Why are stepmothers so vicious to their stepsons?

Usually, children are innocent, their hearts should be pure and transparent, and they should love whoever treats them well. But why do so many children hate their stepmothers? The root cause is that many of them are instigated by their biological mothers. Why do biological mothers instigate their children to hate their stepmothers? It is the biological mothers who transfer their resentment to their children. They use their children as weapons to vent their dissatisfaction on their behalf. From this point of view, such mothers are selfish. They have given birth to children but failed to raise them personally. They are already owed The child's death, instead of feeling guilty, he pushed the child into the fire pit. How could he bear it? When they were filled with resentment and brought innocent children closer to adults' fights, they simply put themselves first and did not consider the children's feelings at all. How could such a small child be filled with resentment? What about living happily? A truly sensible mother should educate her children to get along well with their stepmother, and they should work hard to be friends with their stepmother. The two of them should work together to give their children double maternal love. The more love their children have, the happier they will naturally be. In their hearts, they will be happy because of their parents. The shadow caused by divorce will fade. Naturally, the psychology will not be so distorted that the whole life will be adversely affected. A truly smart and thoughtful child will think more about why when his mother instigates him to go against his stepmother. You can even ask your mother, why don’t you wish me well? Aren't you happy that we get along well? Do you want me and my stepmother to hate each other to make you happy? On this issue, you can choose. If you go in the right direction, everyone will be happy. If you go in the wrong direction, there will be bad consequences. If you really don't fit in, there is no need to become enemies. At worst, you can study hard and show your potential in the future. By the way, hatred caused by a fight over property is despicable. Why are you always staring at your parents' property and worrying about growing old? People who are truly capable will definitely earn wealth through their own efforts. When their parents are still alive, they will fight for the property. No wonder their life is not happy and they are destined to have no future. In today's society, with the divorce rate so high, stepmothers and stepchildren are definitely unavoidable. No one can guarantee that their future marriage will be smooth sailing. It's admirable to be able to handle the relationship well. As long as everyone is kind-hearted, considers each other more, and doesn't be too selfish, I believe the relationship can still be handled well. After all, the stepmother can accompany her father on her behalf when she is unable to take care of him in his old age. Therefore, when you hate yourself, think more about your father.