Why does someone always fool me?

In society, dealing with people is an indispensable foundation. Only with good relationships and suitable friends can we survive in society.

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First of all, you should know what a friend is. A friend can help you unconditionally when you need it, and you can also help him unconditionally; Try to understand your feelings, comfort you and enjoy happiness together. That's your real friend.

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There are your "friends" everywhere in bars, streets, schools and bookstores, depending on whether you are willing to get in touch with them. Therefore, what we need first is: enthusiasm and going out for a walk more. Only when you leave home can you reach people, and only when you are enthusiastic can you make friends.

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But not everyone can accept your enthusiasm. For example, a small number of viewers will think that she is sick. These people like quiet and home environment. They are neither otaku nor otaku. They just have a quiet heart. If you force open their windows, you will only get a chilling counterattack.

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You may wonder why your enthusiasm will turn into hostility in the eyes of the other party. The reason is because they have a quiet heart. When a fire evaporates a few drops of water, it often burns out the pot. Similarly, you will become his enemy and friend. Then it is necessary to have the patience of a small fire and slowly bake his quiet heart. At that time, he will be your true friend.

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Besides, enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is not the same as wildness. You shouldn't make friends with others in the form of words. You should learn to chat. Sometimes the same topic will be the best shortcut between you. If the other party agrees with you, you can add a WeChat and ask for a phone number, which can further develop your friendship.

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From this moment on, do you know your friends? If you have many friends and think about the concept of one more friend and one more way out, then I ask you to think about your friends carefully and classify them. Don't make friends carelessly and go astray.

Learn to listen carefully

Learn to listen to each other carefully, don't interrupt each other, and don't impose your own judgment or ideas on others.

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Learn to concentrate.

Analyze the meaning expressed in the dialogue and then respond positively. Don't disrespect each other, avoid or love to ignore each other.

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Learn to cooperate with each other

Although what the other party said is very reasonable, we should respond positively in favor. This will bring a sense of * * * to the other party, so that communication can achieve an understanding effect.

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Learn to respect each other.

No matter what the other person said is right or not, don't blame or criticize at that time. Afterwards, you can explain it to the other party separately and politely to make it easy for the other party to accept.

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Learn to sympathize with others.

When communicating with each other, you should put what the other person said on yourself and see if you are the same. Maybe only in this way can we understand each other better.