Please tell me your most unforgettable story, and I will choose the best one to adopt.

I have no job all my life, and I don't need to work. I may be the luckiest woman in the eyes of the whole world: my husband supports the family and travels everywhere.

This seemingly relaxed life meets the dreams of quite a few girls, right? At least from the perspective of network hotspots.

I used to envy such a quiet life without much effort.

But after careful observation, I found that "easy life" is just as good (no need to get up early, stay up late, no pressure).

At least two aspects are missing: the diversity of life &; Risk tolerance

My best friend and I are both professional women, and most of them are under great pressure. For example, I have a best friend whose office building is only 800 meters away, but we can only meet once a month, because she usually gets off work in the early morning and shows up at the office at nine o'clock the next morning.

But when we get together, what we can talk about is not entertainment, gossip or dressing. We can talk about all kinds of monsters encountered in work games, how to learn new skills and brush a more advanced copy (such as new projects).

At the same time, we constantly meet new friends and people at work and find a larger spiritual world that travel and reading can't reach.

For me in my twenties, sitting behind a kung fu tea table and holding Longquan celadon cup to make tea day after day, such a day is beautiful and boring.

Going out to struggle will encounter many difficulties that make us ashamed, but the difficulties themselves are also part of the diversity of life.

Sometimes it is inevitable to encounter humiliation and force yourself to endure it. I also know that I can't go back, and I don't want to go back to the idle days.

This risk resistance is believed to be more obvious in this year and the economic winter in the future.

If a company closes down and layoffs, employees can still find new jobs as long as they have the ability, instead of dying with the company.

That kind of "easy life" will not bring people the ability to resist risks.

Can't retreat, retreat is the abyss.

If you can't put it down, it's a thousand miles away.

It's dark in front of us, so we should try our best to move forward.