Why mind your own business is the greatest kindness?

Don't mind your own business, don't talk too much. Some things have nothing to do with yourself, so don't mind your own business. Because in the end, I may still help, but I'm bored myself.

First of all, be yourself and mind your own business.

Life is like a kaleidoscope, everyone has his own way of life. It doesn't mean that your talent can help others. Don't let your ideas be imposed on others just because you are too strong. This is tantamount to influencing other people's thoughts.

This practice is very wrong, nothing is light. When you can try your best to help others, this is the real good thing. If you use your own ideas to help others, it is a wrong choice. If you want to have real cultivation, don't impose it on others.

Second, grow up and mind your own business.

Mature people will have their own opinions, never live in other people's world, and nosy people have a compassionate and kind heart. But because of my kindness, I will eventually get a counterattack from others.

We all know about Mr. Dong Guo's encounter with wolves, and this is the best example. It was because of his kindness that he saved the wolf's life, but he couldn't stand the wolf's rhetoric. In the end, the result of releasing the wolf can be imagined, and the consequences are very heavy. This is what happens when you meddle. Good people don't always get what they deserve.

Third, reason is greater than sensibility, which is the wisdom of life.

Some people mind their own business, often because they are impulsive. This kind of thing is very bad. Doing things more emotionally than rationally will also add a lot of trouble to yourself.

My best friend Xiaohua has a close friend who borrows money from my best friend every three days. Xiaohua lends money to friends again and again because of saving face, but such money is just a drop in the bucket. The end of this incident made my best friend fully understand the truth that some monitors are really out of control. Instead, I wasted a lot of energy and my life became unhappy.

Therefore, we said, "Don't mind your own business because you are kind. Look at things comprehensively and don't let yourself get upset on impulse. " .