Good things worth sharing and talking about.

In Dear Inn, Tamia Liu cried when she recalled her late grandmother. Said that my family was not superior when I was a child, but my grandmother has always been generous. Living with my grandmother, my memory is that my grandmother always gives the best things in the family to others. The best meat, the best oil ...

In order to earn money, grandma goes to other people's homes to help look after the children, but always takes out some money from her mended cloth wallet for the children. So for her, the first lesson that grandma taught her in life was that good things should be left to others.

Cai Kangyong recalled her childhood. Apart from her mother, who dresses up for hours every day, and the guests who keep coming and going at home, the most impressive thing is to stay at the dinner table. He said that at that time, after the dinner started, my father always gave the best food to the guests. Therefore, Cai Kangyong knew from an early age that he should give good things to others.

1, doing good for others is an education.

My friend told me a story. She said that she considered herself a very generous person. She bought new clothes, wore them several times or didn't wear them at all, and gave them away. Pick out your favorite toys and decorations you received during the holiday and give the rest to others. Father said, "On the surface, this is generosity, but in fact it is meanness."

My friend L's father once received a bag of persimmon cakes from his friend. When he went home and opened them, he found that more than half of them were long hair. I was angry when she saw it. Her father told her, "When you give something you don't like and don't need to others, others will feel exactly the same as you do now."

Since then, l has always remembered that no one is a fool, and everyone knows what is good and what is bad. Either don't give it, or give what you think is best, favorite and most reluctant to others. This is education.

2, good things to share with others, will be happy several times.

Buddhists say that if you share happiness with others, happiness will be doubled, and if you share sadness with others, sadness will be halved.

An old Zen master planted a begonia flower in the yard. After a long period of careful care, a few years later in autumn, the yard was full of begonia, and the fragrance spread to the village at the foot of the mountain. People passing by this monastery can't help admiring everything. "

One day, a young man at the foot of the mountain came to look for Radix Aucklandiae and asked the old Zen master for some seedlings of begonia flowers to plant in his yard. The old Zen master readily agreed. After that, he personally picked several begonia seedlings with thick branches and sent them to the young man's house. After the news spread, there was an endless stream of people who wanted to plant seedlings. The old Zen master fulfilled everyone's wishes. But in this way, in a few days, the seedlings of begonia in the yard were almost delivered, leaving only a few. Some disciples couldn't help saying, "What a pity! There should be a yard smell here. " The old Zen master smiled and said, "Isn't that good? Because it will be full of flowers in three years! "

This is what the ancients said: "It is better to have fun alone than to have fun with others."

3. Sharing, not possession, is a social need.

If you have an apple and eat it yourself, only one person will be happy. If you share it with the second person, you will get the happiness of both. If you share this apple with five people at the same time, your happiness will become six. This sharing can make people gain trust and friendship, as well as happiness and satisfaction.

If you have an apple and a friend has a pear, you give half of the apple to your friend and half of the pear to you, then you not only eat the apple, but also eat the pear. This is the value of sharing and communication.

Sharing is a social tool, sharing is the enjoyment of resources, but the most important thing is the source of happiness.

Elizabeth Dunne, an associate professor of psychology at the University of British Columbia, and Michael Norton, an associate professor of business administration at Harvard Business School, co-authored a new book, Happy Money: The Science of Spending Money. He said: "Spending money on others will be happier than spending it on yourself, whether it is adults or children."

Being a man is a choice.

Being loved is an ability.

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