Women, no matter what you do, never lose your pursuit of beauty

I went to visit a cousin a few days ago, and I was shocked by her appearance as soon as I entered the door. My cousin, who was originally beautiful and gentle, became haggard and pale after not seeing her for a few months. After doing some housework, I slowly asked her why she had undergone such a big change. My cousin also sighed, expressing how difficult these days were.

My cousin is a traditional housewife who gives birth to children, does laundry and cooking, and is very kind-hearted. Year after year, the children have grown up, and she no longer has to work from dawn to dusk to buy groceries and cook meals, or to pick up and drop off the children in rain or shine. But she still did laundry, cooking and housekeeping because she found that she couldn't do anything else.

My cousin has no special hobbies. She has been raising children, washing and cooking every day for many years, like a straight line. I don’t visit friends, rarely participate in social activities, don’t go out to work to make money, and I’m not even in the mood to go out for a walk.

As she grew older, she began to experience some physical discomfort, so she sought medicine from various sources. In addition to necessary housework, her life had another aspect, which was to recuperate from illness.

Unable to enjoy the joy of life, coupled with the weight-bearing mentality caused by physical discomfort, my cousin lost at least thirty pounds. She couldn't resolve it herself, and the guidance from her husband and relatives had little effect. She even worried that eating certain things would make her uncomfortable, so she refused to eat them. When it came to cooking, she didn't know how to control the oil temperature and when to add the amount of salt. extent.

After listening to my cousin’s story, I felt sad. After giving some advice and advice, I left my cousin’s house with tears in my eyes. Walking in the cold night, looking at the stars, I couldn't help but lament my cousin's life without self. In fact, no one asked her to do this, and it's not that her children are not living up to expectations, it's just that she has lost her pursuit of beauty. It is really heartbreaking for a person, especially a woman, to lose her pursuit of beauty.

Beauty is a form of natural competition that has evolved from generation to generation over millions of years. The graceful curves of a cheetah as it gallops, the sweet smell of flowers in bloom, the graceful and gentle body of a cat as it walks, and the majesty of a lion's roar that echoes through the grassland, all of which are so fascinating.

The beauty of animals and plants is for survival, a product of using skills to the extreme. After all, a poor run cannot catch prey.

Human beings are constantly advancing in their pursuit of beauty. Makeup artists, costume designers, hairstylists, body stylists, etc. can change your appearance and age at will, and design clothes of different styles for you. You shine brightly in front of everyone.

Not only do they pay attention to appearance, but now more and more people are also paying attention to "spiritual appearance." This kind of appearance is a trait that radiates from the inside out, and is a natural and real appearance.

Views such as these all tell us that continuous improvement is what everyone should do in life. You can read, exercise, arrange flowers, and sing. Cultivate an interest, develop a hobby, let your spirit have faith, and keep your body from being empty.

Some people live their lives as poetry.

One of my colleagues, who was plain-faced and had dull skin in the past few years, has started a micro-business in recent years. He is busy making company report plans at work, and busy delivering goods at a courier company or working at a courier company after get off work. I deliver goods to friends in the community, take my children to enjoy flowers and fish, take walks and chat on weekends. While busy, she also learned cooking skills from the Internet to satisfy her children's taste buds. Sometimes her children would take their classmates home for dinner, and she would warmly entertain them and cook in various ways. In order to get rid of her bad habit of staying up late and sleeping late, she recently started doing morning exercises, going to bed early and getting up early. Sometimes when I meet her at work, she wears light makeup and looks energetic.

It can be seen that busyness does not make people exhausted, spiritual emptiness makes people weak, and hobbies are the driving force for progress.

Some people live their lives as hobbies.

One of my sisters is a supervisor in the company. She works seriously and diligently, and her superiors and subordinates respect her. My sister likes to read and writes articles in her spare time. She reads and writes at the same time. She absorbs nutrients from reading classics or prose poems and inputs and outputs at the same time.

Although she hasn't published many articles, she has never cared about anything. In her words, I like it. With the guidance of words, I never complain when I encounter setbacks, nor do I go to extremes when I encounter sad things. Just like a small tree, it grows bigger every day.

Time is so fair. When a woman reaches the age of forty or fifty, at a glance, her "spiritual appearance" has already appeared to some extent. Although the appearance is no longer gorgeous, the precipitation of the years is slowly emerging, just like Grandma Moses and Grandma Carmen are still extremely beautiful at the age of ninety. Life is as short as a cloud, appearing for a short time and then disappearing, but because of the various shapes of a heart, it produces different effects.

I really want to say: Life is endless, don’t stop making progress. No matter you are at any stage of life, no matter what profession you have, or you are facing any hardships, if you love climbing, go climbing, if you love writing, go write, if you love running, go running, if you love beauty, go study beauty. Tip, if you love your relatives and friends, love them as early as possible. Being grateful and always joyful is the best form of respect.

I want to say loudly: Sister, please put the label "Progress" where you can see it every day when you wake up.