Smile and talk.

As the saying goes, there are rivers and lakes where some people are convenient, which refers to interpersonal relationships and the status gap between people. Put all kinds of factors together, it is called Jianghu. When there is a gap in people's status, there will be flatterers, but this kind of flatterer can't be said to be a villain. Take the ancient one for example. How many people don't want to pull their position higher in officialdom?

Anyone who suffers will try to climb as high as possible. Talent is not enough to climb to a higher position. If it is easy in ancient times, because ancient times are a time of frequent wars, capable people will be discovered as long as they seize the opportunity, it should be an old saying: gold always shines? But in a peaceful time like today, how can we make our status higher? This is inevitable, to curry favor with some people who are taller than themselves.

As the title suggests, flattery has a framework. Laugh before you talk. This sentence describes that flatterers always smile before speaking. In fact, it is not a shameful thing to learn to flatter. Who hasn't been flattered, whether in today's era or in China for 5,000 years? Even students who have never entered the workplace through factories will inevitably say something that teachers or elders like to listen to and kiss up to when facing their elders or teachers.

This kind of thing depends on when you shoot it, because of what flattery? If you put it on someone taller than yourself or your elders, it's really flattering, but if it's between peers, it's called getting through interpersonal relationships, and you can't even say good things. How can you survive in today's era? However, as mentioned in the title, flattery has a framework, and it is too much to laugh first and then say it.