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1. Daughter-in-law should treat her in-laws as parents. The ancients said: Everyone has two parents. Therefore, both parents should be treated equally.

2. Don't talk if you can't do it. If you don't keep your word, you will have no dignity.

Don't interfere in children's affairs, let go and give way to the younger generation to be the master, don't get old.

4. Children are disobedient and unfilial. First, ask yourself if you are unfilial to the elderly. Is there anything wrong? I don't recognize my parents' achievements in the upper class, and I can't educate my children in any way.

Zhijie and his wife are grateful to each other and never complain. Italian couple are very happy. A husband leads his wife to become a teacher, and a wife helps her husband to become a virtuous man. They will never get angry. The couple in the inner world are polite couples, so they will govern each other! Couples in the physical world are abusive couples who disturb their lives.

6, contentment, living at home. Carry forward the family style, praise Zude, and educate future generations to know how to be grateful, grateful and grateful.

7. Being an upright person means that parents should first turn it into temperament and cultivate nature. Self-denial is the only way to educate children. Whether children are filial, ask yourself whether they are kind.

8. The whole family is founded on love. Without love, families cannot be established. Love is the first condition for marriage.

9. The husband has the courage to take on the responsibility of a family to convince others. If the family is at fault, they will be ashamed of themselves.

10, the husband takes care of her parents-in-law, and the wife respects her parents-in-law; For example, to buy things for the elderly, the son-in-law should personally give them to her parents-in-law, and the daughter-in-law should personally give them to her parents-in-law.

1 1. If you are destined to love someone, you must first understand his duties. Complement each other and improve their responsibilities. Inspire each other and play their role. If you don't control each other's freedom, you should give them happiness, not trouble. Complement each other and understand each other's physiology and psychology.

12, selfish people will do things against their conscience behind their backs, which makes the whole family very annoyed. This is not a good man.

13. Only when there is a way can there be virtue; When there is no Tao, there is no virtue; There can be no happiness without virtue.

14, whether a family is developed and whether children and grandchildren are prosperous is directly related to whether the old people in the class have good roots. The elderly are virtuous, and their children and grandchildren are prosperous; The old man is wicked, his family fortune is declining, his family wealth is not prosperous, and his fragrance is dead.

15, the star of abundance of a family, based on ambition. That is, taking the happiness of the whole family as our responsibility and benefiting the whole family.

16. Whether a family is happy, quiet and prosperous is very important. A woman can be a wife with water, have children, help her husband become virtuous and have a happy family.

17, sexual (natural) combination, spiritual combination, physical combination. Is the real harmony between husband and wife.

18. Whether a child is healthy or not has a lot to do with his mother, and whether he is smart or not has a lot to do with his father. Whether he is solemn or not depends on whether his parents often do things with happy love.

19. Children belong to themselves, to society and to heaven and earth. If a child can't teach well, it will affect his family, society and the world. Educating children well is a great responsibility.

20. Publicize the merits and demerits of the elderly and their ancestors to their children, be a filial example of respecting the elderly and loving the young, and enlighten future generations with gratitude for the kindness of their ancestors.

2 1. Daughter-in-law means to calm down the discord of a family, to be an auspicious messenger of a harmonious family, to be equal and friendly to everyone, and to be the blessing of the whole family.

22, daughter-in-law when sex is like water, sex is like water to be content with happiness, meaning root, full of family, pleasing people. Being a happy star of a family, being filial to parents, neutralizing sister-in-law and being kind to children can help a husband become virtuous. So her husband can serve the society, stand on the street and make a name for himself. Not only run a family, work in society, but also abide by your duties and make a difference. Only by having a long family life can we enjoy a long life.

23. To be a husband, we must decide from the "three cardinal guides", which refer to sex, mind and body; Immortality (not losing your temper) is the key to sex; Can't afford selfish desires; No bad habits as the key link. Anger is sexual breakdown; Swearing is the heart; Beating someone is falling. "Help" is to lead, and women must get on the road, be filial to their parents-in-law, be gentle with their sisters-in-law, and be kind to their children.

24. A wife must first settle down from the "three obedience" in order to help her husband become virtuous. "Three Obediences" means that the nature is from heaven, the mind is from reason, and the body is from reason. What is "obeying reason"? Do what you have to do. It is my duty to be filial to my parents-in-law, gentle to my sister-in-law, and to teach my children well. Not afraid of hardships and difficulties. Don't get angry, complain or regret after doing it. "Follow the truth from the heart": it refers to getting rid of greed and disturbing selfishness. All I can think about is how to repay the kindness of the old man. How to live in harmony and how to educate children? Keep the interests of the whole family in mind, and everything you do will naturally be harmonious everywhere. "Nature follows nature": we should not only give priority to immobile nature, but also eliminate temperament, improve nature and carry things with morality.

25. As the saying goes, everything goes well at home. As small as the country's prosperity, social peace, personal happiness, career prosperity and physical health, all depend on a harmonious family.

26. I often mention the advantages of my daughter-in-law and appreciate her family's education. If the daughter-in-law is wrong, her mother-in-law will come quickly, be tolerant first, and then teach her a lesson behind her back. Never quarrel with her, the daughter-in-law will naturally be grateful and repay her kindness.

27, true love without prejudice: sincerely believe, don't doubt each other.

28. Respect the old and love the young in the last life. Use gratitude to perfect everything and make the family harmonious.

A weak husband is also called a coward and cannot support a family. Only Nuo Nuo, who just talks and doesn't do it, dares not take responsibility, pushes the woman to the front and follows her instructions.

30. If it is out of line, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not agree, the housework will be inseparable, the family will fall apart and the family will be unhappy.

3 1, like water in a circle, with five colors and five flavors, the original is always the same. Happy-go-lucky, rich and poor, can be high or low, such as water can support everything, do not compete with everything, at the lowest place, low down, often admit that it is not, is the duty of women.

32. When men are in place, there will be fewer disasters at home; If a man can't do it, the family will be troubled.

33. My mother-in-law comes early and knows everything. Daughter-in-law came late and didn't know anything. Mother-in-law should take her daughter-in-law to the road, tell her what she doesn't know, guide her and don't do anything difficult, just like her daughter.

My mother-in-law has been a daughter-in-law for many years. She married a daughter-in-law and became her mother-in-law. Daughter-in-law is the girl at home. As soon as I got married, I went to my mother-in-law's house and became a daughter-in-law.

35. I should love what my mother-in-law loves; I should respect the people I love. I'm sure I can win the joy of my mother-in-law. If you can understand the old man's heart and obey his wishes, you will get this word.

36. A woman has three wives: a bitch, a weak woman and a daughter-in-law.

37. Women should be gentle, smile peacefully and be welcomed by their families.

38. A woman is the mother of the country, the wife of the family and the wife of the people.

39. A woman who does nothing but rely on her husband and parents is called a weak woman.

40. Women are lazy, complaining is the jinx of the family, and bitchy women are not daughters-in-law.

4 1, women are violent, take charge of men, bully men mentally, talk like thunder, are very strong, and dominate the world, so they are called bitches. In this kind of family, the yin flourishes and the yang declines, the husband declines before he is old, or even dies young, and the children born are useless.

42. Women are busy and men are silent; Women are not soft and their wealth is not prosperous.

If you can do this, you will be at home and everything will be prosperous.

44. To be a man, you should keep your word, one is one, the other is two, and you keep your word.

45. Men have men's duties, women have women's duties, and yin and yang have their own positions. Men are upright and upright; Women are soft-oriented. "Gang" is motionless (don't lose your temper), and "Zheng" is right. "Softness" is as important as water, and "harmony" makes sense. Therefore, completeness is softness, and softness is completeness. Although the terms are different, the spirit is the same.

46. Men belong to Yang, and Yang is selfless. Selflessness means expressing love for a family.

47. Men should be "just". It's not just beating and cursing, the person who beats and curses is an incompetent person.

48. Men are the backbone of a family. They should be sensible, ambitious and take good care of their wives.

49. A man has three husbands: a weak husband, a violent husband and a husband.

50. Equality between men and women means equality in power and enjoyment. There must be no equality in responsibility and etiquette.

5 1. Every family should imagine their daughter marrying into this family, and housewives should love their daughter-in-law as much as their daughters. If not, the daughter-in-law will treat the future daughter-in-law like this, causing a vicious circle.

52. The virtue of the elderly is the best feng shui and the highest feng shui.

53. Old people should carry forward the family style, parents should demonstrate it, couples should take the helm, children should inherit it, grandchildren should obey it, and brothers and sisters should contend with it.

54, the old man's face is dusty, gentle and not angry, talking less, not nagging, not talking about parents, taking the lead must look at each other's benefits, but also taking care of the family.

55. The old man holds up a family blessing and creates a family blessing. Fude is stronger from generation to generation, and Fuyao is more prosperous from generation to generation; Children and grandchildren are stronger than you, which means you have virtue, otherwise you have no virtue.

56. The old man is the star of the family, with virtue as the root. "Virtue" is the responsibility of a family and a peaceful family.

57. How can the elderly make a family prosperous? Is to do more good deeds and accumulate more virtues. On the one hand, Xiu De can be exonerated; On the other hand, he can cultivate morality for children and protect them.

58. The old man, like the earth, silently carries everything, embraces everything and nurtures everything. Old people are generous, and the family will be blessed.

59. Old people love things, and their children and grandchildren thrive. If the old man is insatiable, he will eat up all the blessings of his family.

60. I feel that love has no shelf (price): don't elevate your position and don't treat love as a business. Understand each other's benefits and admire each other's benefits; Understand each other's difficulties and forgive each other's mistakes. If the other party has it, you can enlighten and guide the other party to change.

6 1, the five steps of educating children: raising, educating, teaching, leading and guiding, but not allowed. The key is to cultivate morality and educate morality.

62. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at home are all foreign surnames, and they go to the same home, just like mother and daughter.

63. Different family roles have different ways of paying attention. Men have no ambition, and their family is not prosperous. Women are not soft, drive the money away. A woman's temperament should be soft as water, so that she can be rich, and money and luck will naturally follow; If a woman is tough, fierce, aggressive, stubborn and extreme, vindictive and resentful, gnashing her teeth and glaring, the result will only harm others and herself, and the husband and wife will lose their happiness and their faces will wither.

64. There are problems at home. First of all, there are loopholes in the behavior of the elderly. First, we didn't do our duty. Second, we went too far.

65. If there is something wrong at home, the old people should be ashamed: my old people have not done well, are immoral and have not educated their families well.

66. No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and right and wrong happen, it is nothing but a shame.

67. Everything goes well at home. If you want to be rich and virtuous, you must teach your in-laws and your life will develop. Otherwise, the rich flower dew and the rich grass head cream will not last long.

68. Children don't have to worry, but they are influenced by virtue. Understand his character, help him cut small branches and leave big branches. Not charming, not drowning, not hitting people, not swearing. Encourage more, affirm more, criticize less, and don't use material temptation.

69. Children's ignorance equals sour fruit. If the fruit is sour, you should work hard at the roots.

70. In-laws are like the roots of a family. If they want to thrive and have sweet flowers and fruits, they must be kind to their roots and fertilize, water and loosen the soil.

7 1, parents are the beginning of human relations, the way of yin and yang, yin as mother and yang as father. Yin and Yang Can make everything grow, and the incompatibility of Yin and Yang leads to mental pain and disagreement, that is to say, the children born must be bad-natured or lack of children.

72. Parents are children's first teachers and families are children's first schools.

73. Fuld is plump, gentle and heavy, which can be called as dust.

74. Husband and wife should catch up with each other instead of blaming each other.

75. Husband and wife are the stars of a family, rooted in love.

76. Husband and wife are in conflict. First, it violates the grace given by heaven and earth; The second is to violate the feelings given by parents; Third, it violates the karma of having more children and robbing more people. If you violate the karma of life's duty, life will lose its dependence on positive reports. The difference between husband and wife is the difference between life.

77. There are three reasons for the combination of husband and wife: First, they take care of each other and care for each other in life; Second, it is to have children and carry on the family line, leaving a beautiful human root for the world; Third, it is to better care for and take care of both parents and make the elderly feel at ease and happy.

78. The way of husband and wife, that is, the way of yin and yang, is healthy and healthy, and yin and yang are smooth and cannot be opposed. Not only will they not get sick, but they will not die young. You can still have a good family, and your children will thrive. So men should understand women's ways, and women should also understand men's ways, so that families can be happy together.

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80. Morality is the law of heaven and earth, and obligation is the law of individuals. If we break the law, people will be in disaster.

8 1, as a daughter-in-law, be reasonable: in-laws are real blessings. Don't want the old man, hate the old man, refuse to be filial to the old man, even if you don't want good news, there will be no good news.

82. As a daughter-in-law, if you love your husband, you must love your in-laws. Understand that without in-laws, there is no dear husband. I sympathize with my mother-in-law's hard work before, and I have worked hard to raise my son. No more suffering for her mother-in-law, no more ordering her to do things, no more complaining about her words and deeds.

83. After marriage, if a man can't lead a woman to the road, be filial to his parents-in-law, middle-aged brothers and sisters, and be kind to his children, he is filial and the old people are not at ease. If a woman can't help her husband become virtuous after marriage, she is filial to her in-laws, and the old man is not at ease.

84. Do not create right and wrong, do not say right and wrong, do not preach right and wrong, do not listen to right and wrong, be responsible for right and wrong, and are not afraid of right and wrong. Reconciliation of a family does not cause right and wrong, otherwise the old man will disappear.

85. Don't hate children, let alone beat and scold them, because their success or failure is also related to their parents' own moral character. Secondly, we should consider whether there is a problem with our own education methods.

86. Don't mind your own business and worry too much about your children and grandchildren. "Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren."

87. Don't be grumpy, impatient, talkative and don't mind men's business. You should help your husband instead of your husband.

88, unfilial in-laws, planted such a principle, and when the children grow up, they will also be rewarded by unfilial children.

89. Don't arrange for the elderly to do things. The elderly can do whatever they like, but pay more attention to the elderly and often advise them to have more rest.

90. Universal love is unconditional: people are not bound to each other. Give each other freedom.

9 1. Originally, the daughter-in-law was not born to her mother-in-law. If the mother-in-law doesn't understand reason, she will show her shortcomings first, or control her with her temper. How can a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a good relationship?

92. It was my husband's business, but my husband forgot to do it. A wife should not complain, but should do things well; Conversely, husbands should do the same. Make up for what the other party can't do. This is to trap each other.

93. A violent husband is either beating or cursing, which is unreasonable. I don't understand my responsibilities, so I dare to run amok.

94. Love is the origin and general principle of harmony. Without love, it is impossible to build a harmonious family.

95, the standard of love: true love is selfless, feeling love has no frame (price), universal love is unconditional, true love is unbiased. True love and selflessness: respect each other and don't give them any trouble.

96. "Management" means that parents indulge their temper, find faults with their children and refuse to accept his temper, so they tend to get worse and worse. Because using temper to control children is not only bad, but also arouses children's temper, contact, and even enmity between father and son, all because of parents' incomprehension.

97. "Helping" means not only not beating or scolding, but also not answering, refuting or worrying when being scolded. Don't move, don't move, don't be scolded (don't lose your temper). Be obedient, be at ease, and be a gentleman.