Dare you live in the room where your wife died after her death?

A few days ago, a relative's husband passed away. Afterwards, she was afraid to sleep in the room where her husband died. what can I do?

My relative is 52 years old and unfortunately has advanced liver cancer. When they found out the disease, they rushed to major hospitals, provincial hospitals, and then Beijing Cancer Hospital. After all kinds of treatment, they still didn't save the patient's life.

It is a pity that life is so fragile. I lost my life so young. The pillar of my family fell down. I have a pair of children, one of whom is in college. My eldest daughter is married. The burden of life weighs on her. Relatives and friends advised her not to fall. You haven't finished the task yet.

Alas! Accidents in life make people unprepared. I don't know which comes first, accident or luck. Be strong and face the reality.

After dealing with the funeral, the child has to go to school for a while, and the daughter has a family to take care of, so she stays at home alone. She has nothing to do during the day and dares not sleep at night.

It's not a long-term solution for my daughter to live with her mother for a while. What should I do?

My daughter had to take her mother to live in her house, and she hasn't come back yet.

The daughter asked her mother what you were afraid of. Husband and wife are together all day, but why do they leave? My mother said that as soon as I closed my eyes at night, I saw your father standing there looking at me, and I was scared. ...

I wonder if there is such a thing around my friends? Tell me your opinion ... [Bowing]

The best couples finally passed away one after another. The first person to leave is lucky, and the remaining survivors are miserable. Lonely days are simply suffering. Especially in the dead of night, when I look at the half-empty bed, I have a lot of thoughts and often cry my eyes out. This is human nature.

After the death of the old man's wife, it must be painful, but in order to let the dead wife meet in a dream, they will live in the original room and sleep in the original bed. There are even people who put their wife's urn on the half bed where her wife used to sleep, and they are not afraid at all.

After my father died, I kept my father's urn at home for many years and kept it at my mother's house until I was buried with my mother's urn after her death. My parents loved each other all their lives and never quarreled. Although her mother was sad after her father died, she was not only not afraid, but also looking forward to seeing her father in her dream.

Of course, some people are born timid, and it is normal that they dare not live alone in their original room and sleep in their original bed after their wives die. But if I'm not afraid, husband and wife sharing the same bed and mutually assured destruction will be the best ending.

My wife lived in a room before she died, because I like hard beds, and it is convenient to have a bathroom in the room. My wife is the closest person, and I want to see him in my dream. As for the reason why some people are afraid, it is fear. Every family is different, so it's best to deal with it according to your own wishes.

If you have bad feelings or are ashamed of each other, you may not dare. But usually I must live because I feel warm.

I'll tell you a story that happened in our village. This is a true story. Everyone in the village knew about it and saw it with their own eyes.

An old man in our village died two years ago.

After the old man died, the old lady was left alone in the house.

The old woman was a goddess worshipper when she was young.

There used to be weddings and funerals in Shili Baxiang, so I asked her to chant Buddhist scripture.

Give her a red envelope, send something to eat, barbecue and so on.

Before the old man got mixed up, the old woman raised her son by this "craft".

Later, the old man went out to do business and made a lot of money.

After coming back, I bought a large piece of land in the village and built a big house for the elderly.

The house is big and beautifully decorated.

There is a wall around the three-story building, and there is a large orchard and a small fish pond in the yard.

Every summer, when the fruit is ripe and the fish is fat, the children love to sneak over the wall to pick litchi and mango.

The old couple had five sons, all of whom bought houses in the city, and none of them lived with the old couple.

Since the old man left, the old lady has been talking about the house all day.

From time to time, I make trouble and say that I want to move out and don't want to live in this big house.

The sons had no choice but to discuss it and take turns to take their mother to live at home in the city.

Let's live in each son's house for a while.

As a result, the old lady and her five daughters-in-law were in trouble.

No matter where you go, you can't stay for half a month and let your son's family jump.

Finally, there is no way. The sons sent her back to the village and forced her to return to the old house.

The old lady is too timid to go back.

She kept saying that the old man was still in the house, coming back every night, walking around upstairs, and the footsteps kept her awake.

Of course, the sons don't believe her, and they all know that mother is afraid of loneliness.

It's all because she doesn't want to live alone in the old house. This is just a fabricated story.

But they have no other good way. Daughters-in-law have said that whoever takes the old lady back will divorce!

Finally, the second child was smart and said, why not rent the second floor to someone else?

When someone is with her, the old woman need not be afraid.

This proposal is good, and everyone agrees. Contact the tenant immediately.

Because their house is big and comfortable, they can also grow flowers and raise fish, and live comfortably.

It was not long before someone came to rent a house.

Everyone's main purpose is to put mom in a good place, and the rent is only a symbolic fee.

The last tenant was a bachelor in his forties, working as a quality inspector in a food factory in our town.

Living in the house with the tenant, the old woman agreed and stopped for a long time.

I'm done talking nonsense.

The old man can live in peace of mind, and his sons come back to visit him from time to time.

Tell mom when you come back and take her to the restaurant for a delicious meal. Everything is fine.

Originally, this matter was perfectly solved.

Unexpectedly, a strange and inexplicable thing happened last July.

This incident made the old woman's sons make up their minds to send their mother to a nursing home and never let her live in the old house in the village again.

It was the summer before last, and the old lady suddenly said it again.

At first, I talked to myself and said all kinds of strange things.

Because she has been a god all her life, no one in the village cares about her.

The old woman runs around and drills where there are many people.

The banyan tree head near the fish pond is a place where old people gather, especially in summer, people love to enjoy the cool under the tree.

When the old lady saw someone sitting there, she leaned in and wouldn't let go if she caught someone.

She has always said that there are "things" in her house, and others will say it if they don't like it.

After chatting for many days, basically everyone in the village was robbed by her to say it again.

But no one believes that everyone thinks that her purpose in making up these stories is only to let her sons take her out to live again.

One day, the old lady suddenly went crazy again and ran out of her old house in a panic early in the morning.

I ran to the banyan tree head in the village and shouted at everyone: Did you see it? Do you see it? Many people are standing in front of my house, and they want to catch someone and leave!

No one knows what she is saying.

Her house has always been very good, the yard is full of birds and flowers, the pond is quiet and the fish is fat. Where is a large crowd blocking the door?

People who rent the second floor of her house go to work every day and live in a comfortable big house without paying rent, not to mention how cool it is.

Then one night, two couples from another family in our village heard the sound of "rustling" in the room in the middle of the night.

Their home is also a two-story rural self-built house, and the voice is coming from the hall.

The hostess was afraid and woke up her husband.

At this time, there were several deep cries of the old man in the hall.

There are no old people living together in their family. It was late at night, and this cry came from the house, which frightened their two in-laws.

The husband boldly touched it out, turned on the light in the living room and found that the sound was coming from the bottom of the stairs.

In our rural self-built houses, houses with more than two floors are equipped with internal stairs.

The space under the stairs is useless, and most people use it to put sundries.

The man turned on the light in the living room, took another flashlight, held his breath and went to the stairs, squatting down to take pictures.

Suddenly got a fright.

It turned out that the old woman was hiding under the stairs of his house at the moment, curled up into a ball and shivering.

At the same time, a smell of shit came to my face. When the man looked intently, the old woman was so scared that she was incontinent.

I don't even know how to describe this scene.

A few hundred words are omitted below.

Later, the man said that the old woman was really scared and kept saying, "We're going to arrest people, we're going to arrest people.

Let her go back to her home, and she won't get up on the ground.

He can only coax the old woman out of the chaotic environment.

I poured him a cup of hot water and brought her something to eat.

I managed to stay up until dawn. The man quickly called the old lady's son and asked him to come back and pick her up.

Then that night, the bachelor who rented the old lady's house fell asleep and there was no one left.

According to the medical examiner who came to deal with it, the bachelor had a heart attack while sleeping and didn't wake up again.

This matter is widely circulated in our village, and everyone has their own opinions.

Some people said that Machamp was in a trance, while others said it was an accident.

Superstition is very common in rural areas, and now everyone is afraid to enter their home.

If the children in the village play near that house, they will be called back by their parents and are not allowed to play nearby.

When the old lady came, she went to the nursing home and never returned to her home.

I went back early and saw that the house was rented out again.

The renter is a working couple. They keep more than 20 local dogs in the yard.

Someone asked them if they were afraid, and they said no.

The house is comfortable and the rent is cheap. Why don't you live there?

Others asked them why they kept so many dogs. They said nothing, just leave a doorman.

Up to now, both couples have had a good life without any accidents.

My wife left at the age of 62, and we are the same age. I am never afraid, because I am used to it. Sometimes I use the key to open the door and feel that he is back. When eating, I can't help putting an extra pair of chopsticks, and sometimes I say to myself, "Have some, too."

Thank you. As the saying goes, "when people die, the lights go out." There is nothing wrong with the actual person's death, and it is an old couple, so there is nothing to be afraid of. I am a widower, too. When my wife died, I was very scared, but it was only a psychological effect. Actually, it's okay to think about it. A loving couple, living in her room after her wife died, can only make you miss him. Actually, there is nothing to be afraid of. That's just you scaring yourself.

I have been with my wife for 42 years. After he left, I lived alone, my family and my relatives. There is nothing to be afraid of. It's calm. Some lonely lives have to go on. Accept the reality and face it calmly. May we all be well.

I have been discussing this problem with my lover for several years. My lover is bold, and I am as timid as a mouse. Fear of the dark and ghosts since childhood! Because I have experienced it several times, I saw a ghost once when I was about 8 years old. At that time, I saw a row of people's liberation army at night. Because my mother was around, I was not afraid, so my body had nothing! The second time was 12 years old! I saw a woman sitting on an orange in front of my bed in the middle of the night. I was so scared that I trembled! I have been ill for a long time! When my mother-in-law died in 2006, I saw her feet move several times like lightning. At that time, several people were not afraid, and the next day I was scared to death when I was alone. As a result, I was ill for several months. If my wife dies, I dare not sleep in the room where her wife died!

My own house, my wife is dead, why are you afraid? I have never seen it. In the countryside, it would be too white to have one more. I've never met that timid man who dare not sleep at home. I have never heard of it.