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My wife is in charge of cooking and I am in charge of washing dishes. Is such a distribution of housework reasonable?

Every family is different. It's hooliganism to prescribe drugs without paying attention to dosage and toxicity. So, if you don't know anything, how do you know whether it is reasonable in your home?

1. Does anyone not work? Everyone works. Who gets off work early?

2. Does anyone like cooking? Does anyone hate cooking?

3. Does anyone hate washing dishes? Or do you hate both?

4. Who cares more about children? Who has more free time besides working and taking care of children? Have husband and wife reached * * * knowledge, and how to distribute labor?

Anyone can, depending on who is free.

6. Is there any physical reason that is not suitable for a lot of labor?

7. Who is better at cooking? Who will make more money? How to distribute the labor force in the same time, so that families can get the maximum benefit?

8. Is there any help from elders? Do you have any extra money to hire an hourly worker or nanny?

The answers to the above questions are different. Give a few examples:

The first couple. Husband and wife retire. Men like to cook and are delicious, while women are not good at cooking but can eat. Women are in poor health, so they can't touch cold water often and do heavy work. As a result, the man washed the pots and pans. Because men get up late and women get up early, breakfast is mainly cooked by women, while lunch and dinner are cooked by men. Men take the initiative to do all the housework, and don't tell women what to do, while women are just in poor health but not lazy, and do some housework that doesn't take much effort, such as hanging clothes and tidying clothes, such as sweeping the floor. No one asks anyone to do housework, and do what they think they can do. Pension together.

The second pair: because it is easier for the woman to find a job because she has to pick up and drop off the children, her salary is slightly lower, but she has to do some manual work at home at night to earn some subsidies for her family. It is not much, but it takes time, so their income is close. The result is that men do all the housework. Because women work during the day, they have to work at night, and they have to pick up and drop off their children. There is no time to do it, and she is even more tired after working for a long time. The money of both parties is used together.

The third pair: the man goes to work, and the woman takes care of two children who have already studied at home full time. Pay the salary to the woman's custody fee, and keep some money for herself. No matter what the woman buys, the economic power is completely controlled by the woman. Women do housework, including cleaning, washing clothes and picking up children. The chef's craft is better. Two people who have time will do it, and whoever has time will do the dishes. Men are obsessed with cleanliness, and women are obsessed with cleanliness. If women don't mop the floor during the day, men should mop it every night before going to bed.

The fourth pair: men do business, hire people, and have relatively free time, but they also have to go to work every day. Children haven't learned yet, and women are full-time Housework is generally done by women. A man sometimes wants to do it himself for a change, but he is reluctant to wash the dishes. Although a woman doesn't like washing, because a man is tired all day, she won't ask him to wash himself.

Different couples have different ways to get along, including doing housework, and each family is different. No one has to be done by a man, and no one has to be done by a woman. When one person is tired, he needs to have a rest, while another person will continue to carry on. After a good rest, he should also take the responsibility to let the other person rest and let him understand each other for the sake of family harmony.

So you ask because you think your wife doesn't cook hard and doesn't even help with the dishes? There is no need to ask everyone whether it is reasonable or not, just discuss it with your wife.