The first time you call a girl, how do you start? How can she not be disgusted? Can we keep talking?

1 How to chat with your sister on the phone

It is necessary to call a girl when you are in love, but do you know that there are also precautions when you call a girl? You don't know? Then let me teach you how to chat with your sister on the phone.

1. make an appointment in advance: girls don't like boys calling suddenly and rashly, especially when they are busy (such as shopping for clothes with their girlfriends or eating with relatives and friends).

2. Call on your own initiative: Call on your own initiative at the appointed time. When falling in love, boys should take the initiative everywhere, including calling. Because there is an agreement in advance, girls must be ready.

3. Ask her if she is busy now before you call: After dialing the phone, don't go straight to the topic, talk about some things, and ask if it is convenient for her now. Although we have an appointment in advance, no one can guarantee whether there are any new plans. It is inconvenient to ask the girl, and it will make her feel better.

4. Decide what you want to talk about: Before making a phone call, decide what you want to talk about with the girl. Don't falter when the time comes. Girls can talk about whatever they like. If you really don't know, you can talk about what happened to you today.

How to chat with my sister on the phone

2. Skills of chatting with my sister on the phone 1. Find out the reason why I can't chat. Most of them feel that they don't know what to say when chatting with my sister, which leads to their being "stuck" when talking. Some of them are afraid to express their true thoughts, and they are very constrained for fear of saying something wrong, which makes chatting with their sisters no fun. In addition, there are language barriers, different knowledge and so on. So find out why you are not good at chatting, start from your own shortcomings and try to communicate to improve your ability to chat with your sister!

2. Enrich the knowledge of various topics and have a good topic with your sister to keep the chat going and effectively increase your goodwill in the other person's heart! Talk to your sister about whatever she likes. This is the only way to win by chatting! There are a thousand cups of wine for every bosom friend, and more than half a sentence for lovers. For example, if a sister likes online shopping, you can talk to her about the interesting things about online shopping; Sister likes to travel, so you can talk to her about various tourist attractions and so on. Just think, what you said is what she likes, will you still be unable to talk? Therefore, it is necessary to enrich the knowledge of various topics!

3. Analyze your personality to find the right way, what kind of personality to say what kind of words, your way of speaking is right for your sister's personality, so you can talk as you should, if not, it will definitely be extremely uncomfortable. For example, a sister is introverted, and if you speak boldly and openly, she will feel that she can't pick up; Sister's personality is unrestrained, and if you can't let go of procrastination, it will make your sister bored. It is very important to find out what kind of personality a sister is. Before you know what kind of personality your sister belongs to, you must be polite in your way of speaking, and slowly explore and find her favorite way of speaking.

4. Talk about yourself and listen more. I'm afraid there's nothing to say when chatting. In fact, it's good to talk about what happened in my day. The normality of life is even closer. You can say what happened around you one day, provided that she is interested. If you think it's nothing, it's as simple as one word: make it up! As long as the girl is happy, it will be successful! Another point is listening. There are things happening around my sister. You should learn to listen to my sister's things and her worries. When listening, you should talk less and listen more. You should only say that you are kind to her and support her. Over time, my sister will like to chat with you.

3 Chatting with your sister on the phone 2

1. Storytelling should be ups and downs: girls like surprises and surprises, so ups and downs can impress girls more. Of course, it doesn't have to be a story. Simply asking and answering questions can also have ups and downs. For example, the girl asked: Which military school is the military school square next to your school? What's your answer? This is what the author said: Baoding Branch of Huangfu Military Academy. The girl's reverence arises spontaneously. At this moment, you said, you told her that it was a lie. This writing may not have much ups and downs, but if you go deep into it, the effect is good.

2. Appropriate shyness: Maybe you need to have some acting skills. When it comes to some sensitive sexual issues or other sensitive issues, if you can show a little shyness, girls will think you have a good personality. In fact, psychologists have also investigated which boys girls like best, and those boys who are shy are the most popular. Of course, shyness should be appropriate. If you are too shy to talk about any sensitive issues, you will probably be given a bad review by the other party.

3. Reveal yourself gradually and deeply: If you have just met a girl and are not very familiar with her, there is a theorem between you when you call, that is, she will tell you whatever information you tell her. For example, if you talk about your mother, she will probably talk about her own mother. If you talk about more private issues, she will also boldly tell you her own privacy. One conclusion of psychology is that with the deepening of intimacy, the information revealed by two people becomes more and more personal. You can improve the intimacy between you two by gradually revealing your personal information.

4. Show your control ability: The more capable a boy is, the more girls like it. The key is how to show it. In the case of making a phone call, what I have done is to secretly install a software on her computer, set the running time, and then call her when the time is approaching, let her turn on the computer, then close her eyes, count to three seconds and open it, and find that the whole screen is full of roses. This is your ability to control her world, so that she feels that you are everywhere and feel very safe.

4. Chatting with your sister on the phone 3.

1. Atmosphere phone-girls are more relaxed and emotional at night. Therefore, the effect at this time is better than during the day. It is best to talk about interesting things while playing the music she likes to listen to.

2. Travel phone? When you travel, be sure to call her and say "I wish I could travel with you" or "I'll bring you a gift. What do you want?" Wait.

3. condolence call? When the other person is sick, call her as early as possible and comfort her in a cheerful tone, but don't make her too tired and talk for too long.

4. talk on the phone? When you miss her, you might as well tell her directly that you can share your happy or annoying things with the other party, and the other party will think that she is your first thought. Say what she likes to hear best.