What behaviors do children "seek psychological help" from their parents?

A woman needs to go through a lot of training from marriage to pregnancy to childbirth. Especially after the baby is born, as a novice mother, she has to keep learning all kinds of skills for fear that something will happen to this fragile little life.

Li Lan took care of the children by herself before the child was one year old, but after the child was one year old, she had to go to work in a different place because of the pressure at home, and her mother-in-law took care of the children at home. Li Lan is also a small leader in the company, so there are many things. Often children fall asleep when they get home, and before they wake up, the mother-in-law takes her son to sleep. And a few days ago, my child's aunt who studied medicine came back from other places and had dinner at Li Lan's house at noon.

Aunt looked at the lovely little nephew and really liked it, so she asked for a nap to sleep with her. When the child was sleeping, Xiao Yan kept observing and found that he not only opened his mouth, but also laughed from time to time. Li Lan joked that he raised his children too well, which was a happy laugh.

After hearing what Li Lan said, my aunt frowned. According to the truth, three-year-old children's sleep habits can already be the same as adults. But there was something wrong with looking at the child, so she remembered an epilepsy she had treated clinically before. She quickly asked Li Lan to take the child to the hospital.

Fortunately, I listened to my aunt and sent it to the hospital in time. It turned out that the child had a disease called traumatic epilepsy. The doctor said it was delivered early, so just take some medicine. After listening to the doctor's words, Li Lan recalled how many stitches the child had had before his brain injury, and now he thinks that this disease is the sequela left before.

This is a thrilling thing, that is, ignoring some small details because of being busy may delay the child's life.

What other symptoms can be observed through the child's usual performance? 1, gastrointestinal discomfort is mainly seen in infants.

The baby's gastrointestinal function needs long-term and stable development to adapt well to the outside world, so the symptoms of indigestion are very easy to appear. At this time, the baby may stretch to relieve his uncomfortable symptoms. If during this period, the mother finds that the baby's appetite is getting worse, indicating that there is something wrong with the stomach. At this time, mothers can take the method of eating less and eating more meals or massage their stomachs with their fingers to promote absorption.

When a child's stomach is upset, he may have flatulence. You can do exhaust exercises for your child, and it is generally much better for your child to fart.

Mothers should be careful not to breast-feed their children when they are crying to prevent them from inhaling too much gas;

Pay attention to burping after drinking milk to prevent gas from staying in it for too long;

Pay attention to mother's eating less flatulence-prone foods, such as beans and peanuts.

2, breathing difficulties, choking milk

Eliminate gastrointestinal discomfort, the baby continues to stretch, get angry, and choke on milk when drinking milk. At this time, it is necessary to think that the child may be pneumonia.

Especially if the baby finds pneumonia, he may not even have a fever, but he has a bad appetite, special breathing difficulties, and even choked on milk. At this time, you must take your child to the hospital to see if there are any symptoms such as pneumonia or bronchitis.

3. Parasites

Gastrointestinal parasites are the most common diseases in children's daily life. This parasite will erode the health of babies, and children often complain about their stomachs or their buttocks when they sleep at night.

It is common for children to be infected with pinworm now. Generally, children will feel itchy when they sleep at night, because at this time, pinworms will come out through the anus to ovulate outside. Generally, children can open their anus and see bugs as soon as they say itch. At this time, it is necessary to suggest using insect repellent for children and pay attention to washing hands before and after meals. Attention should be paid to washing underwear separately, and it is recommended to scald it with boiling water.

4. Skin allergy

The probability of skin allergy in children is very high. Especially the incidence of eczema is very high. Eczema is not because it is too wet, but because the barrier ability of children's skin is poor, so it causes various infections.

When children are allergic to the skin, they usually see rashes on the skin, some are red spots, and some are papules protruding from the skin surface. Children may be more excited. Grab them with your hands. If it's breast milk, it may be caused by allergies; if it's milk powder, it may be allergic to protein. It may also be caused by a bad family environment. It is suggested to start from two aspects: diet and environment.

Some parents may ignore these details of their children because of various problems. Parents should be reminded here that since their children have come to this world, they should be responsible for them. No matter how busy you are at ordinary times, you must take some time to observe your children, communicate with them, get to know them and help them thrive.