With all due respect, the vast majority of people are low-quality and diligent

With all due respect, the vast majority of people are low-quality and diligent

Text/Sister Mo

01

After working hard for half a year as an intern, Who is to blame for not being regularized?

Sister Mo has a group of former colleagues. They usually mainly communicate and share company news and industry information, which is not very lively.

Around two o'clock in the afternoon, someone posted a link in the group. The title was a story about an intern who had been working as an intern at his former employer for 6 months but failed to become a full-time employee. As a result, everyone was arguing about this. , chatting happily.

The story roughly goes as follows:

The protagonist Maruko is a school girl who is extremely interested in beautiful things, especially gadgets with a sense of design. She also likes taking pictures and share. By chance, she got an internship opportunity from her former employer based on the photography she posted online.

Her former employer is a well-known company in the industry. Like many young people who are new to the workplace, Miss Wanzi cherishes this internship and works very hard. Wen Neng can bring peace to the world with his pen, and Wu Neng can set the world on horseback. He is obedient, hard-working, and conscientious. He shows the characteristics of a hard-working and versatile little expert, and the work he is responsible for is getting better and better.

As half a year passed, Maranzi got her wish and had a full-time defense. She spent a week preparing ppt, summarizing the results, and planning for the future. She had data and thinking, and was full of confidence. Logically speaking, it should be fine. Big problem.

However, the supervisor finally told Maruko that she failed the defense because her job responsibilities were not what the team most urgently needed. In other words, they were dispensable.

With such a big gap, the young girl Maranzi was naturally not convinced. I worked so hard, why couldn't I become a regular employee? So I asked a certain big V to submit a post and expressed my dissatisfaction, while also looking for another good opportunity.

Several former colleagues expressed their opinions on various gossips. Some said that although Wanzi was acceptable but not top-notch, some said that the supervisor did not plan the direction for her in advance, and some joked about her appearance. The value is average and cannot be judged by the supervisor.

The reasons they interpreted may all be reasonable. From the perspective of Sister Mo, a veteran in the workplace, Wanzi has indeed made progress in her work, and her ability is at least above average. However, she has made a fundamental mistake, that is, she has spent most of the past six months. It’s low quality diligence.

One of the most obvious evidences is that she talked about how hard she worked, how amazing her work was, and how confident she was, but she never mentioned the communication between her and her supervisor.

His former employer was a well-known company in the industry, and every year a large number of interns wanted to get in. Therefore, Maruko had many competitors of the same age. If an employee doesn't even know what kind of person the leader wants to recruit, it will be strange if he can become a full-time employee unless he is lucky.

02

Low-quality diligence is often scarier than laziness

In order to avoid misunderstanding, Sister Mo first clarifies that I am not justifying laziness, diligence It is definitely worth encouraging. God rewards hard work, hard work is the path to the mountain of books, and hard work can make up for weakness. These ancient sayings are all correct, but the mistake lies in low quality.

What is low-quality diligence?

If we arrange and combine diligence, laziness, low quality and high quality, we can get four types of people:

1. High quality and diligence:

This type of person is both diligent in doing things and diligent in thinking. They are efficient, have good output, and can complete goals with high quality.

If you observe carefully, the boss of your company, the backbone of the team, or a well-known entrepreneur, politician, scientist, or artist is probably such a person, if he does not work hard and with high quality for a long time. , very few people can start from scratch or rise to the top level in their field.

2. High-quality laziness:

This type of people may seem lazy, but they know when to be lazy and what to be lazy about. They do not miss the key links and eat hot pot. I get things done while singing, usually very well.

For example, when Sister Mo was in school, there were several such top students around her. She never worked hard at all. She attended class normally and occasionally slept. After class, she always went out to rest and have fun, and never attended tutoring. class, but the final grade is always among the best.

High-quality lazy people cannot be learned by ordinary people. They are smart and talented, but also know how to combine work and rest, and balance work and life. Comparing people with each other makes people angry!

3. Low-quality laziness:

This type of person neither wants to be diligent nor wants to use their brains. They have no pursuit of life and just muddle along. After eating enough, they will just stay in the dark. A lazy man, Sister Mo won’t give any examples.

4. Low-quality diligent people:

Finally, let’s focus on low-quality diligent people.

Literally, hard-working people should not be of low quality. For example, the girl with meatballs at the beginning cannot be said to not work hard and her work is quite effective. It's a pity that she used her energy in the wrong direction. This is a kind of low-quality diligence.

There is another kind of person:

They race against time, have a full schedule, and have no free time all day long.

They woke up early and stayed late, saw what the city looked like at six o'clock, and took the last bus home. They were exhausted and in a hurry.

They are full of energy and have been exposed to too many inspirational stories. They always pay attention to the opinions of industry celebrities, hang out in various social situations, and add WeChat and post on WeChat Moments to show off their overtime work if they disagree.

As a result, the instructors who sell motivational courses on success have become financially free, but they themselves have accomplished nothing and are standing still.

This type of person is also a typical low-quality diligent person. They put on a diligent attitude and even believed it themselves, but they did not enjoy the fruits of their hard work and even wasted a lot of time and energy on it. and silver. Sad phrases about tired life and tired love. Most people, most of the time, can only rely on themselves

1. Loving someone is like this, tolerating everything and forgiving everything, old man I think the other person is cute but not childish, everything is pitiful, and I always can't let go.

2. Yi’s regret is not your rejection, but that you don’t know how to refuse at all. Yi’s sadness is not because of your helplessness, but that you don’t know your own hope at all. Yi’s ruthlessness, It's not waiting for you to start, but it allows you to have a plan for yourself. Facing one, it doesn't make you change, but makes you adjust and learn to analyze. If one never sheds tears for you, that is Because your tears cannot resist its smile, it has never been hidden from you, because you have an intact heart and a brain that is difficult to open.

3. The joy of success and the satisfaction of harvest are not at the end of the struggle, but in the process of struggle. You have to walk the path you should take, no one else can take your place. Life is like a boat, swinging; life is like water, plain is the most beautiful; life is like hemp, inextricably linked; life is like material, ups and downs; life is like wine, pure but not greasy; life is like bamboo, rising step by step. Life is to be born and live.

4. You are just a annoying little goblin who bullies me like that all day long. But I also like your bad good night, my love.

5. Wash your face carefully every day, read more, go to bed on time, and eat small meals frequently. Be gentle, be generous, continue to be kind, remain loving. Don’t be pretentious in front of others and talk around for comfort, but learn to face it quietly alone and figure it out for yourself. This kind of you, even if you are single, if you are so pious to be a better version of yourself, you will definitely meet the best one, and that person will definitely be worth all your waiting.

6. I like you but won’t confess. Isn’t it a stupid thing?

7. A loss may not be solved with a lifetime of tears, but as long as you have the hope of struggle and brave confidence, the loss you get will be a stepping stone for your future. What are you afraid of? What, this is the truth, don’t be afraid, let alone worry, life is limited, the painting of life is priceless, you must know how to control life, survive your own route, find your own main line, find out the dividing line of life, you will learn, you Will change, for others, for myself, use the only effort to fight for an eternal future.

8. In the face of failure and setbacks, you must have the courage to regroup; in the face of misunderstanding and hatred, you must have the optimism to maintain your true nature; in the face of praise and encouragement, you must have the power to keep making progress; in the face of troubles and sorrows, There must be a state of hard work to resolve.

9. In fact, what is precious is not the first love but the pure love at that time.

10. I think I am the smartest person in the world. Because some Ph.D.s actually haven’t made much progress in their knowledge. They just learned how to write a sentence that everyone can understand so that even ghosts can’t understand it.

11. Most people, most of the time, can only rely on themselves. I don't have much background, I haven't met any noble people, and I haven't gone to a good school. These don't matter. The key is, which path you are determined to take, who you want to be, and how you are prepared to deal with your laziness. Move forward, believe in your dreams and persevere. Only in this way will you have a chance to prove yourself and find the dignity you want.

12. Half of the time, I can't live without someone, and the other half of the time, I feel it doesn't matter. It's not about how much I love you, but how much I can endure. ---"The English Patient"

13. The naked loneliness is wrapped in the corrosive feeling brought by the sun.

14. You left easily but you didn’t know how long I stayed there.

15. Give me a reason to be forgetful so that I can never remember you again.

16. As long as the sentences are smooth and there are not many typos that affect reading, there is no criterion for judging the quality of an article. If I randomly hand in an article by Zhu Ziqing, no teacher will think that his student's writing is as good as that of a famous writer, and he will still make many revisions.

17. Falling in love with you is like waiting for the plane to land at the dock.

18. My dear, my love for you has nothing to do with you. Even the endless thoughts at night only belong to me and will not be brought to dawn. I love you and it has nothing to do with you. Even if I stand next to you now, I still hide my eyes and don't want you to see me. I love you, it belongs only to my heart.

19. For some reason, the person I love is not in front of me, but I think about him day and night; even though he is not far away, I still can't restrain my desire for him. How strange, yet how normal, this is lust: and the object of your affection is your lover.

20. The more things a person is interested in, the more opportunities he has for happiness, and the less likely he is to be at the mercy of fate, because if he cannot enjoy one kind of happiness, he can still enjoy another. A sort of. We all have a tendency to be introspective. Instead of appreciating the countless interesting things in front of us, we focus on the nothingness inside. Do not think that there is anything great in the unhappiness of introspection.

21. In fact, I know everything, but I am not willing to expose it. I don't want to touch it, let alone squat down to sort it out. Whether you mention it or carry it, it is a story that gets to the point. You can work hard to get what you need, but you still insist on giving up. And I have always wanted to be a self-aware woman, so that I can always sort myself out in front of the mirror. Tell yourself it’s not that you don’t love me.

22. Love is subject to birth, old age, illness and death. Love gets old and sick, and if it cannot be cured, love will die. Love is going to die, the time has come. Why do we have to be in love and refuse to let go? Everything has its own timing, and you can’t know everything. You just want to delay the deadline a little longer. Flowers bloom and fall, everything has its time, why don't you accept that this is the law of nature?

23. For some people, if you catch it, you will catch it, if you miss it, you will miss it. You can only say that they are deeply in love. shallow. There are too many forks in the journey of life, and it may take a lifetime to turn around. Miss the scenery along the way, miss the snow season at this time, miss the flower season at that time. The world is too far away, life is too long, and even the flowering period is too long to withstand the passage of time. Memories change, whose waiting has faded, and whose persistence has no regrets.

24. Sometimes, some people leave without saying goodbye. Sometimes, some things are understood without having to speak. Sometimes, some roads will become longer if you don’t walk them. I always look at the space where I used to be in a daze. Those people who promised not to separate are no longer there. They turn around and become strangers. Familiar, quiet, quiet, left, left, strange, strange, disappeared, disappeared, stranger.

25. I know that there must be a me in another place. Doing things I dare not do and living the life I want.

26. Will it be a long time before you think of me and ask yourself why you didn’t cherish me in the first place?

27. Pure and flawless love has an honest character, while pretentious love is cloaked in hypocrisy.

28. Don’t wrong yourself for others and change yourself. You are the only you, the precious you, the proud you, the beautiful you. You must love yourself well.

29. The maturity of any soul must go through the baptism and tempering of loneliness. The worst feeling in the world is having to doubt something you previously believed in. Some people's life is a direct train. Some people are slow trains, and they always have to pass through many stations and experience many people. Some people always get off at the wrong station and sit too high, either missing the scenery outside the window or missing the people next to them.

30. I use the persistence of one person to deal with the loneliness of two people.

31. A person must have a gentle, kind and tolerant heart. That is to say, we should be full of respect, compassion and open-mindedness towards others. To be respectful to others is to dignify yourself; to be merciful to others, God will also give you mercy. With a selfless love, you have everything. The truth of life is just hidden in the dullness.

32. The hardest thing to say is the first hello and the final goodbye.

33. The cause is your own choice, the effect is something you have no choice in. ---Yu Minhong

34. What is the most difficult? Making peace with life. ---"Meet You on Tuesday"

35. Thank God for allowing me to meet you, you know? Meeting you is my greatest happiness, and meeting you is my eternal happiness. May you always stay in my heart. May you always stay in my heart. I receive sunshine, rain and dew from you every day, and receive strength and bravery, I love you!

36. Gradually I understand that many things can be encountered but cannot be sought. If they are not yours, why bother to care about them with all your life? .

37. Some people, no matter how nice you are to them, they won’t notice because you seem so insignificant in their lives.

38. Intelligence and wisdom are two different things. Intelligence is the ability to survive; wisdom is a state of survival. There are not many smart people in the world, estimated to be one in ten; and wise people are even rarer, estimated to be none in a hundred miles. In real life, those who do not suffer losses are smart people; those who can suffer losses are wise people. A wise man knows what he can do, and a wise man knows what he cannot do.

39. When there are people, there are grievances, and when there are grievances, there are rivers and lakes. People are the world, how do you quit? ---"The Swordsman: The Undefeated East"

40. Regret is a spirit-consuming emotion. Regret is a greater loss than a loss, a greater mistake than a mistake. So don't regret it.

41. The hardest thing in the world is love, the hardest thing in the world is ruthlessness, the hardest thing in the world to return is favor, the hardest thing in the world to break is affection, the rarest thing in the world is friendship, the hardest thing in the world is What we share is family affection. The hardest thing to find in the world is true love. The hardest thing to guess is your mood. The hardest thing to repay is kindness. The most painful thing in the world is your own sentimentality. The cutest thing in the world is your smiling expression.

42. Meet love on the street corner, but there is no future around the corner.

43. Sometimes, at a certain moment, hiding in a corner, still thinking about the person who traveled far away, my heart still hurts. Afraid of people knowing, I swallow my tears and pretend to be happy. I want to hate, but my heart is extremely soft. I remember, I loved. Time has already worn away the water chestnuts, forgive me, I only remember the beauty of the beginning.

44. One thought makes you prosperous and the other turns into ashes;

45. The bowed and silent figure is telling others that the answer is not very clear to me or very vague, and nothing can give me any comfort after everything is silent.

46. When two people get along for a long time, they will inevitably complain that you have changed. Maybe we have not changed, we are just getting closer to the real person. ---"The Wonderful Detective"

47. We all need to face up to our own shortcomings and use your sincerity to turn complaints into trust.

48. Most of the disappointment with friends comes from the words and deeds of the other party, which do not meet the standards you require of them. But I think we cannot ask for friends, not at all, because we have no power.

49. Never complain about what has happened. What you escape may not necessarily be escaped. What you face may not be the saddest. Those who are lonely may not be unhappy. What you gain may not last long. What you lose may not last long. It must no longer be owned. You may be sad for a reason, but you can find a reason to be happy. The further up a person goes, the more his heart should sink. Only when his heart is at ease can he walk steadily on the road under his feet.

50. Who will fly with me when I am depressed? Inspirational talk, why can’t most people continue to work hard?

Birds are valuable because they have wings, but people are valuable because they have ambitions.

Don’t expect anyone to stay with you forever. When there is no light, even the shadow will leave you.

To do anything, you have to endure setbacks, have perseverance and perseverance, and persist to the end with confidence.

The beauty of life lies in the indifference of the world, the tranquility and remoteness. Learn to be your quiet self, face it calmly, and smile lightly. Find a quiet place in the hustle and bustle, be true to yourself, and brighten yourself.

Life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless. Looking back suddenly, I realize that living is a mood, whether it is poor or rich, gained or lost. Everything is fleeting, as long as you are in a good mood, everything is fine!

Young people are hesitant about the unknown future, and old people are worried about the known loneliness; in middle age alone, the country has been decided, the future is in control, and every second can be controlled by oneself and fully enjoyed.

Those who dare to face difficulties will be strong in life; those who dare to challenge adversity will be strong in life.

When you are sad, eat a candy and tell yourself that life is sweet!

Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent hard work.

All victories are insignificant compared with the victory of self-conquering. All failures are insignificant compared with the failure of losing oneself.

Strong faith wins strong people and then makes them stronger.

Human abilities are limited in this life, but efforts are unlimited! Try to be a kind person, be a person with a sunny mentality, be a positive person, inspire yourself with positive energy, and also infect the friends around you. If you are sunny, the world will be wonderful because of you!

To achieve your set goals, you must be able to endure loneliness and work alone.

In fact, what can truly nourish our lives is not material and status, but love, kindness, giving, and the height of spiritual level and soul realm.

Birthday is a stage, a test and an opportunity. When in love, men will take advantage of this; after marriage, women will take advantage of this.

When a person truly awakens, he gives up pursuing the wealth in the external world and begins to pursue the real wealth in his inner world.

The real charm of people is not that you leave a good first impression on the other person; it is that the other person still likes to be with you after knowing you for many years. After going through many vicissitudes of life, I sincerely confide that it’s great to know you!

Success is actually very simple, that is, when you can't hold on, hold on again.

Time is like an animal-drawn cart, its speed depends on the whip in our hands.

Life is like an invisible balance. Everyone standing on it may go to extremes, but in the end it is all about finding a balanced fulcrum so that one can stand more steadily and walk more smoothly. Well, live a more exciting life!

Life is about hard work, nothing will be gained without asking for anything. Zhang Heng

If you have money, do things well; if you don’t have money, do people well. This is life!

The strong can survive the storms of fate.

Good ideas are worth ten cents a dozen, but what is truly priceless are the people who can implement them.

Since you have identified a road, why bother asking how long it will take.

Live with a normal heart, treat others with a guilty heart, deal with things with a heart, and understand the Buddha's heart with Bodhicitta.

Instead of worrying about the future every day, it’s better to work on the present.

Although beautiful flowers will wither, they are worth admiring when they are in full bloom. To create beautiful things in beautiful times, life will be full of meaning.

Diligence is the mother of success. Mao Yisheng

Sometimes, we pursue more things but forget everything we already have. Flowers bloom in half a lifetime, flowers fall in half a lifetime. This is a long road, and you have to walk it yourself after all.

Mountains do not reject soil, so they can reach their height; seas do not reject water, so they can reach their depth!

People who are worse than me have not given up yet, and people who are better than me are still working hard, so I am even less qualified to say that I am powerless!

The taste in the world is happiness, I like this taste. QQ space to talk about sad phrases Blessings belong to a few people, most people are sad

1. In the end, I don’t even know who the tears are for.

2. Holding hands and breaking up come from the same hands.

3. Every time I cry, I imagine that someone will hold me tightly.

4. Use my generosity to fulfill your blue sea and blue sky.

5. Sometimes, it’s not that the other person doesn’t care about you, but that you take the other person too seriously.

6. Touching melody, I am willing to die intoxicated.

7. Leaving you is not terrible, but what is terrible is how to put away my dependence on you.

8. Missing is the most powerless thing in life, and it is humble.

Ninth, the end of the season, with a shallow lyrical pace and inappropriate sadness.

10. A moment of love in my life actually takes up all my lifelong thoughts.

11. We used to be together, but it turned out that we were like a couple who were strangers.

12. As long as you are cruel enough, nothing in this world will make you sad.

13. Is the stranger who has not been with each other for a long time considered a long-term relationship from you?

14. Even if the world is deserted, there will be one person who will be your believer.

15. Accompanied by emptiness and loneliness, I move forward silently alone.

16. If I didn’t have those memories, I wouldn’t be so sad.

17. We are all hiding our sadness, but who knows the pain in our hearts.

18. This city is so empty, the memories are so fierce, the streets are busy with traffic, who can I embrace?

19. I have always known that the sun rises from the east and sets in the west, but I don’t know that the position of the sun has not changed at all.

20. If you don’t say something, it doesn’t mean I don’t know; if I don’t say something, it doesn’t mean I don’t care.

21. Love is a Appreciation rather than possession and transformation.

22. Happiness belongs to a few people, and most people are sad

23. Every time I tell others to face tomorrow with a smile, but tomorrow How should I spend my time?

24. I spent my youth in secret love not just to be with you.

25. Everyone who says he doesn’t believe in love actually has an impossible person in his heart.

26. If you don’t understand my story, don’t give me unnecessary comments.

27. Learn to be yourself and let go of everything that does not belong to you gracefully.

28. Did I overestimate your trust or underestimate your autocracy.

29. I am in the paradise of being loved, enjoying the scenery of being loved.

Thirty. Flowers are fragrant and the sky is filled with flowers. I wake up from my dreams and recall my thoughts.

Thirty-one. Although we are no longer together, I can still feel your presence when I close my eyes. around.