There is a strange phenomenon in the countryside. The wedding banquet has become a "cold banquet". People will not arrive at the ceremony. Why on earth is this?

Have you ever attended a wedding banquet in the countryside? In the past, in rural areas, whenever someone got married, no matter who they were, they would hold a grand wedding reception at home, inviting relatives and friends to have fun and adding a festive atmosphere.

Friends and relatives will sincerely send their best wishes and their own money.

Even if I really have something to do, I will send the money and give my blessing to the couple.

But now people's living conditions are getting better and better, but somehow the recent wedding reception is not as lively as before. Some people forget about not coming to the wedding, and their money is gone. A good wedding banquet turned into a "cold banquet". Why on earth?

There is a strange phenomenon in the countryside. The wedding banquet has become a "cold banquet". People will not arrive at the ceremony. Why on earth?

The reason why the wedding reception turned cold.

With the continuous development of society, human feelings become more and more weak.

Some people even have little contact with their relatives, and some people haven't seen each other for years.

Most people used to live together and know each other very well. If they meet their neighbors and get married, they will want to have fun, and at the same time, they can relax and have fun together.

Now people's values have also changed a lot. It feels like going to a wedding reception at the weekend. Three or five people got together, talking and laughing. The only difference is that they can have a good meal.

Unlike the era of material scarcity, people can only improve their food by attending wedding banquets.

Another reason is that there are fewer and fewer young people in rural areas now. Some go out to school, others go to work in other places. Usually they seldom go home.

These young people have been in big cities for a long time and are used to life in big cities. When they return to the village, it is difficult for them to blend together, and they will intentionally or unintentionally want to stay away from the rural people.

Nature can't naturally blend in with their joy.

Some behaviors at the wedding banquet are unacceptable.

With the rapid development of the Internet, the spread speed of network information is really unimaginable for ordinary people.

At the wedding reception, someone will always record short videos and send them online. In fact, this matter is understandable, and it is also understandable to want to record the grand occasion of the wedding.

But they also posted indecent pictures of playing tricks on the bride and groom and embarrassing pictures of people at some banquets.

Many people can't stand letting people they know and don't know comment at will.

Let the originally happy things become particularly disappointing.

I remember some time ago, Zhang San got married in the village, and Grandma Li Si went to hold a wedding reception. Not long after the opening ceremony, people didn't eat much. Grandma Li Si put it in a plastic bag, and only one scene was really good. Wu Zhao's daughter-in-law photographed it with her mobile phone and posted it online, so that everyone in the village knew how to preach to grandma Li Si.

Later, Li Si and Wu Zhao had a big fight and never met again.

There are also many people attending the wedding reception. They don't know each other, but they pretend to know each other. They will keep asking about other people's work, income and even marital status, which will invade other people's privacy.

But now many people pay special attention to protecting their privacy, and most of them are reluctant to tell others about these privacy issues.

But if you don't tell them, the scene will become very embarrassing, and you don't want to say what you want, so now many people are increasingly reluctant to attend such wedding banquets.

An increase in the number of people going out.

Urban education and medical resources are much better than those in rural areas.

Many families flock to big cities for their children's education.

In order to let children go to school with peace of mind, they will try to live in big cities, and naturally there will be less contact with the village.

Giving a wedding reception to some unfamiliar relatives can also save money. If you can't go, you won't go, and gradually it will be broken.

Thinking that the children will not go back to the city in the future and will not receive their gifts, they will simply scrimp and save.

Summary:

In the past, it was a very lively thing to hold a wedding banquet in the countryside.

But now, for various reasons, the number of banquets in rural areas is getting less and less, and it is getting more and more deserted.

I hope this strange phenomenon can disappear quickly and go back to the past.

I feel that if the pressure of social survival is increasing, the distance between people will become farther and farther, and now people don't want to disturb anyone.

But they seem to forget that the intimate relationship between people is getting closer and closer in constant mutual trouble.

I miss the original innocence of the countryside. At that time, people were sitting around watching TV and visiting each other was unforgettable.