[Student Tips] What should I do if I receive a love letter from a classmate of the opposite sex?

? Your baby can! I cann't believe someone said they liked you

? Your baby is great! I cann't believe someone wrote you a love letter

? Your baby is great! I'm not carried away by love letters!

? All right! So much for lyricism, and then listen to the story. The story I experienced makes me regret it to this day.

? When I was in the first grade of junior high school, I suddenly received a love letter from a boy who had never spoken to me.

? My first reaction was not happiness, but anger! It's an insult to dare to write such a mess to me! Attention? ! I'm going to knock on the blackboard: how distorted my values were then! Some people like it as a beautiful thing, but I actually regard it as an insult! I should be happy and proud of this, but I am angry!

? Because I felt humiliated, I thought of revenge. I called my best friend, Si Er, and said that Liu had dared to write me a love letter, which simply defiled my holy heart! I will give him some color to see see! Knock on the blackboard again, please note: distorted values have made me terminally ill, and I actually want revenge in the face of others' likes.

? How to retaliate? Girl, hitting people is not my first choice. Swearing makes my mind unholy. But I can give this boy an ugly nickname and spread it widely to him. At that time, he was in a voice change period, and his voice was a little hoarse. His girlfriend said to give him a "duck and green". It hit it off, and it hit it off with my girlfriend. Besides, I gave him a good name "Toad".

? Every afternoon after school, my best friend and I all go home in the same direction. As long as I see a boy appear, my girlfriend will open her voice and shout: Duck Gongqing! After shouting, I was afraid that the boy didn't know, so I simply shouted "Liu Yazi Gong". The boy named Liu glared at my best friend with resentment, but he didn't have an attack and left quickly. I followed him to mend the knife: toad! Liu toad! Go home and buy a mirror. If you can't afford a mirror, look in the thin shit! In order to support me to be brave, my best friend even made up a jingle to curse the boy: Liu Yagong, I wish you a pleasant journey, and no one will die if you die! God, I don't have the courage to write here! What is "bad"? Ignorance is not good! It's worse to hurt others without knowing it!

? That boy named Liu is mercilessly abused by me and my best friend every day. I really couldn't know what he was thinking at first, but now I know that he must be very helpless, regretful and even resentful. However, he is a kind boy. No matter how much we insult him, he won't hurt us.

? A few years later, when I was with my best friend again, we were both wife and mother. Speaking of this matter again, we all regret it: why were you so stupid at that time? Was it because the ghost lowered his head? What is it? Keep your head down! It is pure wrong education, treating beautiful things as a scourge!

? Once I went back to my hometown and saw the boy who had grown into a middle-aged man. I'm too scared to go out. I pretended not to know him and walked away quickly. Alas, I am actually a coward, and I dare not even say "I'm sorry". I'm even afraid of going to parties. I'm afraid to see him and relive that embarrassing incident.

? So dear you, when you receive the love letter of confession, live it well first! Someone likes you, which means you are valuable and worthy of being loved. Then be grateful! Appreciate others' likes, and also appreciate others' confession! You should know how uneasy, struggling and scared the children who write you love letters should be before sending them to you. However, how brave TA was when she got up the courage to speak her mind!

After being happy and grateful, we should calm down and think about how to properly handle this matter.

? My suggestion is to accept or refuse, and don't be ambiguous about whether to say it or not.

? If this child is particularly outstanding, enters your eyes and your heart, and you particularly like it, you can consider accepting it. However, you must think clearly about what risks you will face after accepting it. Can you take these risks? Only by clarifying these problems can you make a choice that maximizes your interests.

? Let's talk about risks first. Once you accept this confession, it means that you have established a relationship with this confession. Love must be one-on-one loyalty. You must reduce your social circle, especially the opposite sex. From now on, you should draw a clear line between people. You can't associate freely with every member of the opposite sex as before.

Secondly, your affairs may be known by teachers and parents. Subjectively, teachers and parents can understand your emotional needs. Objectively, they won't approve of your falling in love in middle school. After all, your body and mind are not mature, and you are not independent psychologically and economically. When feelings are high and sweet, everyone is happy. Once the sweet period is over, feelings tend to be dull and there is not enough business ability, and injuries are inevitable. So the resistance from teachers and parents is very great. Are you sure you have enough energy to beat them?

Secondly, your story will soon spread among your classmates. There are all kinds of birds in the forest, and students also have their own ideas. People who have a good relationship with you will bless you, cover up for you and block your knife. Those who make bad friends with you will slander your character and create some incredible rumors for you. Are you sure you can really "go your own way and let others talk"?

? Thirdly, once you have sex with someone, your body will secrete dopamine, which will make you very excited and restless. When your relationship is in high sweetness, you will also secrete something called phenylethylamine, which will make you feel extremely happy. However, extremes meet. When you are happy, your IQ will also decrease and your judgment will weaken. You will infinitely expand each other's advantages and ignore each other's shortcomings. That man is clearly a scum in others' eyes, but he is a god in yours. Slowly, with the decrease of hormone secretion in your body, you will tend to be rational. When you are close to the truth, the god in your eyes and heart will collapse. Can you bear this disappointment? Or, will you readjust yourself and run this relationship with a mature and rational heart?

? One more thing you should clearly realize: after all, you are a student, and your studies are the most important thing in life. Once the relationship is established, it will inevitably distract attention and affect learning. Can you accept the cruel fact that you have failed in your studies and there is no school to devote yourself to?

? If none of the negative effects mentioned above will happen to you, and your energy is big enough to turn the negative effects of this matter into positive forces, then you can bravely and generously accept the confession of the other party, and I will definitely bless you!

? On the contrary, you must refuse! The so-called long pain is better than short pain! Like, tell others; Tell others if you don't like it! If people have the courage to write you a love letter, they will have the courage to accept your rejection! The point is, how to refuse properly is very important!

1. Write a proper rejection letter to the other party. Thank you first, thank each other for their respect, and thank each other for expressing their ideas. Then tell each other that at this stage, we should focus on our studies and don't plan to waste time on the feelings of men and women. I also hope that the other party will focus on their studies and make progress together! Finally, I wish each other all the best and find the only thrill of life in the future.

? Please send a message to the most reliable and sensible friend. If you can't stand up, ask a friend to do it for you. However, be sure to invite tight-lipped and reliable friends. Friends tell each other thanks for their love, but now is not the time to talk about feelings. Wish each other happiness. Simple and clear, crisp and neat, no harm, no harm to yourself.

? 3. Avoid not seeing, and play the fool to the end. If you are afraid of endless replies or replies, then avoid playing dumb and sink all the information into the bottom of the sea, so that the other party will get bored and shrink back.

? 4. Relieve your troubles with the help of adults. However, this move seems very unkind. I don't recommend using it unless you have to! If it is really annoying to meet that persistent pursuer, then use this important force to suppress it decisively.

? In short, no matter which way you take, don't involve yourself and each other. Don't leave unpleasant memories for yourself and your partner's future life. There is nothing wrong with liking someone. Being liked by others is a blessing, cherished, valued and revered!

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