Someone speaks ill of me everywhere. What should I do?

1. Irrelevant people speak ill of you everywhere

If some insignificant people are willing to spread rumors without paying attention to them, the person who speaks ill of others will definitely not be as good as you. After a long time, others will know who he is, and no one will believe what he says. You just need to be yourself, and don't care about the malicious slander of others, let alone get angry for him.

Second, your friends speak ill of you everywhere.

It is not easy for a person to find a friend who is sincere and kind to himself. If you have a friend who is kind to yourself, you must cherish it. Similarly, if we meet a scum friend, we should not indulge him too much. When I was in high school, I met a friend who thought she was very good. At that time, we had just been divided into classes, and I didn't know anyone in this class. It happened that she was sitting at my front desk, and we chatted very much, and then we would have dinner together and go back to the dormitory.

Later, we met a friend and started a threesome, but she was a two-faced person who spoke ill of me in front of that friend, and spoke ill of that friend in front of me. At first, we didn't know what was going on, thinking that everything she said was true, and then I began to alienate that friend.

It wasn't until one day that someone who knew her appeared. It was her junior high school classmate. He told us how to be friends with her, and she would speak ill of others behind her back. No one was willing to talk to her in junior high school. Then I realized that maybe I misunderstood that friend. I found that friend to confront her and asked her why she spoke ill of us. I forgot what she said that day. Anyway, after that day, the two of us broke up and became best friends with that friend. Later, many people in the class knew who she was, and no one wanted to be friends with her.