"Happiness Trio" interprets three types of marriage: Lang Lang and his wife are the simplest, and Zhang Guoli and his wife are the warmest. What do you think?

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Zhou Guoping once said: Between the sexes, it is easy to have physical relations, but it is difficult to have love, and the most difficult thing is to make a good marriage. Withstand the test of time.

I like this sentence very much, it tells the difference between "sex", "love" and "marriage". Having a relationship with the opposite sex is a physiological instinct of human beings, everyone can do it, and it is the easiest; falling in love with a person of the opposite sex requires a collision of hearts and sparks. This is not easy, but in the end, who can Never loved.

The most difficult thing is marriage. Two people live under the same roof every day, eat and drink together, tolerate each other's bad habits, have children, support the elderly, endure illness, and Facing the temptations of the long years is the most difficult thing in life.

If I was young ten years ago, I might not be able to understand Zhou Guoping’s words, but today, ten years later, I have married and had children, experienced the hardships and tests brought about by the trivial life, and began to Slowly understand the meaning of this sentence.

I recently watched the variety show "Happiness Trio". Through the daily lives of three couples, Lang Lang and Gina, Chen Yihan and Xu Fuxiang, Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie, I found that these three couples performed different ages. The three levels of marriage, from simple love, to true love, to deep love, also made me understand better what is a good marriage that can withstand the test of time.

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Let’s talk about Lang Lang and Gina first. This couple is so popular that they have been responsible for many hot searches, especially Gina, who almost has her own hot searches. constitution. Gina was born in 1994. She is of mixed German and Korean descent. She has fair skin, beautiful face, and curvy front and back. Even as a woman, I can't help but like her.

In the show, she was so good that she did all the housework and did not ask Lang Lang to do it at all. Although she had never cooked before, she still made decent noodles on her first try, which impressed Lang Lang. Eat with gusto.

What really makes the public talk about it is Gina’s ability to praise others. To be honest, Lang Lang is average-looking, but in Gina’s eyes, Lang Lang is simply a perfect image, and she always gives a compliment - —Your long legs, you smell so good, you are so great, so amazing...

Gina also has a trump card, that is, she can stick to Lang Lang’s body no matter where she goes. , hug and kiss when at home, and when guests come to the house, they must sit on the same stool as Lang Lang, and then hug Lang Lang and never let go.

When I went to someone else’s house to eat hot pot, because hot pot was divided into clear soup pot and spicy pot, Gina couldn’t help but like spicy food. Originally, the host meant that those who wanted spicy food should sit on this side of the table. No. The spicy foodie sat on the other side of the table. Unexpectedly, Gina's first reaction was "This won't work" because she didn't want to sit separately from Lang Lang.

It’s so boring. Faced with such an almost perfect wife, Lang Lang certainly loves her passionately. This is the most beautiful look of love. You and I met at the most beautiful age. We love every corner of each other. Your flaws are so cute in my eyes. We are almost perfect in each other's eyes. We get along like this day and night, wanting to hold hands and grow old together.

Such a marriage is certainly beautiful, it is undeniable, but to be honest, this is just the tip of the iceberg of a real marriage. Imagine that two young people, without the constraints of children, the interference of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the worries of work, come to a paradise, they only need to show affection, live a good life, and get notification fees. I believe that most people can be so happy and sweet.

This is the first level of marriage. There is no burden of life, only peaceful years. Two young people come together and enjoy a wonderful life. They like each other from body to soul, stay with each other, enjoy the most beautiful youth and the best years, love simply, love passionately, and love so much that they forget everything.

Unfortunately, this is not what marriage really looks like, or the Lang Langs only interpret part of what marriage looks like. There are more looks under the iceberg that have not been shown. About marriage, Real and even cruel.

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Let’s talk about Chen Yihan and Xu Fuxiang. This couple was discussed frequently at the beginning of the show, mainly because the husband Xu Fuxiang is so considerate. The two came to the filming show with many boxes. On the day they first arrived, Chen Yihan played with jigsaw puzzles, leaving Xu Fuxiang alone. People pack things patiently.

After a while, Chen Yihan said that he was really sleepy, and Xu Fuxiang said, "Then you can rest, I will make lunch." Then Xu Fuxiang began to do housework quietly, for fear that the sound of cooking would wake up Chen Yihan.

In the latest episode, when Chen Yihan was playing a puzzle, she suddenly said, "I feel like my vision is a little blurry today." Xu Fuxiang hurried over and touched Chen Yihan's forehead, knowing that she had a fever, so he Invite her to take a nap.

Chen Yihan lay on the sofa to rest. Xu Fuxiang thoughtfully brought him fever-reducing patches, an eye mask, and a blanket. After taking good care of Chen Yihan, he went to the kitchen to cook lunch alone. After a while, Chen Yihan woke up and took the initiative to help in the kitchen, asked what he wanted to eat today, and then started to help.

To be honest, compared to the other two couples, Chen Yihan and Xu Fuxiang are much less famous, but I still like to watch the daily life of this couple getting along. If I want to use one word to describe this couple I will use the word "real" to describe the current situation of marriage, because they show the true appearance of marriage.

Take off the gorgeous makeup, put down the busy work, and put aside the dazzling appearance of the stars. The two of them live quietly, do yoga in the morning, cook three meals a day together, and enjoy a meal. An ordinary but delicious meal, riding a bicycle for a walk when I have free time, visiting neighbors, or inviting friends to my home, that's all.

Of course, ordinary life also has many ordinary troubles, as well as many ordinary happiness. For example, when Chen Yihan had a fever, Xu Fuxiang took good care of her. Lin Xinru, who was a guest, joked, "I never thought that C could catch up with such an upright female star as Chen Yihan." Chen Yihan drank a drink, looked at Xu Fuxiang, and said, "I think it is the biggest thing in my life that I can marry Xu Fuxiang." happiness".

In my opinion, this is the second level of marriage. When we are about to enter middle age, or have already reached middle age, we have children, love is hidden, and the two return to real life. But we are willing to take care of each other's bodies, appreciate each other's efforts, love each other deeply in our hearts, occasionally warm each other with a thoughtful word, and more often use our actions to prove "I love you, You are the most important love in my life."

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Finally, let’s talk about Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie. This couple is the oldest and their way of getting along is very interesting. Zhang Guoli, in particular, is responsible for many of the laughs in the show.

When I first watched this show, I didn’t like Deng Jie very much, because sometimes I felt that she could always find some reasons to reject Zhang Guoli’s various words, which sometimes made Zhang Liguo feel thankless and enthusiastic. The feeling of having your face pressed against your cold ass.

For example, in the latest episode, the two went to the supermarket. As soon as Zhang Guoli entered the supermarket, he saw the self-service payment machine. He felt very novel and kept saying, "This machine is so advanced, it is simply too advanced." , you can directly scan the QR code to pay.” Deng Jie on the side felt helpless and a little disgusted with him and said, this kind of machine has been around for a long time, but you just don’t know it. Think about how many years you haven’t been to the supermarket!

When the two went to the supermarket, Zhang Guoli wanted to buy a pig's trotters. Deng Jie's first reaction was to wave her hands, meaning "no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no do's," Zhang Guoli said, "I really want to eat pig trotters." Hoof." Deng Jie hesitated for a while before saying, "Okay." Zhang Guoli was so happy that he quickly took the pig's trotters and put them on the shopping cart.

Later, after the two paid the money, they passed by a flower shop. Zhang Guoli said, "Let's buy a bouquet of flowers." Then he volunteered to pick up a bouquet of flowers and asked, "How about this?" Deng Jie refused again. "This is not good", "that is not good", and finally I chose a bouquet of flowers that I thought looked good.

When watching these clips, I actually still had some resistance in my heart. I felt that Deng Jie was simply a bad reviewer, always saying "no", "no", and "not good" to her husband, but I would like to observe more. If you look into the details, you will find that her love is actually hidden.

Zhang Guoli is older and less flexible. Deng Jie pays attention to everything in life and takes good care of him. When walking up the stairs, she would remind him to "walk slower" and ask, "Do you need me to help you?" When taking a walk, Deng Jie saw that Zhang Guoli was walking slower and slower and became more and more laborious, so she took the initiative to walk to Zhang Liguo. behind his back, pushing him forward with both hands.

Although Deng Jie always denies Zhang Guoli intentionally or unintentionally, in fact, this is also the truest appearance of a woman. In their original life, Zhang Guoli was busy with work, and most of the time all housework was done by Deng Jie. Managed by one person, Zhang Guoli has not even been to the supermarket for many years. It is conceivable that Deng Jie is busy in his life.

For Deng Jie, who is responsible for all the affairs of a couple or even a family, it is normal for her to have a short temper sometimes, deny Zhang Guoli's actions, and disapprove of Zhang Guoli's occasional whims.

Of course Zhang Guoli also knows Deng Jie's temper. He said: "As long as Deng Jie likes it, let her do it. Make her happy and make her happy. It's good. In the past, we would argue sometimes. But I don’t want to argue now.”

Zhang Guoli knew that he was usually busy with work and had no time to accompany Deng Jie, so during the show, he flew a kite with Deng Jie, painted with Deng Jie, and even bought special roses. Give Deng Jie a surprise.

When a marriage reaches the end, it will become dull and won’t even make a splash. But so what, as long as we love each other, it's beautiful.

Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli represent the third level of marriage, and they love deeply. The two people have gone through twenty, thirty, or even a lifetime. They have experienced too many things and understand each other well enough. They have even reached the point where they hate each other. But they still love each other in their hearts, and they have accepted each other's true form, as well as each other's shortcomings.

Deng Jie said something in the program that touched me very much. She said: "We spend time together every day, eating three meals a day, and we are really happy." I think this is the true meaning of marriage.

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After analyzing the life patterns of these three couples, let me see clearly the three levels of marriage, from the innocence of young couples to the reality of middle-aged couples. Then to the depth of the elderly couple. At different ages, we will experience different levels of marriage. If a couple is lucky enough to go from simplicity, to reality, and then to the final depth, they are extremely lucky.

This also reminds me of a sentence written by Zhou Guoping in his book: When young people go to life together, they are at most like-minded; when old people go to death together, they are truly dependent on each other.

I deeply believe that love in youth is beautiful and pure, but love in old age is deep and warm. Two people who love each other can walk hand in hand through youth and old age, and still hold each other's hands, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and cry and laugh together. This is the most beautiful thing about marriage and the most beautiful thing about life. .