake friend.

53. I have a bad temper, don't like work, have no patience, and are also picky and often irritating. Such a person is very annoying, but some people like him, not only like him, but also fall in love with him. Why? I don't want money or looks, just because two people are warm together. That's it. We fell in love with someone. The so-called fate means that you can warm yourself from him, and he is willing to burn his life to warm you.

54. A person who says you are very nice may not be with you, because he just comforts you. People who say they love you don't necessarily love you, because they are just perfunctory. People who say they can't lie are often lying because they have done bad things. When you are in love, all sweet words are lies, and the only thing that you don't lie is the result. A word around you is also a good person, leaving you with a mouthful of honey, especially a liar.

55. Everyone will become a masochist in love. It's like being in debt for several lifetimes, and this life is just to pay off debts. Therefore, if you love someone, it is abused, and if someone loves you, it is abused. Two people who love each other hurt each other and warm each other. The sign that others love you is that they are willing to let you abuse you for life.

56. Girls have high demands on love. When the people they love can't give them perfect love, or can't give them reciprocal love, they may give up. This is not because you don't love, but because the other person doesn't love enough.

57. It is as impossible to stop men from watching football in the middle of the night as it is to stop women from buying shoes. So, don't try to stop it, but let nature take its course. For example, watch a game with him and reward yourself with a pair of shoes. You will soon feel that the European Cup is really too short. It would be nice to play for four years in a row. The trick of managing a person is not to force him, but to spend money on the basis of reciprocity. He watches the ball and you buy shoes, he goes to nightclubs and you go to bars until he is distressed.

58. People without breasts like to squeeze ditches hard. People with big breasts don't bother to show it to others. People with ulterior motives always say kindness and simplicity. Really good people always wish they were evil little monsters. People who lack love will show off their feelings all day. People who really love each other have long lived a quiet life. Only the weak like to argue with others about right and wrong. Powerful people don't care what others say.

59. If you are hurt by others, you will become eccentric and emotional. But if you are hurt by the same person again and again, you can only blame yourself for being stupid. Being a man can save everything, but you have no autonomy but no medicine. Doing something wrong is excusable. But if you make the same mistake again and again in the same place, it is unforgivable, because people can make anything, only the same mistake can't be made. Don't leave yourself in the same place, let alone cry for the same person.

60. In love, you will have all kinds of emotions, but in any case, both emotions cannot be less. One is happiness (which later became habit and comfort) and the other is monopoly (which later became reassurance). If these two emotions do not exist, then love will deteriorate. At the same time, there can be no other two emotions, one is unwilling and the other is revenge. When these two negative emotions appear, love is over. Uncomfortable, what you hate must not be love, but emotion.

6 1, the best woman will not be complacent because others praise her a few words, nor will she feel dejected because others scold her. She clearly knows her own good and bad. People who love you will accept everything about you, even the shortcomings are beautiful. People who hate you hate the advantages of being together. So, don't change for others, just let yourself live better and better. The beauty of people comes from inner pride.

62. If a person wants to leave you anyway, don't try to stay. It won't be long before you find that he has a new lover, not because you are not good enough, but because he cheated first. Love is a natural thing. I was lucky to get it, but lost my life. If you want to force it, it will definitely be sad and harmful in the end. Therefore, it is better to leave a heart that does not belong to you than to forget it in the Jianghu. Love is luck, not love is fate.

What you want is neither wealth nor romance. Just company.

64. When a woman tells you that she is ill, she wants you to take care of her and accompany her, instead of perfunctorily asking you to drink more water. Drinking my sister's water will cure all diseases? Even if drinking water cures the fever, can it cure the chills?