How did everyone get through it during his wife's confinement?

I am a lady, and I am the one who needs confinement. There are ten families with this problem, and nine families are different. Let's arrange it according to our actual situation.

We are like this: before I got pregnant, I knew my husband's family couldn't get along, and I wondered if my mother's family could (give money), but just when I got pregnant in March, my mother's sister-in-law got pregnant. However, my mother didn't go back until the day my baby was discharged from the hospital (my sister-in-law was pregnant and resigned, and I insisted on going to work). At the same time, I invited Yue Yue to work that day. Then during the second month, my wife is responsible for buying food and taking care of the family's diet, me and the baby. Couples have a month's holiday: shopping, breakfast, lunch, lunch break, dinner and sleep. I spent a month in this cycle.

My wife is in labor. At that time, the company gave me five days off to accompany the baby in the hospital, and I was discharged after four days of delivery. Now the baby is half a month. My mother-in-law takes care of me from Monday to Friday, my mother takes care of me on Saturday and Sunday, and I help at home when I rest.

Tell me about my inner feelings. First of all, I would like to thank my wife, mother-in-law and mother for taking care of my wife and baby all the time. Secondly, confinement is really hard. Taking care of the baby is hard work, but it is the unshirkable responsibility of the baby horse father. My baby will get up four or five times in the middle of the night and then cry. At this time, the daughter-in-law will feed him and sleep after eating, which is quite good. Some babies need to be held by adults when they sleep. I have an example around me. The baby needs to be cuddled, then it will be cuddled by the father in the middle of the night and cuddled by the mother in the middle of the night. When the child is asleep, it's time to go to work. It is recommended to let the baby sleep in bed from the beginning, otherwise it will be really hard. Sometimes it does, so I'm going to get up and fetch water, and then my wife will change, and that's fine. I prepared a pot of hot water in advance, so I can use it directly when I need it.

To sum up, Ma Bao is the hardest during confinement, and mother is the main force to take care of the baby. I hope that Bao Dad will understand more and pay more! I hope all babies grow up healthily!

I hope my answer can help you!

Tinker bell baby and baby's father share parenting experience with you!

When my wife was pregnant, I resigned, because my parents were a little old and couldn't take care of my daughter-in-law, so I resigned, and my salary was still high. Every day, like a hotel bartender, I bow my head and ask my daughter-in-law what she wants to eat today, and then go to the supermarket to buy raw materials and come back to make them myself. This situation continues until the child comes out for confinement. I bought a lot of southern soup. Because the daughter-in-law is not well fed, the local moon meal will increase the pressure on her stomach digestive function. Daughter-in-law doesn't eat if she wants to. If she doesn't like it, she will lose her temper with me. Friends around me say I spoil my daughter-in-law. I think it's not easy for men, and it's even harder for women. Whether it's a natural delivery or a caesarean section, it's just ahead of death for women. Be nice to your daughter-in-law That's right. Now that my child is four months old, I have no financial resources for the time being. My daughter-in-law ran back to her parents' house with her children and forced me to live with her. I said I couldn't do what an old man broke into houses. After all, my parents are alone. How could I leave my parents and run thousands of miles away? After all, parents are not traveling, and the daughter-in-law has at least two sisters. Now it's stiff and divorced. Whatever. Just feel guilty. How can things be arbitrary, but please have a clear conscience!

My baby is just full moon, waiting for his wife to be confined. I have been there before [a light]. Don't think that confinement is so horrible, find the right method, give you a set of experience methods and confinement artifacts that I have explored myself, and just relax confinement [praise].

When the daughter-in-law comes back from the hospital, she should first pay attention to environmental hygiene. It only takes 30-60 minutes to clean the bedroom, mop the floor, wipe all the tables and chairs, and spray alcohol disinfection after cleaning.

Postpartum pregnant women are prone to sweating. If there is a local custom of not taking a bath, it is recommended to wipe the sweat for the daughter-in-law with dry hair, such as the back and armpits. If you can take a shower, you must accompany your wife. It is best to take a shower instead of a bath to prevent pregnant women from suddenly fainting.

If the daughter-in-law has a caesarean section, it is inconvenient for the daughter-in-law to get up, and someone needs help to feed the milk and wipe the medicine. Recommend a water feeding artifact, which is also very common, that is, screaming beverage bottles. This is for feeding my daughter-in-law, which is convenient and won't choke her. [flashing]

In terms of diet, don't eat too much oil and water in the second month, and focus on light food, such as Wu Hong soup, Luffa egg soup, and apple millet porridge. Eating too greasy will block the milk and the baby can't digest it.

In fact, it is best to take the baby in the second month. There are only two things-hunger and pulling.

If you are hungry, it is recommended to stick to breastfeeding. Breast milk is the best nutrition for babies, which can improve their resistance. If the daughter-in-law's milk is not enough, milk powder can be supplemented, generally 30-50 ml is enough.

In addition, it is necessary to wear the right amount of clothes for the baby, not too much, which is easy to cover up eczema. If it's not cold, just touch your baby's little feet often. At night, the baby should sleep against his mother to ensure that he has enough body temperature.

It's easier to pull up, just change the diaper in time. After hearing the baby's movement (fart), you can check the state of diaper after a while, whether it is urine or smelly. If you don't change it in time, the baby will have a red ass. You can also rub some red ass cream or sesame oil on your baby (our hometown is used to rubbing sesame oil).

In other words, feeding milk at night may make people boil. One thing to note is that the daughter-in-law must put on clothes when feeding the night milk to prevent Ma Bao from catching cold. In addition, preparing a thermostatic kettle can feed the baby in time, reduce the baby's crying, and have a good sleep at night [applause].

Confinement is a big deal for women. Confinement is equivalent to "new life". If you don't sit well on the moon, you may get sick. Therefore, it is necessary for a husband to take care of his wife and newborn during confinement. As for the wife's confinement, how did the husband get through it? I hereby ask my husband how he feels.

How did everyone get through it during his wife's confinement? During my confinement, I never felt that my husband was "suffering" So when I asked my husband this question, his answer was really unexpected.

Husband said that he was really tired during confinement. I gave birth in the delivery room. He didn't sleep for two days. Although he was invited to stay in the hospital for a month, he still had a lot to do. After returning home, I took care of my baby and me. I had to go to the supermarket to buy food when the baby was asleep. My husband said that he had never experienced such a full life, and basically didn't touch the ground for a day.

As a husband and father, I must take the lead in taking care of my wife and children during her confinement. No matter how hard it is, you must endure it, and you can't complain to your mother in the next month.

My husband said that when I was confined to the moon, my mind was so small that I could enlarge it with a magnifying glass, and then I cried myself. Maybe the mother didn't feel stubborn and narrow-minded when she was confinement, but in fact, this can't blame the mother. This is because just after giving birth to a child, progesterone drops sharply, the maternal endocrine is not adjusted well, coupled with physical weakness, and breastfeeding the baby, so it is psychologically sensitive (if the maternal feelings are not taken care of during confinement, it is easy to cause postpartum depression).

On the one hand, my husband said that he was tired in the first half of the month and there was no bad idea. In addition, the puerperal period is 42 days. For the sake of my health, I can only put up with any bad ideas.

Therefore, Bao Da, who is still in the confinement period, has a wife of 30 days and a puerperal period of 42 days. You can have the same room 42 days after delivery, and caesarean section takes two months. Of course, for the sake of Ma Bao's health, it is best to give birth 2 months after delivery and 3 months after caesarean section.

Tell me about myself. My baby gave birth naturally. I stayed in the hospital for two days and then I was discharged. My husband's company is a small private enterprise, and he can't give me so many days of maternity leave. After leaving the hospital, he stayed at home with me for five days and went to work.

I did it all by myself during confinement. Sometimes my baby cries in the middle of the night, so I feed myself and walk around the room, trying to make him fall asleep as early as possible, for fear of affecting my husband's sleep. He has to get up early in the morning to go to work and doesn't want to disturb the old man. Mother-in-law is responsible for cleaning, buying food and cooking, and bathing the baby.

Thirty days after the full moon, my mother-in-law returned to her hometown and I took care of the children alone. Many sisters around me have experienced this situation. But we all have a problem, that is, low back pain is easy. I guess that's how tired we are Therefore, if there is confinement at home, try to let them rest as much as possible and lie down as long as they can. Our family will cook a big pot of Jiang Shui every day to bathe the parturient for a whole month. Mothers who are confinement should rest more and drink more soup. In addition to breastfeeding children, other family caregivers should try their best to do what they can. Mothers with confinement can have more energy to take care of their children and their families. Unlike my sisters and I, it takes half a day to bend over and wash my hair.

In addition, many pregnant women still have lochia in the second month. Are you sure you can do it?

Of course, it seems that some people did. I have heard of such a young couple. The man asked for the same room when the woman was more than ten days old. As a result, the lochia was already clean, and it began to bleed intermittently. Finally, it caused infection. It is the woman who loses, and it is really not worth the loss.

In the second month, because of childbirth, the woman's uterus has not recovered, and there are still wounds in the uterine cavity. Having sex with her at this time will affect the normal recovery of the wound, and at this time, women's immune function is relatively poor, and having sex with her will bring bacteria in and cause various infections. Therefore, the second month must not be too impatient. If you really love your wife, you'd better wait two months after giving birth.

My child was born naturally. In the second month, the mother-in-law took care of the children, changed diapers and held the children at night. Help me cook and wash clothes. She carried the child to another room when he was crying, so that I could have enough sleep and rest. To tell the truth, I am very grateful to my mother-in-law.

During his wife's confinement, the husband said that he was more tired than working for two years, and his forehead hair fell out in one month.

My husband took care of me during childbirth. From the 32nd week of my pregnancy, my husband began to accompany me to rest until the baby was three months old, so my husband knew the ups and downs of taking care of the baby. Although we are old, as novice parents, we really have no experience at all, so it is much more difficult to take care of the baby than we thought. On the first night of Eva's birth, because I was delivered by caesarean section, I could do nothing but lie in bed dizzy. Everything about the baby is the responsibility of her husband. In his words, she didn't sleep for a moment, and she was busy until dawn. The next day, the baby had high jaundice and went to take a blue light. The husband relaxed for eight days, and the real pain began on the ninth day when the baby came home from the hospital. Eva was startled by her husband on the first night. She cried from 9: 00 p.m. to 6: 00 a.m. the next day. During this period, she was held by her husband except for feeding and changing urine. I said let me have it, but he didn't have to. He said that the doctor told me not to hold too many dolls for fear that the wound would crack.

After we came back from Eva, we began to live a chicken feather life. My husband not only cooks three meals a day, but also takes care of the baby. Although the baby in the second month says that he sleeps more, he has more things to do when he is not sleeping. He eats at close intervals, feeds every two hours, and cleans the bottle before and after each feeding. The time for eating is dense, and the time for pulling is also dense. I often change her diapers and feed her. After feeding, I just put it on the bed and haven't had time to wash the bottle. There is a bad smell in the air. Well, it stinks and stinks, which will keep my husband busy for a while. Anyway, in our impression, we are all spent in the repeated cycle of feeding, changing smell, feeding and changing smell.

Eva cried all night as soon as she came back and told us her habit of staying up at night. So our dolls start to move at night and sleep during the day from the second month. Husband should take care of the baby at night and cook and do housework during the day. For a month, he basically didn't sleep, day and night.

Ask him how he survived his wife's confinement, and he will tell you that he was more tired than two years ago, and all the hair on his forehead fell out in a month.

I was under great pressure when my daughter-in-law's second child was born. I am a small boss of Taobao, thinking that I have plenty of time to live with a petty bourgeoisie. Actually, I'm very tired. I get up early in the morning to cook or buy breakfast, and I have to take care of my wife who can't get up. The children got up and said 10 times that they couldn't put on their shoes, and then sent them to school. Then they bought vegetables, prepared them in advance and cooked three meals for their children. I have to pick up the children, cook, tutor the children at night, bathe the children and clean the house. If the children have a training class, I will also go. I'm the only one who can run errands. Now I'm so tired that I sleep for 4 hours every day. I have to get up and wait on the toilet when the child cries at night! They say that the special forces will only train the devil for three weeks, but I can persist for three months and die every day! I don't know who refused to compare! !